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Comedy

It’s Completely Legal To Think Nia Long and Idina Menzel Are A Couple In This Trailer for Lifetime’s “Beaches” Remake

How lucky that I’m perfectly within my right as a citizen to disregard the original plot of a movie that’s been out for 28 years and choose to instead interpret their connection as romantic and not platonic.

Erin January 18, 2017 40 Comments
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If You Show Me Yours I’ll Show You Mine: Autostraddle Staffers’ Tinder Profiles

In my opinion, a good Tinder profile is more important than good hygiene.

Mey January 18, 2017 45 Comments
Money + Work

This Business of Art Fix: Fake News From Sick People

Topics include press freedom in the age of Trump, layoffs and restructuring at the Medium network and Fusion, The Establishment’s new membership program, email follow-ups that’ll get you in trouble, The Washington Post’s new splashy app for millennial women, and pitches we’re currently looking for!

Riese January 18, 2017 15 Comments
Book Lists

8 Lesbian BDSM Novels to Curl Your Toes (and Maybe Melt Your Heart)

Spend an evening with a good book and a paddle.

Casey January 18, 2017 16 Comments
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: The Pure, Unadulterated Joy Of Gabby Rivera In This Cruel, Cruel World

Also, Janelle Monáe visited the White House and Ruby Rose fired her beard.

Stef January 18, 2017 10 Comments
Webcomics

Foolish Child #14: Thank You, Obama Family

Welp. It was fun while it lasted.

Dickens January 18, 2017 13 Comments
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Lesbian Sex

You Need Help: Why Don’t I Like Going Down On My Girlfriend?

“I really really want to like going down on her, but I don’t. It feels overwhelming — the smell, the taste, the trouble breathing.”

KaeLyn January 18, 2017 59 Comments
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Rebel Girls: 10 Ways to Resist on Inauguration Day

Don’t give Trump a moment to get comfortable. Let’s start fucking shit up as soon as he starts being sworn in.

Carmen January 18, 2017 21 Comments
Politics + Activism

Some Really Actually Good News: Obama Commutes Most of Incarcerated Trans Woman Chelsea Manning’s Sentence

Chelsea Manning is set to be freed in May 2017 instead of finishing her 35-year sentence, which would have ended in 2045.

Yvonne January 17, 2017 24 Comments
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The New York Times Wants You To Come Out To Your Parents I Guess?

New year new you.

Erin January 17, 2017 30 Comments
Geekery

Drawn To Comics: “Detective Comics” Gets Even Queerer With Dr. Victoria October, Trans Woman and Bioweapon Specialist

Harper Row, also known as Bluebird, came out as bisexual in December, and now in Detective Comics #948, a new trans woman supporting character, Dr. Victoria October was introduced and is joining the cast.

Mey January 17, 2017 13 Comments
School

Apply to the Point Foundation’s Funding for LGBTQ Undergrad and Grad Students, Open til January 30th!

If you’re gonna be enrolled in a degree-granting undergraduate or graduate program come the Fall of 2017, this scholarship is for you.

A.E. Osworth January 17, 2017 6 Comments
Lesbian Sex

View From The Top: Palette of Permission

In the beginning checking in all the time was useful. But after six months of it, Sarah was getting annoyed.

Sinclair Sexsmith January 17, 2017 16 Comments
Health

Feelings Rookie: Accepting That Feelings Aren’t Failings

When the walls of my life seemed to be crumbling in on me from every angle, I knew someone would pay. That someone was usually me.

Molly Priddy January 17, 2017 10 Comments
First Person Lesbian Sex

Why I’m Unapologetic About My Sensuality as a Black Trans Woman

“For me, as a Black Trans Woman, to find her body not only as something worthy and magnificent (as it is), but to find someone to share that magick with, may very well be one of the only moments she has to enjoy a trying and very taxing life — one that’s always trying to kill her.”

Vita E. Cleveland January 16, 2017 36 Comments
Comedy Food Lists

10 Foods From Past Presidential Inauguration Meals That Donald Trump Should Definitely Eat On Friday

From jelly “the colour of sadness” to giant cakes and turtle soup, I’ve got a menu you’ll probably want to replicate at home while your cat screams into a pillow.

Riese January 16, 2017 40 Comments
Health

Autostraddle’s Staff Shares Their Stories About Why We Need to #SaveTheACA

“Obamacare turned me from a liability into a full citizen worth protecting, and to see it roll backward instead of march forward would be a stain on our national history and an immediate threat to countless people.”

the team January 16, 2017 41 Comments
Book Lists

45 Queer and Feminist Books You Need To Read in Early 2017

Everything you want to read.

Ryan Yates January 16, 2017 9 Comments
Politics + Activism

6 Things to Know If You’re Going to the Women’s March on Washington, D.C.

Going to the Women’s March on Washington or a solidarity event near you? I have some tips!

KaeLyn January 16, 2017 24 Comments
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VIDEO! Getting In Bed With Kristin #1: Ask Me Anything

I got in bed with Autostraddle for the first time on Thursday on Facebook Live! If you missed it, I’ve got the video for you right here.

Kristin January 15, 2017 8 Comments
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