A+ Members Can Submit to the Wait Is This a Date Mailbag!

Wait Is This a Date is coming back for Season 2... and this season, A+ members get the exclusive chance to send mail to Christina and Drew! What's in this mail, you ask? Your questions, concerns, and vibe checks about queer dating.

Submission Details: We prefer voice memos, so please, please do try to record and send us a voice memo. BUT if you absolutely cannot, that's okay. We have a place for you to include text, too. We definitely do not need both. You can get these voice memos in throughout the season, but there's no better time to start than right now so that you have a chance to make it on the first mailbag episode! (We believe there will be 3.)

What happens after you submit? Drew, Christina and Lauren will look through the...

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Nico Hall

Nico Hall is Autostraddle's A+ and Fundraising Director, and has been fundraising and working in the arts and nonprofit sector for over a decade. They write nonfiction and personal essays and are currently at work on a queer fiction novel. They live in Pittsburgh with their partner, Sadie. They are also a gardener, project queer, witchy/wizardly human and are currently mourning their lovely senior rescue dog. Nico is also haunted. You can find them on Twitter and Instagram as @nknhall.

Nico has written 151 articles for us.