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Sex Toys

Anonymous Sex Toy Review: The Ramona Strap-On Harness

The leather Ramona strap-on harness feels extremely sexy in a way that nylon and spandex harnesses never do.

Guest February 10, 2017
Valentine's Day

Valentine’s Day Cards For Queer Women

Got a crush? Let Bette from The L Word, Tracy Chapman, K-Stew, and The Home Depot take it from here.

Erin February 9, 2017 29 Comments
Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft Queer Fashion

Aesthetic Rising: Your Astrological Fashion Forecast Featuring Aquarius

Whatever you’re already doing, keep it going. Those dumpsters aren’t going to light themselves.

Cecelia February 9, 2017 6 Comments
Playlists

Playlist: Black Queer Music History, Pt. 2 (1930s-1960s)

It was hard enough to be black during this time, let alone black and queer, but these musicians did it and they made awesome music!

Ari February 9, 2017 6 Comments
Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft

Fool’s Journey: Wands Show Us That Actions Speak Louder Than Words

These are the fiery cards of activism, of turning words into actions, of living your dreams…and of burnout.

Beth February 9, 2017 4 Comments
Relationships

Poly Pocket: Queer, Poly, Living On A Boat

“Boats have also been incredibly healing for me and have really helped me create better relationships in all parts of my life. They make me work harder to maintain my friendships, be better at communication, and generally just better at existing around all different kinds of people.”

Ryan Yates February 9, 2017 61 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Kate McKinnon Is Making All Your Childhood Dreams Come True

Kate McKinnon visited Sesame Street and is taking over Magic School Bus, Virginia Woolf and Vita Sackville-West are getting their own movie, Evan Rachel Wood opens up about realizing she’s bisexual, Jasika Nicole gets her own Adventure Time character (with very gal pal undertones) and more, more, more pop culture news.

Heather Hogan February 8, 2017 41 Comments
TV Show Recaps

“The Fosters” Episode 412 Recap: Everything Is Awful

Jesús skateboards around his own imagination while he’s in a coma; yet, somehow, Callie still has the worst luck!

Lucy Hallowell February 8, 2017 32 Comments
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: What’s With The Ring, Kate Moennig?

Brittani Nichols fights the forces of evil, Annie Clark needs more mushrooms and El Sanchez lives even mas.

Stef February 8, 2017 22 Comments
Sponsored Travel

In Which We Go To Ixtapa With Olivia Travel, Give Ourselves To The Sea

In November, Team Autostraddle went on their very first Olivia Travel vacation and it was really awesome and this is their story.

Riese February 8, 2017 25 Comments
Webcomics

Oh Hey! It’s Alyssa #15: Flight Risk

In the event of disability during air travel…

A. Andrews February 8, 2017 7 Comments
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Geekery

Take A Beat To Bask In The Glory of Women Scientists And STEM News

Tiny clay succulents, actual living scientists, space craft grazing Jupiter’s rings, and more.

Laura Mandanas February 8, 2017 10 Comments
Geekery

Drawn to Comics: “Kim Reaper” Is The Cute, Queer Comic You Need Right Now

Kim Reaper is a queer bright spot in this demoralizing world. It features cute art, cuter characters, funny jokes and a compelling story about death, college and romance.

Mey February 7, 2017 5 Comments
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Gay Your Makeup: An Easy, Breezy, Everyday Androgynous Look

This look will make people think: I can’t believe it’s makeup (and not just naturally good skin)!

Cecelia February 7, 2017 40 Comments
TV Show Recaps

“Supergirl” Episode 211 Recap: I Like Vanilla, It’s the Finest of the Flavors

Alex gets accidentally evil for a second. It’s sexy? But also terrifying.

Valerie Anne February 7, 2017 54 Comments
Movie Reviews

“Moana” Celebrates the Power, Strength and Magic of Brown Girls But Misses the Mark With Pacific Islander Representation

One of my favorite parts of the movie is the reverence that Moana has for her ancestors and her culture, even while she pushes it and challenges it to embrace the future. This is a reality that many POC, especially queer ones have to deal with.

Mey February 7, 2017 43 Comments
Lesbian Sex

Bottoms Up: I Dream Of Collars

I imagine being a collared submissive as a physical manifestation of my and my dominant’s commitment, a symbol around kinky folks and a public secret around vanilla ones.

Ari February 7, 2017 13 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

Donald Trump Quote or Dr. Bronner’s Magic Soap Quote?

“Bing bing, bong bong, bing bing bing.”

Erin February 7, 2017 40 Comments
AF+

VIDEO! Getting in Bed with Kristin #4: Mental Health with Special Guest Riese Bernard!

Riese got into bed with Kristin! Things got super steamy! Just kidding but they did talk about mental health and self-care.

Kristin February 6, 2017 9 Comments
Sex Toys Valentine's Day

A Color-Coded Valentine’s Day Sex Toy Gift Guide For Anyone

What do you get your hot new girlfriend, your best friend, your ex, the barista you’re secretly in love with, the couple you want to sleep with, and more for Valentine’s day? These sex toys.

Ryan Yates February 6, 2017 16 Comments
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