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Queer Fashion

Find Your Fit: The Non-Binary Student Ready to Evolve Past Jeans & T-Shirts

I’m a Taurus sun, Sagittarius moon non-binary person from France, who recently discovered that they feel much more at home in the men’s section of the stores.

M October 9, 2018 13 Comments
Geekery

The Gayest Comic Books from 2018 NYCC

From the McElroys to Zoë Quinn and Tina Horn to the random guy that tries to make me buy his titty comics, I ask everyone how gay their shit is.

A.E. Osworth October 9, 2018 10 Comments
Lesbian Sex

Impact Play 101: How to Successfully Spank and Slap With Your Very Own Hands

Your hands are your first and best sex toy, and one thing you can do with them is spank people! Hot. Let’s talk about how you can do that in a safe and sexy way!

cee October 9, 2018 6 Comments
TV Reviews

Jodie Whittaker’s “Doctor Who” Is an Impossible Thing, a Miracle

You can know your beloved Doctor is going to be a woman, and then you can witness her being a woman. It’s two different things.

Heather Hogan October 8, 2018 42 Comments
Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft

Believe It Or Not, Only 28% Of Queer Women Believe in Astrology (But 50% Read Their Horoscopes Anyway)

The queer community is not quite as obsessed with astrology as you may have thought!

Riese October 8, 2018 36 Comments
Movie Lists

20 Movies About Friendship and Misandry For When You Want to Burn it All Down

Just some gal pals who righteously and gleefully killed their predators, who ruined powerful men’s lives and careers.

Carmen Phillips October 8, 2018 69 Comments
dear casey: there's so much about our relationship that i thought was normal. you were my first so I trusted your version of reality. I didn't know not to.
First Person

A Birthday Party No One Else Was Invited To

The first time someone described Casey as having “stalkerish” tendencies, I defended her. For the most part though, I didn’t talk about it.

Abbie October 8, 2018 20 Comments
AF+ Breakups

A+ Mini-Roundtable: Oh, This Old Thing? It Used to Belong to My Ex

Finders keepers…

the team October 8, 2018 34 Comments
Society + Culture

Sunday Funday Is a Fool for Alyson Stoner’s New Queer Music Video

In a world guaranteed to make you frown, we’ve curated a list of things guaranteed to make you smile. Including: Brandi Carlile at ACL, Janelle Monae and Tessa Thompson in Lady and the Tramp, a comedy about Emily Dickinson, and intergenerational queer activists! Happy Sunday!

Ari October 7, 2018 22 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Keeping Sex Weird

How to get into anal, how to winterize a vagina, why couples who post a lot on social media are probably doomed, why weird sex is good sex and more.

Ryan Yates October 7, 2018 5 Comments
Parenting & Family

Raising Baby T. Rex: The Soft Underbelly of a Hard Femme Mama

I love how soft I am postpartum. It’s a reminder of how my body stretched and grew and changed to grow a tiny human. I didn’t know I could be that strong and that soft simultaneously. I didn’t know my softness could be my strength.

KaeLyn October 6, 2018 68 Comments
Webcomics

Yo! That’s Not Cool #13: Birthday Box

“Every time I try to put myself in a box I always break free.”

Brittney Williams October 6, 2018 5 Comments
TV Show Recaps

Boobs on Your Tube: Peach Salinger Joins an Elite Squad on This Week’s “You”

Plus: How to Get Away With Murder does a gay thing, 9-1-1 does a good thing and doesn’t kill its gay; and updates on Mayans M.C., The Purge, Young and the Restless, Grey’s Anatomy, and Station 19!

The TV Team October 5, 2018 7 Comments
Halloween

55 Fictional Witches, Ranked by Lesbianism

Once I saw Heather Hogan stop a man who had been calling her “doll” in his tracks by asking him “What’s your name, buddy?” and that’s the same energy as Endora refusing to remember Darrin’s name correctly.

Rachel October 5, 2018 107 Comments
Straddleverse

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: How Do You Stand Up For Yourself Like A Boss At Work?

Standing up for yourself at work: Intimidating? You bet. Necessary? That too. So let’s talk about it!

Carrie October 5, 2018 46 Comments
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Like You Just the Way You Are

We finally, somehow, got through this week, my loves! Have some water! Pet a dog! Hurl a straight white cis man into the sun!

Darcy October 5, 2018 31 Comments
Geekery

The Astro Boy of Asbury Park

The classic manga and anime character reimagined as a non-binary teen growing up in New Jersey.

Annie Mok October 5, 2018 2 Comments
Queer Fashion Straddleverse

Call for Submissions: But Make It Fashion

Submissions are now open for our next quarterly theme issue: But Make It Fashion.

The Editors October 4, 2018 10 Comments
TV Reviews

Maya Rudolph’s “Forever” Is Finally Here, Quietly Queer

What I’m trying to say is: Forever is like if Portlandia had a baby with San Junipero and it grew up watching only Spike Jonze and Richard Linklater films.

Heather Hogan October 4, 2018 11 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

“Adventures in New America”: A Black Lesbian Stars in This Afrofuturist Podcast From the Producers of “Night Vale”

This is the science fiction black people rarely get to star in, but I’m still a little wary.

A. Tony Jerome October 4, 2018 7 Comments
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