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Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Bisexual Badass Bombshell Harley Quinn is Back, Puddin!

Harley Quinn is sexy and screaming in The Suicide Squad trailer, plus a Disney+ musical Pride event, a bisexual buddy for iCarly, Sharon Stone has some feelings about Meryl Streep, and more!

Valerie Anne June 23, 2021 11 Comments
Straddleverse

Stacks of Boxes and a Bottomless Inbox: A Day of Work

It felt like this kind of thing came so easily when I was 25!

Rachel June 23, 2021 3 Comments
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Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: I Recognize One God, It Is Sha’Carri Richardson

Cara Delevingne and Ana Taylor-Joy are just two pals supporting each other, hmmm??? And a belated Happy Birthday to Jessica Betts, the iconic hersband herself!

Christina Tucker June 23, 2021 5 Comments
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Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: Cara Delevingne’s Home Has a Vagina Appreciation Tunnel, That Checks Out

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Carmen Phillips June 22, 2021 8 Comments
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LGBT Pride Parenting & Family

Nudity, Kink, and Safe Spaces for Kids Can All Coexist at Pride

As a gay parent, I have a lot of grievances about Pride — not one of them is about bare body parts or leather dykes and daddies.

KaeLyn June 22, 2021 34 Comments
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Straddleverse

A Creature of (Bourgeois) Habits: A Day of Work

Our trans subject editor, out in the wild and with a gay bottle of mezcal.

xoai pham June 22, 2021 7 Comments
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Politics + Activism

Chicago’s Black Sex Workers Hold Each Other Up

I thought about what it meant to be part of Black sex working community and our long history of organizing, mutual aid, protests and movements. I thought about what it meant to stand beside one another screaming at the top of our lungs.

Rebelle Cunt June 22, 2021 5 Comments
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Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Love, Victor’s Bebe Wood and Her Queer Character Both Say “If It’s Hot, It’s Hot” Which Is Hot

Plus also, Naya Rivera’s final role, teasers about Work in Progress and The Boys, lots of Batwoman goodness, and more!

Valerie Anne June 21, 2021
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TV Show Recaps

“Legends of Tomorrow” Episode 607 Recap: Love Like Legends

The Legends make one last ditch effort to save Sara and reunite her with Ava so she can finally, finally propose to the love of her life.

Valerie Anne June 21, 2021 5 Comments
Batwoman recap 217: Sophie in a red blazer and smokey eye shadow
TV Show Recaps

“Batwoman” Episode 217 Recap: Bat Bikes and U-Hauls

Honestly, goddess bless this show for being so unapologetically queer. We deserve this.

Nic June 21, 2021 9 Comments
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AF+ Issues

Lying’s the Most Fun a Girl Can Have

“I identified as a heterosexually-inclined bisexual when I started giving hand jobs for money, and I left more or less a lesbian. It wasn’t the only factor in that transformation, but boy was it a major one.”

Riese June 21, 2021 66 Comments
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Straddleverse

Two Diffusers, Tracking Stats, Weirdo Quiz Results: A Day of Work

I told you this routine was elaborate okay.

Laneia June 21, 2021 17 Comments
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Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft

Queer Tarotscopes for Cancer Season 2021: Where Do You Feel Ready to Break Free?

Rapid movement and careful consideration, following the established path yet leveling up to take a new chance: the Chariot explores what it means to push past our own limits and find victory, success, and personal power in moving beyond all that we have already known.

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NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Celebrating the Solstice

The labor of porn, what dating is like out there right now, how to date multiple people the right way, and more.

Ryan Yates June 20, 2021
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Meet-Ups / Events

A+ Pop-Up Pride Discord Server: June 26-28

June 26 – June 28! Chat and connect with A+ members, share photos of your pets, place a personals ad in the dating channel, and more!

Nico June 19, 2021 2 Comments
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Straddleverse

Ask Us Anything at Our *Personal* A+ AMA Event on 6/24!

Get creative, pry a little (but be kind please), dig deeper, save the date!

Nico June 19, 2021 5 Comments
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Webcomics

Baopu #87: Asking Fair Questions

Even though it is not always easy to do, constantly asking hard questions is a healthy practice.

Yao Xiao June 19, 2021 9 Comments
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TV Show Recaps

Boobs on Your Tube: Genera+ion Is Back for the Summer, Better and Gayer Than Before

Plus, the Season Two trailer for Never Have I Ever looks great and gay. Also, updates on All American, Legacies, Betty is back and we couldn’t love it more, everyone got high on shrooms on The Bold Type, and a surprise lesbian witch pregnancy on Charmed.

The TV Team June 18, 2021 8 Comments
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News

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AF+

This Never Happened

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