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Sam Kerry and Kristie Mewis sit beside each other on the soccer field in their national team jerseys
Sports TV Feature

Queer Footballers Dominate Disney+’s “Matildas: The World at Our Feet”

It doesn’t even matter if Australia is your team — because one of the best takeaways of the docu-series is that our team, us queers, we’re the ones who are winning. 

Heather Hogan April 27, 2023 5 Comments
Rose Quartz by Sasha Taqwsəblu Lapointe
LGBT Book Reviews

“Rose Quartz” Review: Poems for the Wounds We Carry

Shades of pink have followed me through my life, showing up in names, flowers, organs, sex.

Em Win April 27, 2023
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Lesbian Weddings

Blush and Bashful: How To Save Money on Your Lesbian Wedding

There is no right or wrong way to host a wedding — but when you’re thinking about how to save money at your gay wedding, it’s a good idea to get really clear on what is and isn’t important to you, so you can spend and save accordingly.

Vanessa April 27, 2023 12 Comments
Rachel Weisz's head superimposed onto Jeff Goldblum in The Fly
TV Feature

Five More Cronenberg Remakes That Should Star Rachel Weisz as a Lesbian

We know how much Rachel Weisz loves a lesbian sex scene, so this seems like an easy sell.

Drew Burnett Gregory April 27, 2023 7 Comments
Liv Hewson on a red carpet in close up
TV News & Trailers

“There’s No Space for Me”: Liv Hewson Brings Attention to the Limits of Gendered Emmys Categories

Nonbinary actors face a difficult choice when it comes to major acting awards: pretend to be cisgender, or decline to compete altogether.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya April 26, 2023 22 Comments
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First Person

A Lesbian Reflects on Lesbian Visibility (Sort Of)

I have started and stopped writing this so many times.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya April 26, 2023 10 Comments
Che and Miranda kiss in the season two trailer for And Just Like That
Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Butch Lesbian Bro Che Diaz Is Back in “And Just Like That” Season 2 Trailer

Cara Delevingne is joining American Horror Story Season 12, Heartstopper will be back this summer, Nicole Maines chats Yellowjackets, and more!

Heather Hogan April 26, 2023 6 Comments
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Some Answers to Some Things You’ve Been Asking Us: #47

“EVERY GARLIC PRESS I BUY SUCKS.”

The Editors April 26, 2023 33 Comments
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TV Lists

20 TV Moments That Changed Lesbian Visibility Forever

Happy Lesbian Visibility Day, the one day a year us lesbians take our corporeal form and make mischief in the streets in our flannel and Birkenstocks while singing “Fast Car” by Tracy Chapman.

Heather Hogan April 26, 2023 8 Comments
chef Melissa King in a suit and sunglasses leaning forward
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: This Pic of Chef Melissa King Is Such an Enormous Flex That I Actually Don’t Have the Capacity To Discuss It

What is the DEAL with Marfa?? Fame-o’s seem to really love going there!!

Christina Tucker April 26, 2023 1 Comment
Sai, a Black lesbian, wears glasses and a sparkly track jacket over a black tee and pink pants and has her hands on her hips. next to her, there are pink and purple distorted flowers
First Person

Calling Myself a Lesbian Has Been a Lesson in Self Acceptance

I think this is always who I’ve been, and the other words were the ones I was trying on to see if they fit.

Sa'iyda Shabazz April 26, 2023 21 Comments
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Puzzles

Mini Crossword Is Announcing Her Place In the Family of Things

What’s worse than raining cats and dogs?

Amanda Rafkin April 26, 2023 3 Comments
Keke Palmer makes a kissy face at the camera at the Los Angeles LGBT Center Awards Gala.
Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: “I Never Felt Straight Enough; I Never Felt Gay Enough” Says Keke Palmer, That’s Relatable

And I don’t know how else to say this but ugh… for Lesbian Visibility Week, they invited Jennifer Beals to the White House??

Carmen Phillips April 25, 2023 21 Comments
Two clementines are against a light blue background.
Lesbian Sex

10 Hot Things You Can Do to Boobs, Chests, and Nipples

It’s spring! Tits the season for appreciating boobs, chests, and nipples — so let’s do some chestploration and nipple stimulation!

Ro White April 25, 2023 10 Comments
a close-up of two young people wearing distressed denim, one white, one Black, holding hands
Coming Out Dating

You Need Help: Can I Date While Living With My Homophobic Parents?

Dating can be amazing and wonderful. But if you currently rely on homophobic parents for material support, it may be time to focus on planning the next stage of your life — one where you are less dependent on your parents, and have the space to fully be yourself.

Darcy April 25, 2023 2 Comments
Just As You Are by Camille Kellogg
LGBT Book Reviews

“Just as You Are” Is the Gayest Rom-Com I’ve Ever Read

Just As You Are is a full-on enemies-to-lovers romance that exudes queerness at every possible turn.

ashni April 25, 2023 3 Comments
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Puzzles

Guessing Game: *** ***

What do you call a bee that can’t make up its mind?

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya April 25, 2023 19 Comments
Forever Means EP by Angel Olsen
Music

“Forever Means” EP Creates Perfect Bridge Between Angel Olsen’s Past, Present, and Future

As I finished the EP, I found myself immediately starting it over to listen again from the beginning.

Stef Rubino April 24, 2023 8 Comments
Negative Money by Lillian-Yvonne Bertram, The World Keeps ENding, and the Wold Goes On by Franny Choi, and Freedom House by KB Brookins
Book Lists

8 Poets With New Queer Books To Check Out This National Poetry Month

If I’ve given you one poetry recommendation, I’ve held back from giving 15.

A. Tony Jerome April 24, 2023 5 Comments
Marja-Lewis Ryan on the red carpet in a blue suit + a promo photo of Sarah Jessica Parker and Helen Hunt in the 80s cult classic Girls Just Wanna Have Fun
Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: The L Word: Generation Q’s Marja-Lewis Ryan is Remaking “Girls Just Wanna Have Fun”

Station 19 has been renewed, the trailer for Selling Sunset’s new season, and the new queens of RuPaul’s Drag Race All Stars.

Heather Hogan April 24, 2023 14 Comments
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