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Geekery

Drawn to Comics: “My Two Lesbian Ants” Gives Us Four Perfectly Gay Panels of Joy

“They want good ant representation in the media they watch. They freak out and throw up when a girl ant actually says “yes” to going on a date with them. Lesbian Ants! They’re just like us!”

Mey April 10, 2018 11 Comments
Lesbian Sex

You Need Help: You Don’t Know What To Do With Your Clit

Every body has a history; yours doesn’t preclude you from pleasure. Go forth and jam!

A.E. Osworth April 10, 2018 10 Comments
LGBT Book Reviews

Read a F*cking Book: N.K. Jemisin’s Broken Earth Trilogy Is a Revolution

N.K. Jemisin’s multiple Hugo Award-winning Broken Earth trilogy, which ended with The Stone Sky just a few months ago, asks the opposite of the questions posed by other epic fantasy series. What if the world doesn’t deserve to be saved? What if the most righteous thing a hero can do is watch the earth burn?

Heather Hogan April 9, 2018 10 Comments
TV Feature

The National Champion of Kissing: Kate and Emaline of “Everything Sucks”

The victory is bittersweet after news broke on Friday that Netflix decided not to renew Everything Sucks for a second season, but if there’s one thing we’ve learned during Autostraddle March Madness, it’s: don’t underestimate Kemaline fans.

Natalie April 9, 2018 44 Comments
MTBI Personalities
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Monday Roundtable: Introverts and Extroverts and Our Myers-Briggs Personality Types

“Apparently INFJs operate more off feeling, and I would say that intuition very much commands my brain/heart ship, so it’s an accurate assessment. How’d this bitch know that I’m soft-spoken though?”

the team April 9, 2018 69 Comments
Quizzes TV Feature

Trivial Cahoots: How Well Do You Know The Disney Channel Original Movies That Made Us Gay?

You probably already know what the gayest DCOMs are, but do you think you know everything there is to know about these movies?

Mey April 9, 2018 36 Comments
Society + Culture

Sunday Funday Is Nice for What?

Octavia Butler and Janelle Monáe, lesbians in lists, Cardi B and SZA, and beautiful women in Drake’s new music video! This Sunday is definitely a funday!

Ari April 8, 2018 11 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Knows Whether Scissoring Is Real

A FOSTA/SESTA explainer, plus whether scissoring is a real lesbian sex thing, how to keep casual sex casual, how to handle jealousy and more.

Ryan Yates April 8, 2018 6 Comments
Love + Sex

Y’All Need Help #23: Spring Cleaning Part 2

30 questions! IS ONE OF THEM YOURS?? Wow!

Laneia April 7, 2018 43 Comments
TV Feature

Autostraddle March Madness — The National Championship of Kissing

It’s Petra and JR vs. Kate and Emaline, in the ultimate smooching showdown!

Natalie April 7, 2018 30 Comments
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

Abbi Jacobson is Bisexual: Ilana Wexler Has Called Dibs Though

Broad City’s Abbi Jacobson told Vanity Fair that she’s single and ready to mingle with men or women.

Riese April 7, 2018 7 Comments
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Grease Bats: Not My Jam

“Dating. Sex. Romance. It’s not my jam.”

Archie April 7, 2018 15 Comments
TV Show Recaps

Boob(s On Your) Tube: Arizona Robbins Does Not Have Breast Cancer, Will Not Exit “Greys Anatomy” Dana Fairbanks-Style

Plus a couple of bummer updates on Famous In Love and The Arrangement.

The TV Team April 6, 2018 29 Comments
Straddleverse

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: What Are You Loving TF Out of RN?

I want to hear about your week AND ALSO the thing you are so into right now and you can’t believe you haven’t been into it all along, gosh, life would’ve been so much better if you had been!

A.E. Osworth April 6, 2018 145 Comments
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Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Coming To My Window

Spinach artichoke dip is the modern woman’s creamed spinach.

Darcy April 6, 2018 40 Comments
Movie Reviews

Shall We Talk About This Extremely Gay Scene From “Shall We Dance” (2004)?

I was just a closeted teen lesbian, wishing on every star in the galaxy that I could one day waltz with Jennifer Lopez!

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya April 6, 2018 25 Comments
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff) Quizzes

Celesbian Gossip Through the Ages Trivia Quiz

How much do you know about the various personal entanglements of various lesbian, bisexual and queer celebrities? There’s only one way to find out, and it’s this quiz. Seriously there’s no other way.

Riese April 5, 2018 70 Comments
Book Lists

Read These 10 Books with Queer Witches

Queers and witches just go together.

Siobhan April 5, 2018 8 Comments
Parenting & Family

You Need Help: Your Christian Family Loves Trump’s Debauchery, Hates Your Gayness

Jesus doesn’t have anything to say about gay people, but he has PLENTY to say about the kinds of religious leaders who support a man like Donald Trump.

Heather Hogan April 5, 2018 47 Comments
Coming Out First Person

Relearning How To Dress Myself From The Closet I Came Out Of

I feel the need to do something to the outside of my body to mark the tremendous shift I’ve experienced inside — to somehow match my inner self to my outer self. But I’m not sure who my inner self is anymore.

Katrina April 5, 2018 78 Comments
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