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TV Show Recaps

“Black Lightning” Episode 211 Recap: Sweet, Sweet Forehead Kisses

Grace Choi is back! And she brought kisses and French fries!

Carmen Phillips January 30, 2019 5 Comments
TV Show Recaps

“Good Trouble” Episode 104 Recap: Playing the Game

Callie learns another secret she’s gotta keep, Mariana learns another hard lesson about being a young Latina in a dudebro industry, and Alice learns she’s got to re-learn how to say no.

Natalie January 30, 2019 5 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Natalie Morales Will Play an Openly, Casually Bisexual Lead on NBC’S New Comedy “Abby’s”

Plus: Lena Waithe’s Boomerang looks so so gay, Megan Rapinoe thinks men should take a few hundred years off, Sasha Lane lands a spot in Gillian Flynn’s new show, Brittani Nichols is writing for Issa Rae and Robin Thede’s Black Lady Sketch Show, and your first look at Rosie Perez as Renee Montoya.

Heather Hogan January 30, 2019 8 Comments
First Person

You Don’t Always Transition Once

Transitioning is stigmatized as betraying our assigned gender. Sometimes, though, it takes two betrayals to get where we need to be.

Esther Nikbin January 30, 2019 30 Comments
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: Tessa Thompson Sure Knows How To Put Out A Fire

Also, Kehlani named her baby and King Princess’ newest collaboration will have you weeping.

Stef January 30, 2019 13 Comments
Webcomics

Foolish Child #38: TV Trash

“I will not have you ruining another show with your ‘facts.'”

Dickens January 30, 2019 4 Comments
TV Reviews

Gina Rodriguez’s Carmen Sandiego Is a Kickass Feminist Hero Who Makes Every Man Around Her Look Like a Buffoon

Latina legend Carmen Sandiego is the most competent, confident person on the show, unapologetic in her femme-ness. A feminist Latina Robin Hood!

Heather Hogan January 29, 2019 10 Comments
Politics + Activism

Empire’s Jussie Smollett Beaten in Racist, Homophobic Attack by Trump Supporters

An attack on a black gay celebrity like Jussie Smollet is also a message sent to his black and gay fans. So today, for all our queer fam out there, but especially for my black queer family, feel the love and strength of our community. Our kinship is a gift. Please, fortify yourself in that gift today.

Carmen Phillips January 29, 2019 29 Comments
Gender

You Need Help: How Do I Tell If I’m a Butch Cis Woman or a Trans Non-Binary Person?

If I could tell everyone how to differentiate between gender expression feels and gender feels, I’d be Sovereign Ruler of Gender and maybe things would be easier, but probably also a lot less fun.

A.E. Osworth January 29, 2019 69 Comments
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What to Read When You’re Queer and Expecting: 6 Parenting Books That Smash The Patriarchy

Unfortunately, most parenting books weren’t written with queer moms, trans dads, non-binary parents and gestational carriers, and families that look like ours in mind.

KaeLyn January 29, 2019 23 Comments
TV Reviews

“How to Get Away With Murder” Destroys Eve and Annalise and Also Our Hearts

Days later, I remain astounded by these writing choices and their cruelty.

Natalie January 28, 2019 16 Comments
TV Show Recaps

“Supergirl” Episode 411 Recap: Paradise Lost

Nia finally gets a place on Team Super and Alex’s hair somehow gets gayer?

Valerie Anne January 28, 2019 16 Comments
Pets & Animals

How My Cat’s Anxiety Helped Me Be Gentler With Myself About My Own

“Why would I be gentle with myself when I was very clearly doing this thing — like so many other things in my life — wrong? No, I didn’t need gentleness. I needed more self-discipline, more conviction, more toughness. I needed to get my fucking shit together.”

Heather Hogan January 28, 2019 50 Comments
AF+

Some Answers to Some Things You’ve Been Asking Us #23

“Little A+ box, I just wanted you to know that today I did my part in helping to burn the patriarchy to the ground.”

The Editors January 28, 2019 41 Comments
Relationships

Monday Roundtable: I Learned It by Watching You

They say you learn your first lessons about how to be a person from your family, and that applies to chosen family, too. Today we’re sharing something we learned from watching another Autostraddle staffer that’s made our life better and brighter.

the team January 28, 2019 24 Comments
Music

Queer Your Ears: New Music by Queer & Trans Artists from January 2019

This month, there are some wintry tracks for relaxing and looking out the window at a rainy day, as well as some upbeat stuff for breaking out of the doldrums. And a bunch of stuff in between.

Abbie Jones January 28, 2019 16 Comments
TV Show Recaps

Viva La Vie Boheme! This Is Your RENT Liveblog!

Join Carmen, Valerie, KaeLyn and Al(aina) as they liveblog RENT live!

Carmen Phillips January 27, 2019 62 Comments
Society + Culture

Sunday Funday Is Over the Moon About Brandi Carlile’s Grammy Noms

Navajo grandparents advocating for their grandkids, a school in Latin America for trans youth, video games as a way to explore queer identity, plus RENT is back live, tonight! Happy Sunday!!!

Ari January 27, 2019 9 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Scheduling Sex

Scheduled sex doesn’t have to be boring. Plus, how to like receiving oral more, a sex ed chatbot, how to have uncomfortable sexual conversations and more.

Ryan Yates January 27, 2019 6 Comments
Parenting & Family

Raising Baby T. Rex: Dinos Resist! A Guide to Raising a Little Activist

“What I’m saying is, if you’re sitting in the legislative chamber trying to hear the floor debate and someone’s kid starts crying or yelling “Baby Shark!” please be kind to them.”

KaeLyn January 26, 2019 20 Comments
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