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Visual Art

Scenes from a Gender: Illustrated Moments of Trans Womanhood

Four scenes from my life as a trans femme.

Bishakh Som July 17, 2020 22 Comments
Villainelle from the show Killing Eve sits on a couch in a fluffy pink dress, receiving therapy
AF+

Into the A+ Advice Box #15: So Your Boss Sent a Hurtful Email About You

Broken up with during quarantine, exploring your sexuality in quarantine, feeling concerned about being “okay” in quarantine, sage advice for parents of a non-binary kid and more!

the team July 17, 2020 12 Comments
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Lesbian Sex

S L I C K: Sizzling Erotica Round-Up

Life moves fast. Time is a warp. It’s possible that you missed some of these tension-filled erotic S L I C K moments. Join A+ so you can read the slow, tight tension — right before the frenzy — that I love to revisit.

Kamala Puligandla July 16, 2020
TV Lists

The Santana Lopez Moments That Changed Our Lives — And The World

“She raises both hands to the orchestra and she smiles into the audience. She nearly breaks her face in two because she knows, she really knows, that she did it. She’s the star.”

The TV Team July 16, 2020 22 Comments
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

Did Dakota Johnson Come Out as Bisexual, or Just Hang Out With Cara Delevingne?

Or are they the same thing??????

Stef July 16, 2020 9 Comments
Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: How the Thumb Ring Became Gay Culture

Elena Delle Donne’s ongoing struggle with the WNBA, a collection of some of the most moving and queer tributes to Naya Rivera, Mrs. Frizzle’s queer legacy, and more.

Natalie July 16, 2020 11 Comments
Movie Lists

My Top 10 Favorite Lesbian Films: Valerie Anne, Who Loves a Cheesy Movie and Won’t Apologize For It

I swear the Blockbuster cashiers knew I was gay before anyone else in my life.

Valerie Anne July 16, 2020 17 Comments
Movie Features

GLAAD 2020 Film Report: Mainstream Movies Continue to Ignore Lesbian, Bisexual, Queer and Trans Women

Of 118 major studio releases in 2019, 15 included gay men, eight included lesbian or bisexual women, and zero included trans characters.

Heather Hogan July 16, 2020 8 Comments
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Lez Liberty Lit: Values-Driven Art Making

The past and future of trans narratives, a new Black-owned bookstore in the Twin Cities, updates on everyone’s pandemic diaries and more.

Ryan Yates July 16, 2020 1 Comment
Television

Yes All Cops, Even Olivia Benson

Law and Order: SVU presents Olivia Benson as a savior of survivors, and as a kid she was my hero. Later, I came to acknowledge that the cops cannot, will not, and do not want to save us — they’re harmful and unnecessary.

Quiniva July 15, 2020 21 Comments
TV Lists

My Top 10 Television Characters: Heather Hogan, Who Loves a Tough Exterior and a Gooey Marshmallow Center

Anne Lister is that dyke.

Heather Hogan July 15, 2020 40 Comments
Movie News & Trailers

Pop Culture Fix: Ali Liebert Is Making the Hallmark-y Lesbian Christmas Movie of Your Sugar Plum Dreams

Glee’s cast remembers Naya Rivera, She-Ra showrunner Noelle Stevenson is non-binary, Scooby-Doo’s Velma is a lesbian, and HBO Max is making a When Katie Met Cassidy film.

Heather Hogan July 15, 2020 3 Comments
Webcomics

Foolish Child #76: You Don’t Need to Justify Your Grief

“What right do I have to feel grief over this? It’s not my loss.”

Dickens July 15, 2020 8 Comments
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: Frankly, 2020 Owes Us These Photos of Ali Krieger and Ashlyn Harris

Also, Melissa King’s dog is Top Chef, Rahae is single handedly bringing back hats, and Janet Mock remembers Paris.

Christina Tucker July 15, 2020 7 Comments
Sex Toys

8 of the Strongest, Rumbliest Vibrators for When Your Love Affair With the Magic Wand Ends

These vibrators are strong. Really really strong.

Archie July 14, 2020 4 Comments
Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: Will Thailand Become the First Southeast Asian Country to Legalize Same-Sex Partnerships?

The WNBA’s abbreviated schedule for the season was released, new music from The Chicks is only a few days away after 14 years, a fund for Black trans women artists, and did the American Girl company steal the identity of a nonbinary astronomer for a doll??

Natalie July 14, 2020 12 Comments
Dating

You Need Help: How Do I Stop Getting Emotionally Attached to My Pandemic Crush?

Part of decentering romantic relationships from our lives, part of being independent, part of seeking a kind of individuality that cisheteropatriarchy denies, has to include removing a value judgement from these very things.

Drew Burnett Gregory July 14, 2020 16 Comments
Graphic of Cheryl Dunye's face on a poster of the classic Black queer film The Watermelon Woman bleeding into a painting of Heloise in a green dress taken from Celine Sciamma's Portrait of A Lady On FIre
Movie Features

Criterion’s “Portrait Of A Lady on Fire” Release Is Incredible — We Still Deserve More

Portrait of a Lady on Fire is only the third film in the Criterion Collection to feature queer women that’s actually directed by a queer woman.

Drew Burnett Gregory July 14, 2020 12 Comments
TV News & Trailers

Naya Rivera Is Dead at 33, Glee Star’s Body Recovered from Lake Piru After 6-Day Search

Naya Rivera was a firecracker, a superstar, a singular talent who simply could not be relegated to the background.

Riese July 13, 2020 20 Comments
Politics + Activism

What Is Even Happening in Andrew Cuomo’s Bananas New Covid-19 Poster for New Yorkers?

“I can only describe my current emotional state as 🙃 “

Stef July 13, 2020 27 Comments
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