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Dating

11 Queer People Share How They Flirt

“Did Shakespeare teach me how to flirt? MAYBE SO.”

the team October 21, 2024 2 Comments
1 across / 4 letters / Controversial Andrew Lloyd Webber musical with singing felines
Puzzles

Mini Crossword Will Make You a Sandwich

And it won’t skimp on the pickled carrots.

Darby Ratliff October 21, 2024
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Movie Features Quizzes

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Willow Heath October 19, 2024 8 Comments
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AF+ Puzzles

AF+ Crossword Misses the Olympics :(

But good news! We can still watch women’s sports any time we want!

Rebecca Goldstein October 19, 2024
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Sports

NWSL Reality Show ‘The Offseason’ Debuts With 3 Lesbians, 1 Miami Castle With a Broken Elevator

In the season premiere of women’s soccer reality TV show ‘The Offseason’, Taylor Smith considers catching and preparing fish for the whole group.

Riese October 18, 2024 3 Comments
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AF+

I Feel Like I’m Waiting For My Ex To Want to Get Back Together

He left the door open for trying again, so how are you supposed to process this sudden breakup? Also, a reader asks how to distinguish between anxiety and instinct.

the team October 18, 2024 1 Comment
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First Person Issues

My Body as Haunted House Metaphor

Horror movies, like many genres of entertainment, are deliciously, or not so deliciously, depending on where one sits, populated by tropes.

Autumn Fourkiller October 18, 2024 3 Comments
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Movie Reviews

‘Anora’ Doesn’t Judge Its Sex Worker Protagonist — Is That Enough?

Although the film carries its head high for nearly the entire runtime, it might just undersell itself in the last moments. Absence of judgment does not necessarily give way to a mature reading of the character’s inner life and emotional drives.

Olivia Hunter Willke October 18, 2024
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Movie Reviews

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The investigation that most needs to occur is an internal investigation done by all of us about how we think about celebrity and parasocial relationships.

Drew Burnett Gregory October 18, 2024 3 Comments
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AF+ Puzzles

AF+ Mini Crossword Will Cherish You Intensely

Mini crossword will put you on a pedestal <3

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Movie Features Music

There’s Nothing Fake About Tegan and Sara

Tegan Quin chats with Autostraddle about the latest Tegan and Sara projects.

Gen October 17, 2024 1 Comment
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Comedy Issues

The Men of Scream, Ranked by Gender Envy

This is my first time watching Scream as an out trans guy, six months on hrt and trying to figure out what kind of man I want to be or even could be.

Motti October 17, 2024 14 Comments
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First Person

Playing Gay ‘Survivor’ in Florida Reminded Me of the Power of Play

Out-gay, Out-slay, and Out-sport are the three pillars of OUTVIVOR, a Survivor-inspired weekend birthed by OUT Sports, an Orlando queer sports league started by John Teixeira in 2018. 

Em Win October 17, 2024 1 Comment
Sports

Why Is Boston’s New Women’s Soccer Team Ad Campaign So Transphobic and Bad

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Movie News & Trailers Sports

The True Story Behind Sydney Sweeney and Katy O’Brian’s Queer Boxer Movie

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Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya October 16, 2024 3 Comments
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First Person Music

I Had a Spiritual Awakening at Sweat Tour

In many ways, the SWEAT Tour is an assertion that one’s enjoyment of sex and clubbing and music is more than a shallow hobby: It is a reminder that, amidst a terrifying world, we are allowed to make moments for pure fun.

Gabrielle Grace Hogan October 16, 2024 1 Comment
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Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: Cardi B Will Never Forget Where She Comes From

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Christina Tucker October 16, 2024 1 Comment
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AF+ Puzzles

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