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NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is a Pre-Porn Retina Scan

When your girlfriend is your findom, what happens if your dog eats your sex toy, how to keep a shitty email from ruining your day and more.

Ryan Yates November 14, 2021
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We Love A Sex Drawer, But Sometimes A Strap Is A Work Of Art

Are your straps proudly on display or tucked away for a ::ahem:: rainy day?

Katie Alafdal and Ashley Broadwater
November 14, 2021
Movie Reviews

I Saw “Too Much Sun,” The Worst Gay Movie Ever Made, and I Wish I’d Gone to Poodle Camp Instead

This 1990 film has everything: Robert Downey Jr making a salad, Eric Idle in a leopard-print robe, a vaguely European lesbian character named Susan, murder, three nuns, and so much smooth jazz!!!!

Riese November 13, 2021 22 Comments
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Sex Toys

Pick Your Own Adventure: Strap-On Edition

Very Realistic or Wildly Fictional, Which style strap is calling your name?

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Boobs on Your Tube: “Legacies” Tempts With Baddie Bisexual Vampires

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November 12, 2021 13 Comments
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My Strap Pack Doesn’t Have Cheeto Dust In It And Yours Shouldn’t Either

A look into the essentials of my beloved strap pack.

Syn November 12, 2021 10 Comments
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TV News & Trailers

And Just Like That: Miranda Receives Strong Bisexual Eye Contact From Sara Ramirez in First SATC Reboot Trailer

MIRANDA HOBBES BISEXUAL WHEN!?!?

The TV Team and Riese
November 12, 2021 1 Comment
Society + Culture

Hallmark, Dabur and the Politics of LGBTQ+ Inclusive Advertising

I would argue that it becomes impossible to really talk about LGBTQ+ rights without delving into religion because religions the world over have long called us sinners. This is as true in America as it is in India.

himani November 12, 2021 25 Comments
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TV Show Recaps

The Morning Show: Am I Your Woman?

They have more chemistry here, but the first kiss was hotter? Hotter is a very generous reading, by the way, because nothing is like, really hot on this show, aside from the streaks of white blond in Jen’s hair and Juliana’s many gay outfits.

Christina Tucker November 12, 2021 9 Comments
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Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Ready for the Revolution

“I completely misunderstood Big Dick Energy.”

Darcy November 12, 2021 8 Comments
Lesbian Sex

Sharing Is Caring — Or Did You Skip That Day In School?

Do you get a new strap for each partner or do you say “Baby…just boil it”?

Carolyn Stransky and Arese Sylvester
November 12, 2021 9 Comments
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Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: 2021 Is Officially the Deadliest Year on Record for Transgender People

Seriously. Absolutely Seriously. FUCK THISSSSSSSSSS.

Carmen Phillips November 11, 2021 10 Comments
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TV Show Recaps

“Twenties” Episode 205 Recap: Almost Doesn’t Count

Twenties is bringing up a really important, fairly nuanced, conversation about generation gaps and what it means to “come out” or “be in the closet” and who’s closet is it anyway? Plus, no Black gay person in the history of never has ever said No to Diana Ross.

Carmen Phillips November 11, 2021 8 Comments
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AF+

S L I C K: How to Fuck Your Friends

A narrator’s crush on one partnered babe turns into a threesome. “They bite hard on your nipples, you’re all soaking wet, you tell each other, it’s not weird, it’s just fun.”

Vanessa November 11, 2021 4 Comments
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First Person Lesbian Sex

Strapping As A Fat Femme Was My Black Queer Sexual Liberation

A fat Black femme explores the relationship with her body and shares how strapping became part of her sexual liberation.

Demetria Blooms November 11, 2021 6 Comments
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TV Show Recaps

“Legends of Tomorrow” Episode 705: A Wrinkle in Time

Sara accidentally disappears her wife, while Spooner, Astra, and Gideon are in a race against time to save the Legends.

Valerie Anne November 11, 2021 5 Comments
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TV Show Recaps

“Batwoman” Episode 305 Recap: Guess Who’s Coming to Dinner

MY HEART CANNOT HANDLE THIS BUT ALSO BURY ME IN THE ANGST PLEASE! 

Nic November 11, 2021 25 Comments
Straddleverse

We Need Help: Now Hiring Senior Director of Advertising Sales

We’re looking for someone with experience in the LGBTQ+ or Women’s Media digital ad space to bring their skills and talents to our indie queer website!

Riese and Sarah
November 11, 2021 8 Comments
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First Person Lesbian Sex

I Always (Never) Feel Like — Somebody’s Watching Me

Are you gonna let them watch you strap up or are you a “BRB” kinda babe?

Danielle and SC Dillon
November 11, 2021 7 Comments
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Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: What Is Happening With Demi Lovato and These Lizard Alien People?

Also! Ariana Grande and Cynthia Erivo in Wicked, Niecy Nash will host the fourth annual Celebration of Black Cinema, and the trailer for Netflix’s Single All the Way.

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