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Sara Ramirez and Jessica Parker at the premiere of And Just Like That
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: I Am Always in a Place To Discuss a DAMN EAR CUFF ON SARA RAMIREZ BECAUSE IT IS DEEPLY HOT!!!!

Plus, one thing Laverne Cox is gonna do is dance in a gorgeous gown, Niecy Nash invented the color blue, and Black girls doing photoshoots in the ocean are top among my favorite things in life.

Christina Tucker December 15, 2021 3 Comments
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Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: End Your Day With the Top 10 Lesbian Longing Glances of 2021, Thank Us Later

How the unicorn became everything to everyone, help trans youth this holigay season with Transanta, and honoring the homoerotic mark of Anne Rice.

Carmen Phillips December 14, 2021 1 Comment
A two-photo collage of Candace Parker on her wedding day
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff) Sports

Candace Parker Is Gay and Gay Married With a Gay Pregnant Wife

Well and now the Chicago Sky are for sure the gayest team in the WNBA!

Heather Hogan December 14, 2021 32 Comments
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First Person Holigays

Grief Is a Promise

The unthinkable can and will happen, but sorrow and loss are only splinters of what we can handle. The ritual is in the remembering.

SC Dillon December 14, 2021 5 Comments
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AF+

It’s Time To Go Back To The Queer Future!

You’ve somehow been thrust back to the year 2009, and something is playing havoc with the space-time continuum.

Sally December 14, 2021 31 Comments
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Friendship

You Need Help: I Don’t Know How To Be a Casual Friend

It sounds like you want to be neutral with your former friend. That will take some work and some boundary-setting on your part, but it’s doable.

Vanessa December 14, 2021 7 Comments
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Community

Love Letters to Trans People: Part 1

Consider this a reminder to check your virtual mailbox. You have some love letters addressed to you!

xoai pham December 14, 2021 5 Comments
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Book Lists

75 of the Best Queer Books of 2021

It was a banner year for queer horror! Plus, fantasy, historical fiction, memoir, nonfiction, YA, middle grade, poetry picks — and so much more!

Casey December 13, 2021 44 Comments
Yellowjackets 105 recap: a screenshot of Taissa and Van making out in the woods
TV Show Recaps

“Yellowjackets” Episode 105 Recap: Seances, Blood, and Gay Makeouts Against Trees

The show’s Halloween episode delivers horror, humor, queerness, and — most importantly — A CALIGULA SIGHTING.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya December 13, 2021 41 Comments
A collage of the shows on the list: Batwoman, The Owl House, Yellowjackets, the L Word, Supergirl, Girls5Eva
TV Lists

Autostraddle’s Favorite and Least Favorite Lesbian, Bisexual and Trans TV Characters of 2021

Y’all ever heard of Ryan Wilder?

The TV Team December 13, 2021 41 Comments
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AF+

Our Hobbies Our Shelves: The Top 8 Dykiest Things on Kayla’s Shelves

There are two copies of The Fact Of A Doorframe in my home, but there were almost four.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya December 13, 2021 1 Comment
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Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Russian Doll’s Lesbian Co-Creator Teams With Amandla Stenberg for New Star Wars Series

Also! It’s Sara Ramirez’s world, we’re just living in it. Dickinson was a queer dream for Ella Hunt. The Sex Lives of College Girls should be your new happy show. And more!

Heather Hogan December 13, 2021
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Holigays

Ground Yourself With a Five Step Ritual To Take Care of Your Inner Child

By convening with our inner-children as adults, we’re able to establish new holiday traditions to meet our own needs.

Saif Arbee December 13, 2021
A collage of holiday images
Christmas Quizzes

Holigay Quiz: What Entirely Made Up Gay Hallmark Christmas Movie Are You?

Consider all of these results my official pitches for absurd lesbian Christmas movies that should be made! Get at me, Hallmark!

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya December 12, 2021 26 Comments
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NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is a Black Hole in Space

What happens when you orgasm, green flags in a relationship, exploring your bisexuality and more.

Ryan Yates December 12, 2021 1 Comment
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TV Feature

Everything You Need to Know About “Sex and the City” to Watch “And Just Like That”

Not like you NEED a need backstory to enjoy Sara Ramirez strutting around in a suit. 

Heather Hogan December 11, 2021 18 Comments
Kate Moennig looking at a Christmas ornament
Christmas Movie Reviews

“Everybody’s Fine” Is a Pretty Good Christmasy Movie With Three Minutes of Shane

This overlooked kinda-Christmas movie from 2009 features Drew Barrymore as the bisexual daughter of a telephone wire enthusiast who never takes his jacket off and also Kate Moennig is in it!

Riese December 11, 2021 1 Comment
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TV Show Recaps

Boobs On Your Tube: “Station 19” Gets Finger-Biting Lesbosexy

Plus updates on: 4400, Hightown, Queens, The Sex Lives of College Girls, Legacies, Nancy Drew, and NCIS: Hawai’i!

Natalie, Valerie Anne and Carmen Phillips
December 10, 2021 11 Comments
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TV Show Recaps

“And Just Like That…” Miranda and Che Get Their Funeral Flirt On

“Mama bear? Honey, try Papa Bear. Like a big daddy silverback,” is an actual thing that comes out of Sara Ramirez’s mouth in this episode.

Heather Hogan December 10, 2021 31 Comments
A still from We Need to Do Something: Sierra McCormick with pink hair and Lisette Alexis as goth walk on a fall day
Movie Reviews

37 Reasons You Should and Shouldn’t Watch “We Need to Do Something”

Watch if you don’t like dogs. Don’t watch if you like complex characters, realistic dialogue, or thoughtful plotting.

Drew Burnett Gregory December 10, 2021 7 Comments
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