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Gender

My Gender Is Dyke

I wasn’t a woman, but a lesbian, an identity so powerful it’s the closest thing to a gender I have.

Alexandria Juarez February 2, 2022 41 Comments
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Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: Da Brat and Fiancé Jesseca Dupart Are Having a Baby — More MILFs the Merrier, I Always Say!!!

And as ever, Niecy has rendered me fully speechless.

Christina Tucker February 2, 2022 2 Comments
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Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft

Satellite of Love: Queer Horoscopes for February 2022

Remember that your queer brilliance and dreamy imagination and ecstatic love for one another is a key force for resistance, but that you personally don’t have to save the whole damn world.

Corina Dross February 2, 2022 5 Comments
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Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: Cara Delevingne Is ‘Manifesting’ a Baby, Whatever That Means

GUESS WHO ELSE IS HAVING A BABY!?!? DA BRAT AND HER GIRLFRIEND ARE HAVNG A BABY!!

Carmen Phillips February 1, 2022 11 Comments
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TV News & Trailers

“Killing Eve” Season 4 Trailer Shows Villanelle Hungering For Eve’s Touch, Which Like LOL Same

The Killing Eve Season 4 official trailer is here and full of sexual tension between Eve and Villanelle as well as some violence, general mayhem and Villanelle trying to embrace change.

Riese February 1, 2022 8 Comments
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Movie Lists TV Lists

What’s New and Gay To Stream in February 2022

February is bringing many LGBTQ+ tidings including the last seasons of Killing Eve and Better Things, Shay Mitchell playing gay again, celesbian-studded game shows, an Anne+ movie, Abbi Jacobson as an animated queer princess and more!

Riese February 1, 2022 14 Comments
A person sits on the outside of a friend group looking lonely.
Friendship

You Need Help: Your Girlfriend Has No Friends

Ultimately, you should remember that it’s up to your girlfriend to do the work of making friends, not you. I would encourage you to find a way to cheer her on from the sidelines in a way that feels good for both of you.

Em Win February 1, 2022 2 Comments
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LGBT Book Reviews

“Getting Clean With Stevie Green” Cares More About the Mess

It’s an attitude that’s really relatable, a year and some change sober as I am, the idea that your whole life would be different if not for this one thing that happened to you.

Analyssa February 1, 2022
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The Autostraddle Insider Issue 88, January 2022

Immobile iguanas possible.

The Editors January 31, 2022 26 Comments
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Food and Drink

How To Seduce A Lesbian With Tiramisù

I spent years hoping that tiramisù would be the perfect sweet to impress girls.

Shana January 31, 2022 16 Comments
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TV Show Recaps

“Euphoria” Episode 204 Recap: Not Really Smart, Not Really Cruel

Euphoria really is just three montages in a trench coat pretending to be a TV show.

Drew Burnett Gregory January 31, 2022 36 Comments
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Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Tig Notaro and Stephanie Allynne’s “Am I OK?” Is Coming to HBO Max ASAP

ALSO! What Hawkeye gets right about deafness, And Just Like That is probably getting another season, Melissa King and Cameron Esposito together at last, and more!

Heather Hogan January 31, 2022 5 Comments
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Movie Reviews

“Don’t Look Up” Exposes How Capitalism Won’t Save Us

The movie shows us what happens if we wait too long to interrogate our culture and ourselves, lose sight of truth, and fail to take action: irreversible destruction.

Amari Gaiter January 31, 2022 6 Comments
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Lesbian Dating Apps

Ranking and Roasting Hinge’s New Gay Prompts

As all Hinge prompts do, these run the gamut of “vaguely cringe-inducing” to “absolutely mortifying,” and that’s before we even begin to consider whether they are, at their root, kind of pandering?

Analyssa January 31, 2022 6 Comments
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Quizzes

Quiz: What Bread Are You?

The results also feature a recipe for each bread for any ambitious bakers out there.

danijanae January 30, 2022 28 Comments
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Food and Drink

Things I’ve Eaten for Lunch at My Girlfriend’s House

“That’s a lot of provolone, babe!” – my girlfriend, when I read this list to her

Vanessa January 30, 2022 20 Comments
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TV Show Recaps

“RuPaul’s Drag Race” Episode 1404 Recap: Climb In My Fur. Come On.

I know she’s JLo, but given this very special episode I feel like she could’ve at least showed up via Skype!

Drew Burnett Gregory January 29, 2022 5 Comments
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Webcomics

Baopu #95: What Other People Think

What would your younger self ask you? Would you ever attempt to resolve those age-old questions?

Yao Xiao January 29, 2022 2 Comments
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TV Show Recaps

Boobs On Your Tube: “Naomi” Continues to Defy Superhero TV Expectations

Plus updates on New Amsterdam, 4400, Nancy Drew, and Claws!

Natalie and Valerie Anne
January 28, 2022 4 Comments
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Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Know: There Are No Accidents

“Best moment is being in a room full of gays singing along to the Golden Girls theme song!”

Darcy January 28, 2022 10 Comments
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