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Blanche from Golden Girls has a confused look on her face, she is wearing a nightgown
TV Feature

Very Special Gay Episode: In 1986, Golden Girls Created the Most Enduring Lesbian Joke on Television

10 years before Ellen, 25 years before Santana (and if you’re keeping track — 35 years from today), Blanche Devereaux launched the joke that just will not die.

Carmen Phillips January 23, 2022 51 Comments
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Movie Reviews

Sundance 2022: “Framing Agnes” Is a Complicated Tribute to Trans Invisibility

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Drew Burnett Gregory January 22, 2022 11 Comments
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Webcomics

Reine #30: Conversation Hearts

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TV Reviews

Danielle Brooks’ Lesbian Character Is the Only Reason to Watch “Peacemaker”

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Carmen Phillips January 21, 2022 12 Comments
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Play This Autostraddle-Themed Spinoff of Wordle for a Good, Gay Time

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Sally January 21, 2022 113 Comments
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The Comment Awards Are Dressing Like the Antler Queen

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Darcy January 21, 2022 9 Comments
In this feature image, there is text in the foreground that reads Into the A+ Advice Box. In the background is a trans woman wearing a leather jacket and regarding the camera with a raised eyebrow. Her hair is shaved on the sides and curly on the top. She has some light eye makeup on. Her skin is medium brown.
AF+

Into the A+ Advice Box #52: NEW YEAR, NEW LOOK

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the team January 21, 2022 33 Comments
Barlow & Bear stare into each other's eyes lovingly over a piano.
Culture

“The Unofficial Bridgerton Musical” Co-writer Abigail Barlow Is Already a Bisexual Legend

One year ago Abigail Barlow and Emily Bear were two friends so obsessed with 19th-Century British sex scandals and town gossip. Now they are Grammy nominated for Best Musical Theater Album.

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Society + Culture

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Carmen Phillips January 20, 2022 4 Comments
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TV Show Recaps

“And Just Like That” Miranda Casts Herself in a Gay Rom-Com

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Heather Hogan January 20, 2022 31 Comments
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TV Show Recaps

“Legends of Tomorrow” Episode 709 Recap: Avalance Plus Eight

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TV Show Recaps

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Nic January 20, 2022 23 Comments
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Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft

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meg January 20, 2022 5 Comments
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Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Lady Gaga and Salma Hayek Tried to Lesbian Together in “House of Gucci”

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Heather Hogan January 19, 2022 6 Comments
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Literature

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Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

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Against a lavender background, a trail of queer pubic hair is in the shape of a heart.
Hair

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