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A side-by-side of two photos: on the left, Lizzo is in a pink chiffon fluffy dress performing on stage; on the right, queer poet Aurielle Marie , a nonbinary black femme with dreadlocks down their back, wears the same pink dress while in their living room.
Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: Queer Poet Aurielle Marie Gifted Lizzo’s Dress After Viral TikTok, Its the Black Joy for Me

The viral TikTok with all the joy you need. Plus: an ode to queer cross-stitch, who’s looking out for activist burnout, and the Respect for Marriage Bill is to becoming law.

Carmen Phillips November 17, 2022 3 Comments
Karla Cruz Godoy grinning while competing in a challenge in Survivor, Season 43 Episode 9
TV Reviews

Survivor’s Karla Cruz Godoy Is Winning Our Gay Hearts (and Maybe the Whole Show)

I never would have thought that writing a brief summary of a single episode of Survivor would make me so emotional.

Anya Richkind November 17, 2022 5 Comments
Gigi and Nat hold martinis in Shane's bar on The L Word: Generation Q
The L Word: Generation Q

What It’s Like To Host an L Word Generation Q Viewing Party — With Your Ex

When the co-hosts of a popular Generation Q viewing party broke up, people worried the festivities would end, but these exes found a way to make it work in true L Word fashion.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya November 17, 2022 2 Comments
Beauty's Beast by S.T. Lynn, Fake It by Lily Seabrooke, The Companion by EE Ottoman, and Galaxy: The Prettiest Star by Jadzia Axelrod and Jess Taylor
Book Lists

Eight Romance Novels Featuring Trans Women, by Trans Authors

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Casey November 17, 2022 7 Comments
1. Zoe's Ghana Kitchen by Zoe Adjonyoh. 2. Coconuts and Collards by Von Diaz. 3. Cook As You Are by Ruby Tandoh. 4.
Food and Drink Holigays

Holigay Gift Guide: Queer Cookbooks for Every Home Chef on Your Shopping List

If you’re going to buy cookbooks for your friends and family, why not buy them queer cookbooks and put money in the pockets of queer chefs?

Casey November 17, 2022 9 Comments
Three rows of word search-style letters, with Autostraddle's logo (AS) highlighted, on a yellow background.
Puzzles

Word Search: You Need Help

Another relaxing hunt for specific words set around a theme that’s relevant to your experiences!

meg November 17, 2022 7 Comments
An image of a lavender bra sitting on a wooden table. More bras in various colors are rolled up in a blue and white basket beside it.
Queer Fashion

This Wire-Free Bra for Larger Chests Changed My Life

It’s seamless under t-shirts, it stays compressive over the course of the day, and I can use it as an impromptu swim top or keep it on overnight when I’m camping. It’s absolute magic.

Darcy November 16, 2022 40 Comments
A collage of three photos. On the left, a young Carmen smiles outside. In the center, Nico and Carmen post for a photo opp outdoors in Buffalo, arms outstretched, and to the right, adult Carmen poses in a flowing white dress and Birkenstocks outside
AF+

Things I’ve Never Asked Carmen About Growing Up in a Theater Family, Her Dating Habits, and More!

We talk tattoos, 9/11 and Carmen’s high school activism, spirituality, what L Word character Carmen is most like, being a die-hard femme and more!

Nico November 16, 2022 24 Comments
JoJo Siwa shrugs on the red carpet
Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: JoJo Siwa Calls Candace Cameron Bure’s Traditional Marriage TV “Embarrassing” & “Rude”

How Keke Palmer invented Keke Palmer, Candace Parker will be back for another WNBA season, Melissa King’s new travel food series, and more!

Heather Hogan November 16, 2022 11 Comments
Two moms and their daughter shop at the supermarket
Holigays

Ways To Truly Support and Celebrate Queer Parents During the Entire Holiday Season

The parents in our LGBTQ+ community deserve some rest and celebration.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya November 16, 2022 7 Comments
Kate Moennig looking sullen in the 90s
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: And Now, Kate Moennig Looking Sullen in the 90s

Also, one thing about Hunter Schafer is that she is gonna give you everything in a photoshoot and I love that, personally.

Christina Tucker November 16, 2022 4 Comments
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Puzzles

Mini Crossword Will Give You All the Credit

The only thing gayer than this crossword? You.

brooke November 16, 2022 16 Comments
: Ali Krieger and Ashlyn Harris attend the United States Women's National Team "Players' Ball" at Pier 61 at Chelsea Piers on November 14, 2022 in New York City.
Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: Ashlyn Harris Retires After 13 Years, Winning 2 World Cups, and Infinite Heartthrob Hall of Fame Status

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Carmen Phillips November 15, 2022 8 Comments
A black woman in black and white is smiling on a phone and is cut out in front of an abstract background of blues and purples, next to them is a south asian person also cut out
Community

A Goodbye Plan: 17 Queer Spaces Now That Twitter Is Maybe Ending

For many folks like me – Black, queer, and desiring connection – Twitter has served as a vehicle for dialogue, digital intimacy, and a lot of laughter. It’s hard to say goodbye.

shea wesley martin November 15, 2022 8 Comments
A keyboard mat; a passion planner in a celestial blue scheme; a black and brown Herschel backpack; a detox mask; a hand holding a glow in the dark mini vibrator
Holigays

Holigay Gift Guide: What To Buy for Your Grad School Friend Who’s Too Busy To Read This

Ah, the holidays. A time for failed gingerbread assembling attempts and corny Hallmark Christmas films. Also, NO SCHOOL!!!

Lily Alvarado November 15, 2022 4 Comments
Amaya gently caresses Janai's face
TV Feature

It’s Lesbian Enemies to Lovers on Season 4 of “The Dragon Prince”

A deaf butch human warrior. A Black elf queen. Tolkien truly could never.

Heather Hogan November 15, 2022 5 Comments
queer person with short black hair lies on their stomach holding a phone that is clearly showing porn
Relationships

You Need Help: My Trauma is Activated When My Partner Masturbates to Porn

Your feelings are deeply understandable, even though your partner isn’t doing anything wrong. If you haven’t already, it’s time to seek trauma therapy.

danijanae November 15, 2022 49 Comments
In the bottom right corner of the image, there is a black line drawing of two women with 1950s hairstyles whispering to each other against a pink background. In the upper left corner, there is a speech bubble. Inside the speech bubble, there is an image of Her Ultimate Pleasure, a purple sex toy with a dildo-shaped portion on one end and a clear, plastic cone around a small, pink tongue on the other end.
Sex Toys

“Her Ultimate Pleasure” Turned Me Into a Bratty Bottom

When I eventually had one of the best orgasms of my life, I felt like something inside me had been rearranged.

Guest November 15, 2022 5 Comments
The Autostraddle logo (AS) has been situated inside two white circles on the left, and colorful wordrow-like circles appear together on the right, all on a bright yellow background
Puzzles

Guessing Game: A Place for Your Gay Ass

Another queer phrase for you to parse!

Sally November 15, 2022 37 Comments
Dan Levy, with a bloody Mary, talking to chef J Chong on The Big Brunch
TV Reviews

Dan Levy’s “The Big Brunch” Is The Big Gay “Great British Bake Off”

Watching The Big Brunch, is not the first time I’ve cried over a plate of eggs — but it *is* the first time I’ve cried *happy* tears over them!

Heather Hogan November 14, 2022 11 Comments
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