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Y’All Need Help #14: Yes or No Edition!

Answers to all the yes/no questions you sent in since last Tuesday!

Laneia November 18, 2017 21 Comments
Webcomics

Grease Bats: Astrology Is Real And Meaningful

“You can tell that now is a good time for Scout to finish their erotic novel ‘Buffy The Butt Slayer’ just from their astrological sign?”

Archie November 18, 2017 61 Comments
Community Holigays

The Most Wonderful Time Of Year: Holigay Meet-Up Season!

It’s the most wonderful time of year so let’s spend it with our chosen family!

Vanessa November 17, 2017 48 Comments
Straddleverse

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: Balancing Act

Work AND leave my house? Eat well AND go to bed on time? Hang out with other people AND also myself? How do you even do that? (No really, I’m actually asking you.)

Ryan Yates November 17, 2017 78 Comments
Book Features

Read A F*cking Book Club: Talking with Ariel Gore About “We Were Witches”

We’re discussing We Were Witches and sharing a brilliant interview with author Ariel Gore. Come join Autostraddle Book Club – the comments are wide open and we wanna hear everything you’ve got to say about this book.

Vanessa November 17, 2017 12 Comments
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The Comment Awards Are So Mommi Right Now

“Can confirm bisexuality to be even more luxurious than a fancy tin can.”

Darcy November 17, 2017 56 Comments
Recipes Thanksgiving

Friendsgiving Challenge #2: A Dessert You Can Also Eat for Breakfast

Vegetarian with allergies to nuts, coconuts, and sesame seeds? Well Julia Turshen has a delicious warm dessert (or breakfast!) for you!

Julia Turshen November 17, 2017 13 Comments
First Person

The Mammalian Dive Reflex

I changed. But it was a gradual process, in the way a forest becomes stone. Petrified forest of a body.

S. Désirée Tiamat Cha November 17, 2017 17 Comments
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S.H.E. Episode VII: Night And Day

“What a great city.”

Megan+Moll November 17, 2017 1 Comment
Parenting & Family

Exploring the Messy, Imperfect Joy of Queer Foster-to-Adopt Parenting

“And then she told us there was another child — a baby — at a nearby hospital. Were we interested? We said yes even though we had a thousand questions and just as many concerns (why was he in the hospital? Where were his birth parents? Who was holding him when he cried?). That baby turned out to be our son.”

Nicole November 16, 2017 22 Comments
Recipes Thanksgiving

Friendsgiving Challenge #1: Real Friendship is Working Around Everyone’s Dietary Restrictions

Kyle’s created a full Friendsgiving menu that accommodates about a dozen dietary restrictions, and she’s used an impressive graphing system to make it happen.

Kyle Cornforth November 16, 2017 25 Comments
TV News & Trailers

Watch Sara Ramirez Butch It Up In Her First Appearance On “Madam Secretary”

This Sunday is the day Kat Sandoval swaggers onto your teevee!

Heather Hogan November 16, 2017 17 Comments
Autostraddle Gift Guide: Queer Geekery
Christmas

Holigay Gift Guide: The World of Queer Geekery

There are lots of great things about being a queer nerd, but maybe the best is that you get to be friends with other queer nerds. They’re really the best people. And they make great merch.

Mey November 16, 2017 12 Comments
Food and Drink

Let’s Decant With This Decanter, It’ll Be So Fancy

How to clean your decanter. Why you might use a decanter. Which decanters you should expressly not use.

A.E. Osworth November 16, 2017 9 Comments
Queer Fashion

PHOTO GALLERY: Here Are Your Toasty, Tasty Fall Fashion Looks!

‘Tis the season to get cute and cozy.

Nora November 16, 2017 17 Comments
TV Reviews

Michigan Lesbian Lives Through “American Horror Story: Cult,” But Also Hope Dies, So

What self-respecting lesbian turns down a chance to sit in the same room as Rachel Maddow or Lana Winters?

Riese November 15, 2017 9 Comments
Geekery

Notes From a Queer Engineer: Dinosaur Footprints, the Mathematical Joy of Smarties and More

“That noise you hear is very excited science-y squealing.”

Laura Mandanas November 15, 2017 12 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Anna Paquin Stands with Ellen Page Against X-Men Director Brett Ratner

Plus: queer women are working hard not to become collateral damage as men in Hollywood fall like dominoes to sexual assault stories, women and POC directed more TV than ever this year, these adorable lesbian hockey players and their baby, and news on The Handmaid’s Tale’s return.

Heather Hogan November 15, 2017 30 Comments
Geekery

Oh, Hey! It’s Alyssa #34: Talking It Out

I know this will come as a shock, but I don’t do well with emotional conflict.

A. Andrews November 15, 2017 12 Comments
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: Local Dog Spooned by Samira Wiley

Also, Gaby Dunn meets a horse and Demi Lovato is having a swell time.

Stef November 15, 2017 18 Comments
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