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First Person

20 of the Best Personal Essays on Autostraddle in 2018

We published so much good work this year, and here is a fraction of it we think you will particularly enjoy reading back through!

Rachel December 31, 2018 10 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Having Bathroom Sex

Stone femme erotica, public sex without getting caught, and more.

Ryan Yates December 30, 2018 2 Comments
Society + Culture

Sunday Funday is Knocking Out the Last Sunday of 20GAYTeen with Amanda Nunes!

News about “The Favourite”, a first round KO in the women’s UFC, trans-inclusive women’s colleges, and a few end of year wrap-ups!

Ari December 30, 2018 6 Comments
Parenting & Family

Raising Baby T. Rex: Terrifying Sharks for a Toddler Ocean Explorer

Remi loves the ocean so very much wow, baking cookies with a two-year-old, some very cute holiday-ish pics, having it all is a lie, #Cativan, and more Baby T. updates for your face!

KaeLyn December 29, 2018 42 Comments
Webcomics

Yo! That’s Not Cool #16: Resolutions

Change doesn’t have to be made just once every 365 days.

Brittney Williams December 29, 2018 2 Comments
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Eating Leftover Chocolates in Bed

“I’m calling it Carbmas now.”

Darcy December 28, 2018 17 Comments
Movie Reviews

“PIMP” Review: Queer Love, Sisterhood, and a Reminder That We Need to Tell Our Own Stories

“It’s as if the BET classic Player’s Club ran head first into Hustle and Flow, but cast a cadre of child stars turned ingenues.”

Mackenzie MacDade December 28, 2018 6 Comments
Straddleverse

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: What’s Something Good That Happened To You In 2018?

2018 wasn’t *all* bad, was it? I mean, we called it 20GAYteen for a reason.

Natalie December 28, 2018 199 Comments
Queer Fashion

11 of the Best Dressed LGBT Celebs in 2018

It’s been a wild year for gay pop culture, and a great year for some very well dressed queers — enjoy it with this very subjective but deeply felt top 11 of 2018, as based on an internal Autostraddle staff survey. 

M December 28, 2018 22 Comments
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Getting In Bed With Kristin + Ryann Holmes: Creating Community, Breaking Up With Social Media and More!

bklyn boihood’s co-creator is here to answer all your pressing questions!

Kristin December 28, 2018 1 Comment
Money + Work

Do the Damn Thing, Part 2: Focus, Boundaries and Single-Tasking

You’ve crafted some longterm goals and set some realistic expectations. Now you’re ready to tackle the most important part of doing the thing: actually doing the thing.

Heather Hogan December 28, 2018 5 Comments
Book Lists

20 of the Best LGBTQ Graphic Novels of 2018

From memoirs to how-to’s to love stories to sports to space, 2018 was another brilliant year for graphic novels written by queer people about queer people.

Heather Hogan December 27, 2018 11 Comments
House & Garden

For Your Consideration: Throwing a Highly Specific Themed Party For No Particular Reason

Here’s a secret: The best parties actually have no occasion attached (sometimes the occasion is that you feel dead inside).

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya December 27, 2018 29 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Some “Killing Eve” Season 2 Photos For You to Think About All the Time and Other Stories

Topics include a sneak peek at Killing Eve Season 2, Sabrina’s Lachlan Watson journey “from lesbian to trans to non-binary,” “thank u next” co-writer Victoria Monet on coming out as a queer black woman, a lot of things about The Favourite, Christmas movies ranked by queerness and so much more!

Riese December 26, 2018 22 Comments
Sex Toys

Anonymous Sex Toy Review: TuLips

This toy is a reasonably priced, absolutely fine version of a clit vibrator.

Guest December 26, 2018 2 Comments
Movie Reviews

“In Between” Review: The Super Gay, Super Feminist Film No One’s Talking About

No false promises of “girl power” or happiness. Just a reassurance that being alone together is better than being apart.

Drew Burnett Gregory December 26, 2018 16 Comments
Webcomics

Oh, Hey! It’s Alyssa #61: Loose Ends

It’s sometimes funny, the things we find ourselves feeling attached to…

A. Andrews December 26, 2018 8 Comments
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: Samira Wiley and Lauren Morelli Are the World’s Cuddliest Humans

Come for Teddy Geiger’s thirst traps, stay for Ellen Page’s Christmas soup.

Stef December 26, 2018 5 Comments
Community Holigays

POST-HOLIDAY MERCH SALE: 20% Off Everything in the Autostraddle Store

Celebrate the end of #20GAYTEEN with 20% off everything in the Autostraddle store! We’re pretty sure that your happiness and our future depends on it.

Sarah December 26, 2018 6 Comments
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TODAY ONLY — All A+ Members Get 25% Off in the Autostraddle Store

Today only, A+ members get an extra-special deal on Autostraddle merch!

Sarah December 26, 2018 18 Comments
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