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In a two-panel drawn comic, Dickens and a friend sit together on a couch against a green background. The friend asks Dickens, "Can I ask you a highly personal question? Do you consider yourself gay? lesbian? queer?" In response, Dickens jokes "Oh, Thank Helena" in reference to the TV show Warehouse 13.
Webcomics

Foolish Child #81: Labels

“I don’t know. I can’t keep up with all the rules and definitions and the gatekeep-iness.”

Dickens September 30, 2020 2 Comments
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Sex Toys

Ten Maximalist Sex Toys to Add to Your (Toy) Box

Looking for big, bright, maximalist sex toys? You’ve come to the right place.

Ryan Yates September 30, 2020 5 Comments
Kate Moennig stands in front of a wood panel wall with a very large power tool of some sort that's bigger than her own head!
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: Kate Moennig Is Staggeringly Gay

Janelle Monáe in bumblebee cosplay, Sarah Paulson flips her wig (literally), and a video Niecy Nash dancing in a bodysuit that you’ve got to see for yourself.

Christina Tucker September 30, 2020 4 Comments
a double-image graphic that's cut in half with a red filter over it, so everything is bathed in a red light. on the left side, in negative, the top half of a brown, scorpio femme (the author!) poses in a leopard print slip. she's wearing hoop earrings, has a slightly parted mouth, round glasses frames and has loosely curled hair down to their shoulders. the other side of the image is in positive and shows a mirror image with more detail on the author's face.
First Person Lesbian Sex

14 Knuckles: Always A Fistee, Never A Fister

My acceptance of my own pain allows me to have the kind of sex that is rooted in the specificity of my body. I don’t love the idea that I’ll never fist, but I do love the idea that every act of sex I engage with is collaborative. Queerness reminds me that there is no standard way to fuck or live.

Mat September 30, 2020 9 Comments
The four stars of the new film "The Craft: Legacy" pose together in character for a selfie. They are: Cailee Spaeny, Gideon Adlon, Lovie Simone, and Zoey Luna.
Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: Get in, Witches! “The Craft” Sequel Trailer Is Here

Listen, it’s my belief that all witches are gay and that’s just a fact. “The Craft” witches are DEFINITELY all gay, if only because they inspired 25 years worth of gay girls! (Also: meet the lesbian who’s a closeted Trump voter, inside the movement to stop paying student loans, and why queer people get so many migraines.)

Carmen Phillips September 29, 2020 10 Comments
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TV Reviews

“Perry Mason” Has Lesbians, Tatiana Maslany, and Way Too Many Boring Men

I guess what I’m learning about myself is that I’m not quite cut out for these slow-moving, period piece crime dramas. I like my crime shows to be procedural — if there are eight episodes, I want eight crimes. And I like my women front and center, thank you very much.

Valerie Anne September 29, 2020 7 Comments
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Movie Reviews

Yes, “Loving Annabelle” Is Problematic — But it Was a Vital Film in My Own Queer Journey

There’s a reason forbidden romances like this spoke to me as a closeted person!

Valerie Anne September 29, 2020 17 Comments
a black and white photo of a person's chest and thin lines of scars beneath their nipples let behind after top surgery
First Person Gender

When Other People Get to Give Away Their Binders

Getting top surgery with my butch identity is no longer some unattainable fantasy. Now the question firmly rests with me: do I want to go ahead with it or not?

Shoshana Raphael September 29, 2020 28 Comments
Dating

You Need Help: Why Do I Keep Crushing on Straight White Guys?

The dynamic between white men and Asian partners is uncomfortable. There’s always a worry that they’re interested in what you represent, not who you are.

KaeLyn September 29, 2020 7 Comments
LGBT Book Reviews

Leigh Finke’s “Queerfully and Wonderfully Made” Answers Crucial Questions for LGBTQ+ Christian Youth

“I wish I had these books when I was 15. I needed permission. I needed somebody to tell me, ‘You’re ok.’ If I had had one place to go, one book in my hand, known one person, I could have avoided a lot of trouble.”

Adrian September 29, 2020 6 Comments
Javicia Leslie in the original Kate Kane batsuit.
Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Here’s Your First Look at Javicia Leslie in the Batwoman Suit

A new lesbian comedy from a Harley Quinn writer, Amber Ruffin stans Mary J. Blige in her first late night monologue, Ellen DeGeneres’ many chances, and Pretty Little Liars: Original Sin is a go.

Heather Hogan September 28, 2020 3 Comments
Feature image reads "2020 Autostraddle Gay Emmys: Behind the Scenes"
AF+ Television

Behind The Scenes of the Autostraddle TV Awards

Just a little data, discussion and analysis from the backstage area of the Autostraddle Gay Emmys!

Riese September 28, 2020 1 Comment
A nonbinary femme person with blue short hair stands in the background. In the foreground is a sign that reads, "gender neutral bathroom, this bathroom is for everyone."
Gender

Why Everything Transphobes Think About Detransition Is Wrong

Coverage of ‘detransitioners’ may claim it’s just asking questions, but it rarely asks the right ones.

Eli Cugini September 28, 2020 35 Comments
A collage of Jehan, the author of the piece, taking a selfie in the mirror placed along side Audre Lorde serving attitude in the face while having her photo taken on a New York City street.
Book Features

Year of Our (Audre) Lorde: September’s Afterimages

I am safe nowhere, the Black women in my family of origin and family of choice are safe nowhere. It’s a fact we’ve known but one that feels all the more threatening in the wake of continuing violent injustice for Black women.

Jehan September 28, 2020 2 Comments
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Podcasts The L Word

“To L and Back” L Word Podcast Episode 508: “Lay Down The Law” with Ari Monts!

“My one note is, “God, I wish Tasha was a firefighter, so I didn’t have to feel conflicted about her.”

Riese September 28, 2020 1 Comment
Korra and Asami sit side by side in The Legend of Korra
TV Reviews

Legend of Korra: A Flawed Show for A Flawed World

In many ways Legend of Korra is more timely than ever because it forces us to examine our hero worship and the notion that one person will save us from destruction or that the simple removal of one villain will solve all of our problems.

himani September 28, 2020 21 Comments
Society + Culture

Sunday Funday is Celebrating Weddings, Babies, and Nancy Meyers

Happy Sunday! We’ve got cute gay weddings, a new-ish “Father of the Bride”, Amanda Nunes has a baby, Sarah Paulson has the greatest response for the next time someone asks you about your May/December relationship, nonbinary Helen Hayes Award winners and so much more!

Ari September 27, 2020 30 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Misses The Hunt

How to open your relationship; how to make vanilla sex more interesting; what’s happening to our relationships in the pandemic and more.

Ryan Yates September 27, 2020
In a black and white, two-panel comic, Max calls Maya on the phone. Max has short cut curly hair and layered shirts. It's been a hard week — with zoom calls getting the best of them, fires causing environmental distress to their home, and the mourning of Breonna Taylor. More than anything, they just need a friend.
Webcomics

The Lakeview Crew #7: Hold All The Feels

Sometimes you just need to call your friends, breath together, and feel all the feels. Maya may not always be the best listener, but after a hard week, Max and Maya have a heart to heart.

Emma Rust September 26, 2020 2 Comments
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Recipes

The Dyke Kitchen: Classic Air-Fried Cornish Game Hen & Waffles

When I finally got the waffle maker from my mom that I’d been waiting for, and my friend Vinh;Paul was gifted an air fryer from his mom, we knew the only way to honor these new kitchen gadgets was to make our own version of fried chicken and waffles. Sarah’s end-of-summer celebration cocktail was the watermelon on top!

Kamala Puligandla September 26, 2020 1 Comment
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