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A black-and-white photo of two teenage best friends, one Latinx and one white, with their hands over their eyes and smiling at the camera
Friendship

You Need Help: I’m A Teen And I’m In Love With My Best Friend

The line between friendship and romantic relationships is very thin, especially for queer people.

Abbie Jones October 5, 2021 9 Comments
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House & Garden

How To Do Fall in Florida (Or Any Other Seasonless, Hot Place)

Making seasonal change in a place where the seasons shift subtly or not at all.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya October 5, 2021 9 Comments
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Podcasts The L Word: Generation Q

“To L and Back” Generation Q Podcast Episode 209: Last Dance

“Imagine if all of our days were as productive as the people in The L Word. We would be cruising through life.”

Analyssa October 4, 2021 17 Comments
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Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Julianna Margulies and Reese Witherspoon Chatting About That Gay [SPOILER] on [SPOILER]

The tick, tick…BOOM! trailer, starring MJ Rodriguez! Cruel Intentions is being rebooted for TV again! Jordan Hull remains the best dang thing about Gen Q! And more!

Heather Hogan October 4, 2021 5 Comments
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Movie Reviews

“Titane” Is a Boundary-Pushing, Binary-Breaking Work of Queer Body Horror

Flesh is just another binary.

Drew Burnett Gregory October 4, 2021 12 Comments
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TV Show Recaps

Wait, “The Morning Show” Got Gay?

After their long day of chatting and vibing, Laura and Bradley head back to their hotel, and whew Laura is laying the praise on thick! Bradley is eating it up, and frankly, flirting her tiny blonde head off!

Christina Tucker October 4, 2021 12 Comments
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Movie Features Sponsored

For Non-Binary Climber Lor Sabourin, Being Outdoors Is Finding Your Body in a Uniquely Liberating Way

“I had to learn to feel safe enough in my body that I was able to go rock climbing. And then climbing made my body feel like a safer place, and kind of taught me to take care of it.”

Abbie Jones October 4, 2021 10 Comments
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First Person

Coming to Terms With My Asexuality as a Black, Non-Binary Lesbian

Society can make us feel like we’re flawed or like our relationships aren’t as valid because we’re not having as much sex as we’re “supposed to.”

Ashleigh-Rae Thomas October 4, 2021 12 Comments
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Quizzes

Quiz: What Horror Movie Stock Character Are You?

Are you making it out of the haunted cabin alive? Probably not! But let’s find out what archetype you embody along the way.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya October 3, 2021 75 Comments
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NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Overstaying in the Nostalgia Hotel

How to choke someone during sex, whether sex helps with migraines, what makes a power bottom and more.

Ryan Yates October 3, 2021 7 Comments
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First Person

Well, That’s Mortifying: That Time I Let My Friend’s Mom Crash My Date

We’re making small talk with a random white lady, and it’s all my fault.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya October 2, 2021 11 Comments
In two panels from this comic strip, one queer is saying, "I can take that. By the way, I love your, uh — face mask. It looks so cute and soft." And the other queer responds bashfully, "oh! heh! Well, thanks!"
Webcomics

Reine #26: Line Delivery

The secret to gay flirting is weird compliments.

Ren Strapp October 2, 2021 3 Comments
The L Word: Generation Q TV Show Recaps

L Word Generation Q Episode 209 Recap: Last Dance For Buried Pain

TINNNNNAAAAAAAAAA is back, Finley’s missing, Bette and Pippa are protesting, Angie is prom-ing, Alice is interviewing and Sophie is searching on this week’s episode of The L Word Generation Q!

Riese October 1, 2021 109 Comments
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TV Show Recaps

Boobs on Your Tube: 9 Queer TV Shows You Might Have Missed this Week

Station 19, Grey’s Anatomy, Raising Kanan, American Horror Story, Rosewell New Mexico, Work in Progress, New Amsterdam, Vigil, and Burden of Truth! 

The TV Team October 1, 2021 7 Comments
4 square: I Know What You Did Last Summer, Love Life, The Girl in the Woods and Invasion
Movie Lists TV Lists

October 2021: What’s New and Gay To Stream

Cozy up for a gay October with secret lesbian relationships amid an alien invasion, a way-more-gay I Know What You Did Last Summer reboot, new seasons of The Baby-Sitter’s Club and Love Life, Wentworth’s last dance, Kiersey Clemons as an animated activist, a true crime limited series and so much more!

Riese October 1, 2021 21 Comments
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Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Ranking Fanfic Tropes

I read the headline and whispered to myself: “there is only one bed!!!“

Darcy October 1, 2021 6 Comments
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AF+

Into the A+ Advice Box #45: Your Wife Has Depression but Won’t Get Therapy

A+ members get their personal advice questions answered by Autostraddle writers, twice a month in the A+ Advice Box! This week Autostraddle team answers A+ member questions about biphobia, struggling to text friends back, dealing with gender feelings and weight gain, tips for hot strap-on sex, finding that perfect masc-of-center scent and more!

the team October 1, 2021 14 Comments
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Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft

Satellite of Love: Queer Horoscopes for October 2021

Astrologically, we’re still in a high-intensity year. But this October brings us the kind of ease that’s like a cool breeze lifting your hair from your forehead after a stiflingly hot day.

Corina Dross October 1, 2021 7 Comments
AF+

The Autostraddle Insider: Issue 84, September 2021

“I hope Elvira is as excited about my queerness as I am about hers.”

Carmen Phillips September 30, 2021 21 Comments
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Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: A Cher and Scooby Doo Crossover Event, Now What’s That Now?

Dolly Parton loving Lil Nas X is all of us gay aunts loving Lil Nas X, Phoebe Bridgers is getting sued, Remember Britney not just for her tragedy but as the Pop Queen she is, and Happy National Coffee Day.

Carmen Phillips September 30, 2021 9 Comments
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