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TV Show Recaps

“Supergirl” Series Finale Recap: I Hope You Dance

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Sex Toys

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Archie November 10, 2021 9 Comments
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TV Reviews

Hulu’s Dopesick Puts a Lesbian Coal Miner at the Heart Of Its Opioid Crisis Miniseries, But Also The Wigs Are Really Bad

Hulu’s “Dopesick” is a thorough and compassionate portrait of the opioid epidemic and its lesbian storyline is its most effective. Also though everybody wore really bad wigs, so.

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Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: Two Melissa Kings Is a Dream I Had Once and — Well, Never Mind!

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First Person Lesbian Sex

Suck My Silicone Or Save Your Mouth For Me?

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Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: Halle Berry Is Running Around Calling Young M.A “That’s My Baby”

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Carmen Phillips November 9, 2021 5 Comments
Movie Features Sex Toys

Kristen Stewart in Charlie’s Angels Inspired Me to Buy a Strap-On

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Drew Burnett Gregory November 9, 2021 6 Comments
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Dating

You Need Help: I’ve Never Had a Date and I’m So Lonely

The bad news is the answer to loneliness is not necessarily found on dating apps. The good news is you can meet people other ways.

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First Person Lesbian Sex

One Strap To Rule Them All Or Nah — Not So Much?

Do you only need one strap or is variety truly the spice of life?

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Identity Lesbian Sex

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Pop Culture Fix

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Dating

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Elaine Bennett November 8, 2021 49 Comments
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First Person Lesbian Sex

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Quizzes

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Heather Hogan November 7, 2021 32 Comments
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NSFW Sunday

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First Person Food and Drink

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Webcomics

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TV Show Recaps

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Book Features

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