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Lesbian Sex

View From The Top: Is Kink The New Vanilla?

You just have to be honest about what you’re looking for, and keep going after it.

Sinclair Sexsmith February 28, 2017 25 Comments
First Person Health

Feelings Rookie: Letting Anger Light My Fuse

I like to think I can control my anger, but I usually end up burning my own life down instead.

Molly Priddy February 28, 2017 4 Comments
Geekery Shopping

Relevant To Your Interests: The Nerdiest Coloring Books in All the Land

The world feels like it’s on fire, let’s color nerd stuff!

A.E. Osworth February 28, 2017 5 Comments
LGBT History TV Reviews

“When We Rise” Is What The World Needs Now, Especially You

ABC has dedicated eight primetime hours to a sweeping miniseries charting LGBT history from the ’70s ’til a few years ago and it’s pretty great except for the bad wigs.

Riese February 27, 2017 43 Comments
Gender

Ciara McElveen is the 6th Trans Woman of Color Murdered This Year, Third Black Trans Woman in the Last Week

She was 21 years old.

Mey February 27, 2017 18 Comments
TV Show Recaps

“The Good Fight” Episode 103 Recap: Trump Voter Blues

Yes, friends, we have ourselves a good, old-fashioned alpha-female off!

Dorothy Snarker February 27, 2017 15 Comments
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VIDEO! Getting in Bed with Kristin #6: Coming Out (to yourself)

Last week I talked alllll about the joyous, never-stressful process of coming out to yourself. Also, Jenny joined me for a bit and shared her 1st grade daydreams of saving girls on horseback…

Kristin February 27, 2017 6 Comments
Politics + Activism

Meet Me at Trump Tower: A Public Queer Dance Party as Resistance

Talking to organizers Didi Feuer and Dana Kline on party as protest and how crucial accessibility is in activist work.

Liza Mcdonald February 27, 2017 2 Comments
Politics + Activism

Be The Change: How to Make a Mind Map for Activism

This mind map exercise will help activists create achievable goals to avoid burnout.

Danielle February 27, 2017 9 Comments
Straddleverse Visual Art

PHOTO GALLERY: Queer in the Bedroom

Your next community gallery is here! Come gaze upon nearly 170 queer bedrooms of our lives, and the queers who queer them. Safe for work, more or less!

Laneia February 27, 2017 102 Comments
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#BlackExcellence At Its Finest: “Moonlight” Beats “La La Land” for Best Picture

Besides the fact that Moonlight is 200% the movie La La Land could ever be, on a petty note, seeing something undeserved snatched out of white hands felt SO. GOOD. It was the vindication I will never get in my real life. It was #BlackExcellence at its finest.

Ari February 27, 2017 88 Comments
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Follow Your Arrow: “Great British Bake Off” Star Ruby Tandoh Shares Her Love of Food

“I wish there were more LGBTQ food writers, though — it can be a pretty stiflingly traditional (read: heteronormative, and very white) world. Find a network of like-minded queer women to work with, seek advice from and befriend! We gotta stick together.”

Beth February 27, 2017 21 Comments
TV Feature

Meet One Day at a Time’s Lesbian Writers, Becky Mann and Michelle Badillo

We talked to One Day at a Time writers, Becky Mann and Michelle Badillo, about gay representation on TV, how Autostraddle came to be in the script, their queer TV roots, what kind of LGBT stories are missing from TV and what’s in store for Elena in a potential next season.

Yvonne February 27, 2017 39 Comments
LGBT History TV Lists

9 Lesbian and Trans Women Activists In the Spotlight Of “When We Rise”

Summaries of the historical events chronicled in “When We Rise” and background on some of the incredible women portrayed in this historical miniseries, debuting tomorrow on ABC.

Riese February 26, 2017 14 Comments
Jodie Foster speaks at an anti-Trump rally in Beverly Hills.
Politics + Activism

Sunday Funday is Getting Political With Jodie Foster and Dancing in the Moonlight

Jodie Foster spoke out against Trump at a pre-Oscars rally, Moonlight dominated the Independent Spirit Awards, Ellen gave away her biggest gift(s) ever, Slovenia legalized same-sex marriage, and two gays finally touched lips on the Disney Channel.

Heather Hogan February 26, 2017 12 Comments
Gender

Chyna Gibson is the Fifth Trans Woman of Color, Fourth Black Trans Woman, Murdered So Far This Year

According to a friend, Gibson was visiting her friends and family in New Orleans to celebrate Mardi Gras. That friend added, “She was just a really good person. Everyone loved her. This is unnecessary.”

Mey February 26, 2017 7 Comments
Webcomics

3 A.M.: An Unlikely Protagonist

Welcome to 3 A.M. a monthly comic about a very unlikely job at a very unlikely convenience store and some very, very unlikely events.

Pam February 26, 2017 13 Comments
Literature

Things I Read That I Love #222: I Look For Myself In Other Women’s Bodies

Topics include the Olsen twins museum, Mary Gaitskill, taking up space, PewDiePie, the Milo bus, menstrual cups, women’s prisons, airports and so much more!

Riese February 26, 2017 22 Comments
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NSFW Sunday

NSFW Sunday Is Taking Nudes With A Feminist Lens

Safer sexting from a feminist perspective, everything about your ex, brains on BDSM, whether you need to wash your hands before fingering someone and more.

Ryan Yates February 26, 2017 13 Comments
Geekery

Will Uber’s Very Public Sexual Harassment Debacle Actually Change Things For Women in Tech?

Are we finally moving past the storytelling phase and into doing real things to combat sexism in the technology industry, or is this Uber fiasco more of the same?

A.E. Osworth February 25, 2017 7 Comments
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