• About
    • About Autostraddle
    • Meet The Team
    • Jobs
    • Advertise
    • Press
    • Events
    • Contact
    • Comment Policy
  • Shop
  • Sign In
  • Support Us
    • Give to Autostraddle
    • Become an AF+ Member
    • AF+ Gift Membership
    • Buy Our Merch
  • Home
  • AF+
    • All AF+ Posts
    • AF+ Discount Marketplace
    • Into the AF+ Advice Box
    • AF+ Roundtables
    • Personal Essays
    • Anonymous Job Confessions
    • Interview with My Significant Other
    • Things I’ve Never Asked
    • The Autostraddle Insider
    • Some Answers to Some Questions
    • Sex Diaries
    • S L I C K Erotica
    • Interview With My Ex
    • Excerpts From My Secret Diary
    • Annual Report
  • Television
    • All Television Posts
    • LGBTQ Television Guide: What To Watch Now
    • TV Show Recaps
    • TV Reviews
    • TV Lists
    • TV News & Trailers
    • TV Features
    • The L Word: Generation Q
    • Autostraddle TV Awards
    • To L and Back Podcast
    • Boobs On Your Tube
  • Film
    • All Film Posts
    • The 100 Best Lesbian Movies Of All Time
    • The Autostraddle Encyclopedia of Lesbian Cinema
    • Movie Lists
    • Movie Reviews
    • Movie Features
    • Movie News & Trailers
  • Entertainment
    • Literature
    • Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)
    • Style
    • Music
    • Theater
    • Visual Art
    • Comedy
    • Sports
  • Love + Sex
    • All Love + Sex Posts
    • Dating
    • Lesbian Sex
    • Sex Toys
    • Lesbian Dating Apps
    • Friendship
    • Breakups
    • Relationships
    • Lesbian Weddings
    • Shibari 101
    • Tops & Bottoms
  • News
    • Politics + Activism
    • Society + Culture
    • Pop Culture Fix
  • Community
    • Culture
    • Straddleverse
    • The Autostraddle Yearbook
    • LGBTQ+ Businesses
    • LGBT Pride
    • Autostraddle Reader Data
  • Identity
    • First Person
    • Coming Out
    • Gender
    • The QTPOC Speakeasy
    • Disability
    • Bisexuality
  • Home
    • Crafts & DIY Projects
    • Food and Drink
    • House & Garden
    • Pets & Animals
  • Games
    • Quizzes
    • Puzzles

Life

  • LGBT History
  • Health
  • Travel
  • Money + Work
  • Geekery
  • Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft
  • Holigays
  • Parenting & Family
  • Pregnancy

Etc.

  • Special Issues
  • Webcomics
  • Lists/Top Tens
  • Greatest Hits
  • Ranked by Lesbianism
  • Epic Lists
  • Shopping
  • Podcasts

  • Support Us
    • Give to Autostraddle
    • Become an AF+ Member
    • AF+ Gift Membership
    • Buy Our Merch
  • Sign In
  • Home
  • AF+
    • All AF+ Posts
    • AF+ Discount Marketplace
    • Into the AF+ Advice Box
    • AF+ Roundtables
    • Personal Essays
    • Anonymous Job Confessions
    • Interview with My Significant Other
    • Things I’ve Never Asked
    • The Autostraddle Insider
    • Some Answers to Some Questions
    • Sex Diaries
    • S L I C K Erotica
    • Interview With My Ex
    • Excerpts From My Secret Diary
    • Annual Report
  • Television
    • All Television Posts
    • LGBTQ Television Guide: What To Watch Now
    • TV Show Recaps
    • TV Reviews
    • TV Lists
    • TV News & Trailers
    • TV Features
    • The L Word: Generation Q
    • Autostraddle TV Awards
    • To L and Back Podcast
    • Boobs On Your Tube
  • Film
    • All Film Posts
    • The 100 Best Lesbian Movies Of All Time
    • The Autostraddle Encyclopedia of Lesbian Cinema
    • Movie Lists
    • Movie Reviews
    • Movie Features
    • Movie News & Trailers
  • Entertainment
    • Literature
    • Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)
    • Style
    • Music
    • Theater
    • Visual Art
    • Comedy
    • Sports
  • Love + Sex
    • All Love + Sex Posts
    • Dating
    • Lesbian Sex
    • Sex Toys
    • Lesbian Dating Apps
    • Friendship
    • Breakups
    • Relationships
    • Lesbian Weddings
    • Shibari 101
    • Tops & Bottoms
  • News
    • Politics + Activism
    • Society + Culture
    • Pop Culture Fix
  • Community
    • Culture
    • Straddleverse
    • The Autostraddle Yearbook
    • LGBTQ+ Businesses
    • LGBT Pride
    • Autostraddle Reader Data
  • Identity
    • First Person
    • Coming Out
    • Gender
    • The QTPOC Speakeasy
    • Disability
    • Bisexuality
  • Home
    • Crafts & DIY Projects
    • Food and Drink
    • House & Garden
    • Pets & Animals
  • Games
    • Quizzes
    • Puzzles
  • Shop
  • About
    • About Autostraddle
    • Meet The Team
    • Jobs
    • Advertise
    • Press
    • Events
    • Contact
    • Comment Policy
Still from the official video for "Numb",: showing Chester Bennington screaming into an overhead mic.
Music

Thank you, Chester Bennington: The Queer Strength I Found in Linkin Park

“Chester Bennington’s anger was so present and so empathic. It told me it was okay that I had it too— that I wasn’t alone, that my feelings were normal. It replaced my fear, and it helped me survive.”

Raquel July 23, 2017 37 Comments
TV Show Recaps

“Wynonna Earp” Episode 207 Recap: Aphrodite Made Me Do It

Oh hey, how about that season three renewal?

Valerie Anne July 23, 2017 47 Comments
Society + Culture

Sunday Funday is Texting T. Rex Emoji to Cool Lady Wrestlers

A queer Pakistani American female wrestler and Mexican American bookshop owner love story, Michigan providing transition care for trans inmates, new Apple emojis that you probably need right now, an end to gender stereotypes in advertising in the UK, The LGBT Inclusion Act, and lots more good news!

KaeLyn July 23, 2017 6 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Sunday Is Obsessed With Dream Daddy

No surprises there. Plus: how to take perfect thirst-trap selfies, nipple piercing, my mind is blown by the idea of talking to someone on the actual phone, and more.

Ryan Yates July 23, 2017 9 Comments
AF+

VIDEO! Getting In Bed with Kate Leth: Bisexuality II

Queen of Bisexuality Kate Leth joined me in bed this week and talked about coming out as bisexual at age 11 via Sailor Moon (!!), feeling like you “aren’t gay enough,” bringing straight, cis partners to pride celebrations, and soooo much more. Plus, kittens.

Kristin July 22, 2017 6 Comments
Recipes

Femme Brûleé: Vegan Chocolate Icebox Pie

I hope I don’t have to tell you to lick the whisk once you’re done.

Reneice Charles July 22, 2017 49 Comments
Webcomics

Some Things: Family

“As a kid, I was always really confused about who my family was…”

Cameron July 22, 2017 6 Comments
TV Show Recaps

Boob(s On Your) Tube: “Queen Sugar” Breaks the Bordelons and Our Hearts

It’s also time to catch up with the women of Claws!

Heather Hogan July 21, 2017 25 Comments
AF+

Some Answers to Some Things You’ve Been Asking Us #14

“I am so glad I joined A+ (even though it led to me drinking literal vodka water)”

The Editors July 21, 2017 45 Comments
Straddleverse

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: The Sunset Is a Lesbian

How was your week? How are your wrists doing? How’s your sleep hygiene? I hope you’re doing swimmingly (and are swimming!) and I want to hear all about it in the comments!

Ari July 21, 2017 112 Comments
A very small tan and white pup with floppy ears poking over the top of a white laptop with the text "Hey, did you see that comment?!"
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Have Mia Hamm Above Their Beds

So tell me what you want, what you really really want.

Darcy July 21, 2017 129 Comments
Literature

Things I Read That I Love #242: One By One I Am Letting Go Of The Things That Killed Me

Topics include murder, Uber, R Kelly, people getting lost and dying in National Parks, the child molestation scandal on the isolated Pitcairn Island, fast fashion, how Gotham gave us Donald Trump and so much more!

Riese July 21, 2017 8 Comments
Parenting & Family Shopping

Six Places to Shop for Super Cute Gender-Neutral Kids Clothing

A list of stores that are amazing resources for dressing a gender neutral child.

Reneice Charles July 21, 2017 12 Comments
Dating

This Lesbian Made Her Own Dating Website and It Will Blow You Away

Heather says: “I am a good communicator, I have a lot to offer a potential partner/wife and I would love to share my amazing life with someone equally amazing, kind and compassionate.”

Ari July 21, 2017 48 Comments
bathtub tipping to pour out contents, a hazy rainbow
First Person

Beyond Self-Care Bubble Baths: A Vision for Community Care

If I and other people with certain disabilities are going to survive, we need care — and not from ourselves. Because when it gets really bad for me, self-care is literally impossible. In those moments, I need community care.

Abbie Jones July 20, 2017 50 Comments
Health

Legendary WNBA Superstar Sue Bird Is Gay and Also Dating Megan Rapinoe

Bird, who has remained pretty quiet about her personal life throughout her career, simply told ESPN: “I’m gay. Megan’s my girlfriend.”

Molly Priddy July 20, 2017 25 Comments
Lindy and Nicole smile at each other adorably in the park.
Relationships

Queer Crip Love Fest: Love Is Showing Up

For the final installment of Queer Crip Love Fest, we turn the cute up to 11.

Carrie July 20, 2017 24 Comments
TV Reviews

“Daytime Divas” Inspires Happy Tears With Its 8-Year-Old Trans Character and Also Janet Mock

“Just wait, as soon as the cameras start rolling, she’s gonna go all right-wing on her ass.”

Mey July 20, 2017 7 Comments
Literature

Lez Liberty Lit: Dinosaur Flowers

The museum that texts you modern art, What We Lose, what to read, burning your work and more.

Ryan Yates July 20, 2017 5 Comments
Queer Fashion

Let’s Get Weird: Shapes and Colors

I thought I’d talk on a granular level about living in my particular body. And then, if you wanted to, you could do the same.

Nora July 20, 2017 51 Comments
← Previous Page 1 … 666 667 668 669 670 671 672 … 1,431 Next Page →

From the Archives

  • This Binder is Magic: A Gushing Review of the GC2b
  • Reine #9: Take Care of Each Other
  • A Queer Nonbinary Student Leans Into Their “Bi Era” with Kink, Play Parties, Domming, Top4Topping and Pegging

Latest Comments

  • let it be Lowkey, I Chose To Be a Lesbian "who is lauding what? who is raking who over the coals and where? the author is not raking anyone over…"

  • Seriously Lowkey, I Chose To Be a Lesbian "I just think it’s funny how actual lesbians breath anything that sounds remotely like separatism and get raked over the…"

  • Seriously Lowkey, I Chose To Be a Lesbian "That’s not what political lesbianism is. It’s non lesbians appropriating the lesbian identity in an attempt to make a separatist…"

  • cleo Lowkey, I Chose To Be a Lesbian "Thanks for clarifying!"

Latest Posts

  • Eva Victor’s ‘Sorry, Baby’ Is an Accomplished Traumedy About Life After Assault
  • ‘The Ultimatum: Queer Love’ Season 2, Episodes 4-5 Recap: Trial Marriage Time
  • Munroe Bergdorf Goes to Trans Pride in an Exclusive Clip from the Documentary ‘Love & Rage: Munroe Bergdorf’
  • “The Goal Was To Shut Us Down”: Ohio Campuses Reckon With Attacks on Education, DEI, and Trans Rights
  • 7 New Trans Novels To Read This Summer

Our Network

  • Store
  • For Them

About Us

  • What is AS?
  • Meet The Team
  • Press
  • Advertise
  • Contact Us
  • Write for Us
  • Cookie Policy
  • Privacy Policy

Follow Us

  • Twitter
  • Facebook
  • Pinterest
  • Tumblr
  • Instagram
  • RSS

Copyright 2009 - 2025 The Excitant Group, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

Comment Policy

Read ad-free: join AF MEDIA