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Kristen Stewart attends the Los Angeles premiere of Neon's "Spencer"
Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Kristen Stewart Is Frankly Not as Impressed With Her Career as You Are

Hype guy Ali Liebert is excited for Abbi Jacobson and Jodi Balfour, vampires and American Horror Story ranked, the bisexual Australian Bachelorette, and more!

Heather Hogan October 27, 2021 6 Comments
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Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: I Believe In My Heart That Leisha Hailey Would Make an Incredible Bartender

Still not over Abbi Jacobson and Jodi Balfour’s first anniversary and excuse me Tessa Thompson, this is possibly the hottest thing I’ve ever seen?

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First Person

This is My Body, and I Decide Its Meaning

As a person with polycystic ovarian syndrome, my journey to self-acceptance as a non-binary, healthy individual has been long and winding.

A'liya Spinner October 27, 2021 4 Comments
Reese Witherspoon kisses Julianna Margulies on the shoulder on The Morning Show
Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: Don’t Assume Julianna Marguiles Hasn’t Had Gay Experiences She Vaguely Suggests Possibly Occurred

Julianna Margulies says “Morning Show” fans shouldn’t make assumptions about who she’s been with, digging into lessons learned from the Facebook leak, and how Krysten Sinema became the worst kind of bisexual stereotype.

Carmen Phillips October 26, 2021 13 Comments
a queer couple fights sitting on their yellow couch in their houseplant filled apartment. One member of the couple is a Black person with shoulder length curly hair wearing a tee shirt and shorts and glasses. The other person in the couple is a white person with long brown hair wearing pajamas.
AF+

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Lesbian Dating Apps

You Need Help: I’ve Matched With the Same Person Three Times on Tinder

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Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya October 26, 2021 12 Comments
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Straddleverse

I Said It Was Time To Quit

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TV Reviews

Amazon’s “I Know What You Did Last Summer” Is the Stupidest Thing I’ve Ever Seen

Even A+++ lesbian tongue kissing can’t save this mess.

Heather Hogan October 26, 2021 12 Comments
Against a pink background, there is a drawn image of two women with 1950s hairstyles appear in the bottom right corner. One is whispering to the other, and a thought bubble appears above her head. Inside the thought bubble, there is an image of a hand holding a small, magenta vibrator, which is shaped a bit like a computer mouse.
Sex Toys

Anonymous Sex Toy Review: The Pom

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Gender Halloween

How To Choose A Halloween Costume

Halloween costumes are traditionally scary – ghosts, goblins, political figures. Look back at the last 20 years and realize … that you frequently went an entire year wearing a costume and only got a reprieve on that one glorious October day. Terrifying.

Abbie Jones October 25, 2021 23 Comments
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Straddleverse

AMA This Friday! Ask Us Invasive Questions! Wow!

We’re having a Member Drive! And an AMA on Friday! Ask us questions! Do it!

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House & Garden

9 Holes in My Haunted House, Ranked by Lesbianism

This hole has the lesbian energy of the film “Bound.”

Nico October 25, 2021 22 Comments
Abbi Jacobson and Jodi Balfour
Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Broad City’s Abbi Jacobson and Bomb Girls’ Jodi Balfour Are One Year Official

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Heather Hogan October 25, 2021 6 Comments
Carrie (Stefanie Scott) and Sara (Kylie Liya Page) discuss Carrie’s performance.
TV Reviews

“The Girl In The Woods” Delivers a Complex, Queer Horror Hero

The new Peacock supernatural series features multiple queer girls, a non-binary teen, and monster frights.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya October 25, 2021 4 Comments
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NSFW Sunday

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How supply chain issues are impacting sex toys, why we’re all nudists now, how to tell someone you’re into them sexually but not romantically and more.

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Quizzes

QUIZ: What’s Your Greatest Fear?

Sometimes we need a little help to really know ourselves. Let’s find out together.

Nico October 24, 2021 21 Comments
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First Person Food and Drink

Wild Cravings: Memory Soup

For over two years, I’ve been searching for soup. A specific soup. A watercress soup I ate maybe a handful of times spread out over a handful of weeks in the spring of 2015.

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TV Show Recaps

Boobs on Your Tube: ABC Reunites the Nasty Bitches, Crowns Them Queens

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The TV Team October 22, 2021 7 Comments
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TV Show Recaps

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Christina Tucker October 22, 2021 12 Comments
cards from the marigold tarot
Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft

Queer Tarotscopes for Scorpio Season 2021: Where Can You Set Yourself Free?

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