A Queer Guide To Getting Tattooed
From finding a queer artist and making your appointment, to etiquette and frequently asked questions (plus 14 queer artists to follow on Instagram!) — Sorry, mom! We’re gay, and we’re getting tattooed.
Lily Tomlin’s “Grandma” Is as Angry as We Are About Anti-Abortion Assholes
I rewatched Grandma the day after Justice Alito’s leaked draft opinion was published and I marveled, once again, at how prescient Lily Tomlin’s best roles are.
At “Dinner at Shibden Hall,” We Sure Did Dine!
At an evening curated by queer people for queer people, Melissa King made us dinner, we saw the premiere of Gentleman Jack Season 2, and everybody looked devastatingly hot.
Building My Own Masturbation Rituals as a Pleasure Educator
There’s nothing quite as powerful as being in charge of your own pleasure.
Quiz: Which Album by a Queer Artist/Band Should You Stream Next?
You should listen to every one of these albums, but there’s one out there that’s just right for you.
Things That Have Mothered Me That Are Not My Mothers
I think of all the things that have taught me lessons and made me the woman I am and feel that, even if my mothers didn’t care for me the way I wanted them to, I still came out on the other side, not unscathed, but survived.
“Girls5eva” Is Even Sillier and Gayer in Season 2
I didn’t think anything could make me laugh this week, and thank goodness I was wrong.
Embrace Your Inner Beach Mommi This Summer With Ocean-Themed Jewelry
Shop for nostalgic dolphin gem rings (DOES ANYONE ELSE REMEMBER THOSE), nautical bracelets, octopus ear cuffs, and more with this queer beach jewelry and accessories guide.
Butter Me Up and Call Me Escrow, Chrishell From “Selling Sunset” Is Dating Nonbinary Musician G Flip!
On the “Selling Sunset” reunion released today, Chrishell revealed that she’s dating nonbinary musician G-Flip and remains attracted to “masculine energy.”
Boobs on Your Tube: Station 19’s Queer Baby-Making Is Sweet and Sexy and Enough Already
Also! Updates on Grey’s Anatomy, All American, New Amsterdam, A Million Little Things, 9-1-1, NCIS: Hawai’i, Charmed and Legacies.
So You Want To Dress Like You’re in “The Birdcage”
We’re taking a trip to South Beach and getting into the iconic summer styles of The Birdcage! The neon, the billowy linens, the rings and gaudy necklaces!
The Comment Awards Want to Know Your Toxic Trait
“This sent me into a full spiral daydream of my kick-ass custom furniture, the queer carpenter who built it, and our enduring love.”
Into the A+ Advice Box #59: You Love Her But There’s No Passion
What do you do with your facial hair, how do you make friends in your 30’s, where is your motivation these days, how do you cope with your wife breaking things off, with an unhealthy friendship, with changes in your sexuality? The team answers these questions and so many more!
The Fall of Roe Is For All Of Us
There’s a lot of confusion going around about what this all means and as someone who worked in repro and/or civil liberties work for over fifteen years, I’m here to demystify the moment we’re in right now.
Puberty, Gym Class & Aeropostale — Fat Femmes On Their Childhood Style
“It sounds like we were all told by others that we were too big as children — rather than actually feeling that way ourselves?”
“Good Trouble” Episode 409 Recap: That Was Just A Dream
Alice finds the courage to face her fears, take the stage, and begin to heal.
Slow Takes: “F9: The Fast Saga” and the Danger of Queer Assimilation
I will always believe that homoerotic criminals are far queerer than explicitly gay cops.
A+ Roundtable: Do We Have Kids? Do We Want to Have Kids?
“I don’t know, y’all, being a parent is so scary, and sweet and weird and hilarious and exhausting and ugly and lonely and suffocating and perfect.”
Rainbow Reading: A Fictional Happy-Ever-After Doesn’t Always Satisfy When It’s a Real Life Happy-Ever-After That I Want
Check out the latest updates in LGBTQ+ literature, including an upcoming virtual reading to raise funds for queer and trans youth in Florida and Texas!
Foolish Child #119: Lesbian Visibility
“You know that very married woman was not flirting with you, right?”