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Formspring Friday Camp Edition

This week people need advice on going back to school after a decade, dealing with a breakup when no one knows you’re homosexy, and what it means when she likes you too much.

the team September 14, 2012 39 Comments
Camp

Open Thread: We’re Not At Camp

Surprise! I think we should talk about our feelings. Also I have a real surprise for you. What could it be?!

Vanessa September 14, 2012 157 Comments
Coming Out First Person

Coming Out: Yet Another Roundtable

“Coming out never ends, and for some of you it hasn’t even begun.”

Carmen September 14, 2012 146 Comments
Travel

Queer Girl City Guide: Pittsburgh, PA

Ever wonder what Pittsburgh has going for it besides Brian, Justin, Michael, Ted and Emmett?

Casey September 13, 2012 47 Comments
Coming Out First Person

Disowned: When Coming Out Doesn’t Go As Planned

“The truth is that it does bother me that my parents are pretending that I’m dead—probably more than I’ve been willing to admit.”

annika September 13, 2012 87 Comments
Crafts & DIY Projects

Postcards Are Important

Postcards are fucking important.

Carmen September 13, 2012 20 Comments
Playlists

Playlist: Our A-Camp Listening Party Choices

A listening party for two. Or two hundred.

Carmen September 13, 2012 13 Comments
LGBT Book Reviews

Listling: Reasons You Should Read Santa Olivia Immediately

There are lots of reasons to read Santa Olivia. Even if you weren’t peer pressured into doing it for A Camp.

Ryan Yates September 13, 2012 10 Comments
Geekery

Geek Things You Should Know About

Gettin’ geeky with it.

Ryan Yates September 13, 2012 28 Comments
Politics + Activism

Autostraddle’s Women of Color Ask: What Does WOC Mean To Me?

“When I see lesbian couple after lesbian couple with not only matching haircuts and clothes but matching skin colours, I feel alone.”

gabby September 13, 2012 36 Comments
Society + Culture

Also. Also. Also. Google’s Back On Our Side and Other Stories We Missed This Week

The HRC Convention, political shenanigans and the most anticipated music video since “The Real L Word” finale.

Kristen September 12, 2012 21 Comments
Dating Love + Sex

Oh Gay Cupid! 21 Signs Your OkCupid Date Isn’t Going Well

Why does this shit always happen to me?

Lizz September 12, 2012 109 Comments
Geekery

Sleep Cycle Makes Rising and Shining A Feasible Possibility

Laura’s Team Pick: The sun is up, the sky is blue, it’s beautiful and so are you.

Laura September 12, 2012 30 Comments
Book Lists

Read a F*cking eBook: Best Feminist Titles Under $5

From fiction to history to theory, we’ve got your end-of-summer feminist reading needs covered.

Ryan Yates September 12, 2012 15 Comments
Hair

How To Grow Out Your Alternative Lifestyle Haircut Less Awkwardly

Are you growing your hair out from that awesome alternative lifestyle haircut, too? Isn’t it awkward? Let’s commiserate over accidentally looking like Carol Brady.

Hansen September 12, 2012 66 Comments
House & Garden

The R Word: Advice On Sharing A Space With Other Humans

If you learn to get along with your roommates this’ll never happen to you.

Kristen September 11, 2012 45 Comments
Travel

Queer Girl City Guide: Birmingham, United Kingdom

It’s the second largest and second most populous city in the United Kingdom (the first being London) with over three and a half million people. So obviously it can’t be too bad here!

Sophie September 11, 2012 50 Comments
Playlists

Playlist: It Takes Two To Tango

We can duet!

Laura September 11, 2012 17 Comments
Music

New T&S Collaborations to Get Your Quin Fix!

Kristen’s Team Pick: This song will make your pre-A-Camp Tuesday a bit more bearable.

Kristen September 11, 2012 16 Comments
Book Features

Malinda Lo and Behold: The Autostraddle Interview

Malinda Lo spoke with Autostraddle about her new book Adaptation, diversity in YA, gay girls making out, and how much she loves us (spoiler alert: a lot).

Ryan Yates September 11, 2012 28 Comments
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