himani, Author at Autostraddle

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About himani

Himani is a dabbler of a writer. Her work includes reviews of media centering Asian stories, news and politics, advice and the occasional personal essay. Find her on Instagram.

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Love + Sex

You Need Help: Am I Being Unreasonable for Feeling Undesired by My Girlfriend?

an androgynous person in overalls and tattoos looks sad, sitting next to a femme person with a black top and ripped jeans

Parenting & Family

You Need Help: My Sister Loves Me, the Sinner, but Hates the Sin

In Never Have I Ever Season Four, Devi, Eleanor, and Fabiola all go to Prom. Devi is South Asian and in a peach gown, Eleanor is East Asian and in a purple gown, Fabiola is Afro-Latina and in a red tux.

TV Reviews

“Never Have I Ever Season Four” Stepped Right Into the Affirmative Action Debate

masks and hand sanitizer sit on a wooden surface, with a white wall behind them

Practical Magic: COVID Is Here to Stay — So What Does It Mean to Keep Each Other Safe?

Two trans femmes, Sabi and Olympia are in a bed made with blood orange sheets. Sabi looks at Olympia, who's lying on a mustard yellow pillow.

TV Reviews

“Sort Of” Season 2 Grapples With the Many Complications of Love

three older women laughing and having a good time together

Identity

You Need Help: I Just Turned 65 and I’m Questioning My Sexuality

a young Black woman looking at an approaching train while standing on the metro station platform

You Need Help: What To Do With This Meaningless, Single Life?

Himani, a South Asian woman with short wavy hair and glasses smiles with a flower in her ear. She is set in black and white against a spacey, colorful background.

Straddleverse

Writing for Autostraddle Helped Me Find the Words for My Real Coming Out

Dating

You Need Help: How To Date While Dealing With Mental Illness

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First Person

Letters to My Dead, Gay [REDACTED]

Ma and Me by Putsata Reang features a gator and a tiger on the cover. The cover is repeated three times.

LGBT Book Reviews

Putsata Reang’s New Memoir Fills In the Gaps of Lost Family History

Never Have I Ever: Aneesa smiles at the camera, a South Asian teen girl with a bob that has a center part, wearing a yellow tie dye shirt

TV Reviews

Never Have I Ever’s Queer South Asian Representation Is a Cop Out

Solo Dance by Li Kotomi, translated by Arthur Reiji Morris

LGBT Book Reviews

Li Kotomi’s “Solo Dance” Is Haunted by Death and Literature

A frustrated Black woman feeling despair sits by her computer in a shared office holding her head in her hands.

Money + Work

You Need Help: How Do I Deal With the Inescapable Sexism in My Industry?

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Life

You Need Help: Trying To Live Through the Pandemic Is Destroying My Mental Health

A South Asian woman makes a phone call while also working on her laptop.

Politics + Activism

It’s Time to Make the Call, Because We Cannot Filibuster Another Year

TV Reviews

HBO Max’s “Sort Of” Tells The Story of Three Transitions

Side by side identical images of string lights hanging from a tree in New York City

Hallmark, Dabur and the Politics of LGBTQ+ Inclusive Advertising

two individuals sit on a couch looking at their phones as though they are looking at an advice column. the one on the left inspects the screen. they are Black, have hair in a light brown afro style, are wearing glasses and a yellow collared shirt. next to them is a person who is looking at their screen and grinning. this person is taller, white, has long straight brown hair and is wearing a white striped tee

Straddleverse

Advice Columns Were My Guilty Pleasure Until They Became My Connection to Community

Breakups

You Need Help: Is It Really Over?

A south asian person with long her and a baggy jacket is frustrated with their hands on their head

Coming Out

You Need Help: I’m Closeted, How Do I Get Everyone to Stop Asking If “I’ve Found a Man”?

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Politics + Activism

Extra! Extra!: One Final News and Politics Round Up for You!

a person rests their head on their hand, looking fed up and bored in a workplace esque setting. text on the image reads Into the A+ Advice Box

A+

A+ Advice: I’m Afraid Having a Day Job Makes Me a Creative Sellout

In Never Have I Ever, Fabiola looks confused directly into the camera.

TV Reviews

It’s Time to Talk about It, “Never Have I Ever” Has a Race Problem

A+

Editor’s Notes: On AAPI Heritage Month 2021

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First Person

When Love Is A Matter Of Desperation

Samara and Umang sit together on a couch, fingers nearly touching, in front of a candle.

TV Reviews

“Four More Shots Please” Season Two Was a Betrayal

Bombay Begums queer storyline is refreshing and real.

TV Reviews

Bombay Begums Centers the Queer South Asian Story I’ve Been Searching For

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Politics + Activism

Extra! Extra!: Can We Even Begin to Untangle the Multiple Messes at the Border?

A person making a phone call in a sunlit window.

Politics + Activism

Make the Call: Biden Signed a Landmark LGBTQ+ Executive Order; We Still Need the Equality Act

Two South Asian queer femmes with long hair embrace underneath a rainbow flag.

Politics + Activism

AS Political Survey: What Top Political Issues Most Matter to Queer Communities During the 2020 Election?

amy coney barrett, a white woman with shoulder length brown hair, stands in front of a podium, with a back drop of american flags behind her. her mouth is open and her eyes are squinting as she speaks.

Politics + Activism

AS Politics Survey: LGBTQ Health Care & Amy Coney Barrett’s Impacts

a group of protestors in masks, one of them holds a sign that says "yes we literally mean abolish the police" and another says "defund NYPD"

Politics + Activism

AS Politics Survey: Where Our Readers Stand On Criminal Justice Reform

A South Asian woman in a pink sweater listens to music on her headphones, her mind at peace.

Playlists

Playlist: Western Classic Music to Soothe the Soul for the Difficult Weeks Ahead

Korra and Asami sit side by side in The Legend of Korra

TV Reviews

Legend of Korra: A Flawed Show for A Flawed World

Two hands of people wearing business suits are visible; one is passing the other a stack of bills secretly under a tabletop.

Politics + Activism

Extra! Extra!: In Which the Abuse of Power Comes as No Surprise, in the US or Globally

TV Reviews

As a Queer South Asian, “Never Have I Ever” Been So Let Down

Politics + Activism

Extra! Extra! US States and Countries Start to Reopen – How’s That Working Out?

Politics + Activism

Extra! Extra! LGBTQ+ Frontline Workers Face Health Risks Today, Unemployment Tomorrow

Identity

Extra! Extra!: How the Pandemic Is Disproportionately Harming the LGBTQ Community and More

Politics + Activism

Extra! Extra! The Pandemic Proves Sex Workers Deserve Decriminalization & Safety Nets

Politics + Activism

Extra! Extra!: The Risk of Social Distancing, the Risk of Reopening

Politics + Activism

Extra! Extra! Let’s Look at the Impact of COVID-19 on Marginalized Communities

Politics + Activism

Extra! Extra!: The Harrowing and Hopeful News about COVID-19 Around the Globe

Politics + Activism

Extra! Extra!: People Are Rising to the Occasion with COVID-19, Many Governments Not So Much

Breakups

Tempted to Check on Your Ex? Check on Someone Else’s Ex Instead!

Coming Out

You Need Help: How Do I Let Go of Feeling Guilty After Coming Out Late in Life?

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