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TV Reviews

Season 2 of “House of Ho” Has Queer Mommy Issues & Lots of Dyke Drama!

It’s pretty dykey and very messy — like a perfect end-of-summer treat!

Shelli Nicole September 9, 2022 2 Comments
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TV News & Trailers

Javicia Leslie, Other Bisexual, Queer, Lesbian Celebrities, Celebrate The Autostraddle TV Awards

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Carmen Phillips September 8, 2022 14 Comments
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Carmen Phillips September 8, 2022 14 Comments
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TV Reviews

“The Devil in Ohio” Annoyed the Hell Out Of Me But There’s a Cute Little Queer Storyline

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Riese September 8, 2022 12 Comments
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Drew Burnett Gregory September 8, 2022 5 Comments
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Literature

Rainbow Reading: Book Recommendations From Hot People Just Hit Different

It’s a great time to immerse yourself in some LGBTQ+ sci-fi and genre fiction.

Yashwina September 8, 2022 9 Comments
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TV Show Recaps

JoJo Siwa Dresses Like Dolly Parton, Gays Up “High School Musical: The Series” Even More

In JoJo Siwa’s first queer role, she basically plays herself. And it’s lovely.

Heather Hogan September 7, 2022 4 Comments
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The TV Team September 7, 2022 22 Comments
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Heather Hogan September 7, 2022 5 Comments
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No Filter: Imagine Eating Risotto With Tessa Thompson?!

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Carmen Phillips September 6, 2022 7 Comments
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LGBT Book Reviews

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Heather Hogan September 6, 2022 1 Comment
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JoJo Siwa Is Dating Avery Cyrus and Lesbian Gossip Tiktok is ABUZZ

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Riese September 6, 2022 19 Comments
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Friendship

You Need Help: How Do I Ask My Couple Friends To Hang Out With Me One-on-One?

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103 Queer and Feminist Books Coming Your Way Fall 2022

I can guarantee there is something for everyone on this list of fall 2022 queer and feminist books, whether your jam is graphic novel fairy tales, memoirs about queer family, or anything in between.

Casey September 6, 2022 17 Comments
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First Person

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Latonya September 5, 2022 12 Comments
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