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a collage of all the recipes the team has shared from a whiskey neat to christmas cookies to mushroom gracy, pasta cabonara, a 7 layer cake, sausage balls, and a grasshopper drink
AF+ Recipes

A Very Special Senior Team Holigay Recipe Roundup

We’ve got cookies, gravy, cake, pasta, sausage balls and two separate and very different alcoholic beverages.

The Editors December 23, 2022 8 Comments
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AF+

Today at 11am PST / 7pm GMT: Get Lost & Delirious with Sally!

Swords! Lesbians! Falconry! It’s time to watch-along with Sally during a very special event set at a time that should actually be convenient for our friends in Europe.

Nico and Sally
December 22, 2022
a collage of the same photo repeated eight times. in the photo, sadie, nico and mya the dog pose in the snow. nico is a white genderqueer human with short dark hair that is shaved on the sides and glasses. they are wearing a black coat. sadie is a white butch woman with short hair and glasses who is also wearing a black coat and a burgundy scarf. mya is a fluffy white, gray and brown malamute mix with two different colored eyes
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Interview With My Girlfriend: Sadie

“Well, if the ceiling collapses, at least it won’t fall on us because this section of ceiling is already missing.”

Nico December 21, 2022 29 Comments
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A+ Roundtable: Times That Bringing a Partner (or Yourself) Home for the Holigays Got Awkard

“My mom loves to do stockings with socks and chocolates and lottery tickets in it. This is perfect for me, a person who both always needs socks and to win the lottery.”

the team December 20, 2022 9 Comments
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AF+

A+ Roundtable: What We Love and Hate About Where We Live

You can’t choose where you spawn on this planet, and you can’t always necessarily choose where you wind up living.

the team December 19, 2022 21 Comments
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Glitter and Glycerin: A Snow Globe Workshop Recap

Snow globe instructions and a hot D&D tip of ALL THINGS.

Nico and Laneia
December 19, 2022 3 Comments
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It’s The Big Queer A+ Trivia Quiz Of The Year!

50 questions, ten subjects. How well do you remember the year in queer?

Sally December 18, 2022 19 Comments
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A+ Crossword Is Using the Hanky Code

Because it’s important to be upfront about the sex you want, okay?

brooke December 17, 2022 13 Comments
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Tonight! Gen Q Watch-Along with Analyssa, Drew and Riese

Join the cast of To L and Back: Gen Q in the A+ discord as we watch and react to the latest episode of The L Word: Generation Q.

Nico December 16, 2022 2 Comments
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Into the A+ Advice Box #74: HOLIGAY ADVICE

Coping with fatphobia and QAnon relatives, hosting your first party, regifting and more!

the team December 16, 2022 27 Comments
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Our Hottest Takes About 2022 LGBTQ+ TV and Film

Today you’re getting our entire team’s spiciest takes about 2022 LGBTQ+ TV and film, something I was only able to convince people to participate in because Nico said we could keep them safely tucked within A+.

Heather Hogan and the team
December 14, 2022 25 Comments
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Alright! Come Join Us on the Totally Temporary, Ephemeral A+ Discord!

For thirteen warm days in these cold months, let’s hang.

Nico December 13, 2022 1 Comment
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AF+ Meet-Ups / Events

Writing Yourself Home: A Generative Writing Workshop on December 21

Facilitated by shea wesley martin, this 90-minute workshop creates space for participants to intentionally engage in writing, discussing craft, and building connections within the A+ community.

Nico and shea wesley martin
December 12, 2022 7 Comments
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A+ Crossword Is on Deck

You can run your little Saturday errands OR you can do this crossword puzzle and then run your little Saturday errands!

Rachel December 10, 2022 10 Comments
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DIY Snow Globes

Get ready to make DIY snow globes with Laneia and Kayla!

Laneia December 7, 2022
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AF+ Puzzles

A+ Crossword Is Furiously Writing Fanfic

…While listening to WAP on repeat.

brooke December 3, 2022 23 Comments
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Into the A+ Advice Box #73: Your Boyfriend Doesn’t Like Your Soft Butch Haircut

Big slut energy, a friend lying about traveling, how to get reading done, dealing with getting misgendered by coworkers, and more!

the team December 2, 2022 41 Comments
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The Autostraddle Insider Issue 98: November 2022

“no one gives you a free personal pan pizza when you do something you really, really don’t want to do! we live in a crumbling society”

The Editors November 30, 2022 28 Comments
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AF+ Puzzles

A+ Crossword Puts Its Money Where Its Mouth Is

Just like you!

Rachel November 26, 2022 25 Comments
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A+ Members Get 25% Off Autostraddle Merch — Including All New Designs!

We’ve got A League Of Their Own Peaches Tee, Peaches Socks, an All Stars Cap, new tees and restocks of your fav items ALL on sale!

viv November 25, 2022 6 Comments
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