I’m In My Thirties and Can’t Make Up My Mind About Having Kids
I’ve been thinking about it almost every day lately.
AF+ Crossword Would Sit on the Bisexual Sofa
Singing in the shower is fun until you get body wash in your mouth.
I’m a Stone Butch Top Who Can’t Bring Myself To Penetrate Anyone Else
“I’m struggling to get over the empathetic feelings of ‘Aaa! Vaginal penetration is painful and bad.'”
Video Replay: Queer Yoga by Butch Yoga, Welcoming the New Year
Couldn’t make Queer Yoga? Follow along with the recording!
AF+ Crossword Would Like Your Granola Recipe Please
What do you call a canine magician?
The Autostraddle Insider #107: January 2024
“Oh yeah not popular in like a toxic way where everyone is obsessed with them being evil or something haha. They’re *good* popular!”
AF+ Crossword Will Be Graded on a Curve
What does a vegetarian zombie eat?
Into the AF+ Advice Inbox #97: F(ix) My Life
A troublesome group chat, a moldy shower, being autistic at work, moving cities, and more!
Anonymous Sex Diary: Shibari and Stolen Privacy
“I’m not in a place where coming out to my family is a reasonable option. Fortunately, I have a husband who is more than happy to cover me during my prolonged phone conversations with other partners.”
AF+ Crossword Is Exhibiting Its Typical Behavior
I have the world’s worst thesaurus.
AF+ Crossword Supports Queer Indie Bookstores
I’m reading a book about anti-gravity.
Into the A+ Advice Inbox #96: So You Hate College
Will your friend ever want to be something more? Can you be friends with your friend’s ex? The team answers these questions and more!
Editor’s Notes: 13 Days of A+ and the SHAME Series
A real one-two combo of notes!
The Eras of My Bisexuality
She was the straight, white, Christian girl who was so picture perfect no one could dislike her.
AF+ Crossword is an Amorphous Thing
What’s big, gray and doesn’t matter?
Shame as a Black, Autistic Queer Elder
“Toward the end of our stay in Mississippi, a 24-hour crisis line started up. I called them almost every weeknight.”
Apparently, Shame Tastes Like My Cunt
“The other partners I had throughout much of my time in sex work were uncomfortable at best and shaming at worst. They were jealous and confused. ‘How can you interact with men like this?'”
A+ Crossword Plays as Yoshi
What kind of music do windmills like?
The Autostraddle Insider #106: December 2023
“Why did Riese and I write 50,000 words about this Hanukkah movie.”
“Too Queer, Too Smart” for Abuse
“They didn’t hit me. They didn’t throw me. They didn’t throw the phones, the glasses, the blow dryers, at me. They were just near me and it was always somehow my fault.”