I Love Living Alone, But My Girlfriend’s Ready to U-Haul
You’re not sure you’re ready to live with your girlfriend yet! Also, a reader is hurt by a friend’s rejection of her mother.
Baby Steps #4: And I Feel God At This Baby Shower Tonight
“When it comes to baby showers, my wife was pretty certain about what she wanted: not to have one.”
Neither Of Us Know How To Make the First Move Sober. Will We Ever Have Sex Again?
Now that you’re sober, you’ve forgotten how to successfully initiate sex! Also, a reader’s partner has checked out post-election.
Good Boys Bonus Episode: Good Boy… Friends
The Good Boys’ girlfriends hop on the pod to discuss top surgery care, how to handle testosterone-inspired sex drive differentials, saying no to getting head, masturbating with the curtains closed, holding on to dyke identification when your partner transitions, embracing femininity on T and how Kylo made dinner one time.
Am I a Self-Hating Lesbian for Crushing on a Straight Woman?
A grown-ass lesbian is finally and fully crushing on a straight woman — now what?? Also, let’s all get back into reading!
Should I Get Married Before Trump Takes Office?
An international couple ponders a visa marriage before Trump takes office. Also a reader wonders if dietary restrictions can be a dealbreaker.
Baby Steps #3: Allegedly Essential Baby Products, Looking for Gays On The Baby App and Surveillance Anxiety
Of the many allegedly essential items we must procure for our baby — how many are actually essential and why do I feel so weird about surveillance products? Also: trying to figure out who all’s gay here on the Baby App boards.
My Straight Friend Wants Gay Attention
She’s straight but acts pretty gay at the parties! Is it allyship, or something else? Also, a reader requests some tittyfucking specifics please.
Should I Hold Space For My Ex-Friend Detailing All The Times I Hurt Them
What do you owe someone during a friend breakup? Also, a reader wonders about the right time to ask if someone’s interested in dating them.
Baby Steps #2: Telling Chosen Family, Bonding With Heterosexuals and a Lot of Dog Feelings
When do you start telling people that you’re pregnant and how should you do it? Is pregnancy the great equalizer when it comes to the straight family gaze? Do unborn babies know when you are sad? Plus, Gretchen answers a reader question about how she came around to wanting to be a parent (it includes a Rock Bottom and the World’s Worst Dog)!
My Girlfriend Thinks Bad Service Deserves a Bad Tip, I Disagree
Your server was really bad, but is it ever ok to leave a bad tip? Also, should you give unsolicited relationship advice to a friend?
I’m Inexperienced and Panicked That I’ll Be Bad at Sex
How to navigate dating apps when you have very limited sexual experience?! Also, a reader feels isolated after experiencing profound family loss.
Baby Steps #1: How We Got Gay Pregnant
My wife and I are having a baby and this is the first edition of Baby Steps, a column about the gestation and eventual birth of this human child who I think is going to be pretty tall!
Should I Dump My Trump-Loving Girlfriend?
Your girlfriend just straight up voted for Trump, so now what?? Also, a reader feels conflicted about Trump voters throwing her baby shower.
How Can I Convince My Girlfriend To Accept Her Shot at Financial Freedom?
Your parents can help your girlfriend achieve some financial freedom, but she super doesn’t see it that way. Plus, a reader wonders if cis people can use “they/them”?
My Ex Would Rather I Rearrange My Entire Life Than Be Friends
Your ex doesn’t want to see you at public spaces, but is that your responsibility? Also, a reader wonders if it’s empty flirting or something more?
AF+ Mini Crossword Flew Too Close to the Sun
But for one bright and glorious moment, it was perfect.
AF+ Full-Sized Crossword is Moving In
How are we going to fit all of this stuff into one apartment …?
Can I Ask My Non-Binary Partner to Pretend To Be a Cis Man For My Sister’s Wedding?
Is it selfish to ask your spouse to pretend to be someone they aren’t, just so you’re not alone? Also, a reader has penis envy, possibly, maybe?
AF+ Mini Crossword Is Flying High
We’re really putting those airline miles to good use.