Black Moon Lilith 101: The Astrology That Defines Your Queer Villain Era
Learn all about Black Moon Lilith, the part of your birth chart that chooses freedom over conformity.
The Married LA Parents Who Are Getting Off Up to 7 Times
These two started out as strictly hooking up for the sex, and now they’re finishing each other’s sentences. This is how they f*ck.
What Does It Mean To Dream About Alien Abduction?
I’d like to start off by saying that I’m certain I dreamt of my ex at least once before I ever met or knew of them.
Capitalism Is a B*tch, but I Can’t Help My Friends Anymore
Should you keep recommending your friends for jobs, when they keep dropping the ball? Also, we help a reader whose younger friend isn’t taking their dating advice.
Out the Movies: Times I’ve Been Wrong
I’ve been publishing my thoughts on film and television since 2018 and it’s inevitable my perspectives have shifted.
A Lifetime of Needles
I got my first trans surgery a couple months ago, and I went into FFS with as much curiosity about the experience as I had excitement for the results.
WHY Do I Keep Dreaming of My Ex Who I No Longer Speak To?
Cowboy Clairvoyant quit their federal job (in real life! not a dream!) and now they’re here to tell you what it means to dream about a no-contact ex, defeating a villain, and a tower. Plus, the tarot provides some guidance for love.
Literally Dreaming About Sex With My Ex
The sex you’re having now is fine, but the sex with her was incredible (unfortunately). Also we help a reader whose girlfriend won’t stop singing show tunes!
Step Into The Parlour, a Queer Shared Diary
The Parlour is a new weekly newsletter and column for paid members that invites you into a space for unfiltered, of-the-moment queer slice-of-life writing. Think of it like a diary passed between your favorite queer writers!
I Don’t Want To Get Pregnant but I Keep Dreaming I Am
Plus, dreams about a groundhog riding a bicycle, a house where everything is wrong, and more mystic musings.
The Anti-Uhaul Couple With a 22-Year Age Gap Who Used to F*ck in Cars
Don’t get me wrong — AJ and Natasha would still f*ck in a roomy SUV if absolutely necessary.
Dykes Discuss Apple TV’s ‘The Studio’
Two dykes discuss Apple TV+’s The Studio, their shared love of Seth Rogen, Chase Sui Wonders on Genera+ion, KATHRYN HAHN, and why Apple is anti-cigarette.
HELP! I’m Trapped in a Fartless Relationship!
Nearly two years of cohabitation and you still haven’t farted around each other?! Also, a reader’s gf might be exhibiting (and triggering) some disordered eating habits.
Are You Coming to Our ‘Yellowjackets’ Season Finale Virtual Watch Party Tonight?!
Yellowjackets is best watched in a hive, so won’t you join me?!
Out the Movies: Is Gay Sex a Radical Act?
Bruce LaBruce aims to rewrite a classic Pasolini film, but has queer sex lost its bite in this new context?
Our Birth Story Has Severe Features
Our birth story has everything: preclampsia with severe features, catheters, bloody explosions, ginger ale, nurses from heaven, a birthing ball used as a chair and the eventual debut of a really really cute little baby boy.
Cowboy Clairvoyant: A Queer Dream Interpretation Series
Members can submit dreams and tarot questions to be answered in this new weekly newsletter, COWBOY CLAIRVOYANT! Check out the first three dream interpretations!
My Girlfriend Hates That My Family Is White, But I Can’t Fix That
She roasts your family for being so white, and you’re like… yep we are, that’s true! So now what? Also, let us plan your trip to Italy!
I’m Afraid I Missed the Best Years of My Life
Your twenties weren’t carefree or slutty — are you too old to have fun now? Also, a reader’s unrequited high school crush is making them miserable.
Out the Movies: ‘Castration Movie’ and the Fallacy of Group Shame
That monologue from The White Lotus, a Torrey Peters novella, and Louise Weard’s lo-fi epic reveal who gets to be trans.