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Some Answers to Some Things You’ve Been Asking Us #19

“I’m going to make a shirt that says Rachel Is Right or maybe Listen to Rachel.”

The Editors May 10, 2018 34 Comments
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The Autostraddle Insider: Issue 45, April 2018

“wait there are nipples on shutterstock??”

Riese April 24, 2018 48 Comments
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20 Excerpts From Gabe Dunn’s Baby Bi Stoner Diary 2001-2003

Grass lit up by flecks of sun
Feel something!
THE SLOW BURN

Gabe Dunn April 10, 2018 7 Comments
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Some Answers to Some Things You’ve Been Asking Us #18

“Are you familiar with the Jughead Lesbian Style Debacle of 2018.”

The Editors March 29, 2018 62 Comments
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The Autostraddle Insider: Issue 44, March 2018

“YES PUSSY IS ON THE LIST
omg”

Riese March 28, 2018 34 Comments
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A+ Roundtable: The Sex We Just Can’t Get Into

Sex: it’s complicated! Some people like some things and other people like other things and some people love things other people do not like at all!

the team March 26, 2018 48 Comments
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A+ Roundtable: Our First Time Watching Porn

Here’s all the good, bad and the ugly about our first time viewing porn. Remember VHS tapes? Were we ever so young?

the team March 19, 2018 22 Comments
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A+ Roundtable: Internalized Homophobia and Other Endearing Forms of Low-Key Self-Hatred

Unpacking internalized homophobia (and lesbophobia, and biphobia, and transphobia, and misogyny, and MORE) is hard, but for you we did our best!

the team March 12, 2018 84 Comments
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It’s Autostraddle’s 9th Birthday: Ask Us Anything!

For eight entire hours, Team Autostraddle is answering all of your questions! Advice, personal, professional, weird, normal, invasive, polite, every question!

Laneia March 9, 2018 758 Comments
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The Autostraddle Insider: Issue 43, February 2018

“ok who sent me an autostraddle email address request for kristen stewart”

Riese February 26, 2018 32 Comments
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VIDEO! Getting in Bed with Kristin + Reneice: You Can Cook Food!

Reneice got in my bed and we MADE COOKIES. That should be all you need to know but I will also tell you that we answered food-related advice and also some relationship-advice, all while filling my sheets with crumbs! Woot!

Kristin February 24, 2018 2 Comments
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VIDEO! Getting In Bed with Rhea Butcher!

Rhea Butcher got in bed with me and said SO MANY REALLY BRILLIANT THINGS on a range of topics including turtles, gender, clothing, pronouns, and marriage. What a day.

Kristin January 30, 2018 3 Comments
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Some Answers to Some Things You’ve Been Asking Us #17

“I don’t know who you are but I’ve never believed in anyone’s ability to reach peak mommi more than you”

The Editors January 25, 2018 39 Comments
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VIDEO! Getting In Bed with Kristin + Erin: First Dates

Erin Sullivan joined me in bed last week to report from the field on HOW TO DO FIRST DATES. All you need to know, plus Jenny joins and shares with us her thoughts on “bringing a worksheet for you both to fill out.” We are so good at this. (Oh, and also the ring light made us ghosts.)

Kristin January 22, 2018 4 Comments
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The Autostraddle Insider: Issue 42, January 2018

i don’t claim most of the dude bro lesbians in nyc who used to be shitty to me at the bar cause i have long hair
BUT YOU KNOW I AM NOT EVEN THAT MAD ABOUT THEM I HOPE THEY GREW UP AND GOT BETTER

Riese January 16, 2018 35 Comments
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VIDEO! Getting In Bed with Kristin: New Year’s Revolution

It is 2018, I still have a bed, and I had a damn great time talking to all of you about how we are going to tackle this new year from every angle like the Amazons we are. *muscle flex*

Kristin January 13, 2018 5 Comments
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2017 By the Numbers: An A+ Members Exclusive

It’s that time again! Time to look back at the content that did good on social media, our income and expenses, and the other numbers that determined our sense of self-worth in 2017.

Riese January 10, 2018 47 Comments
pattern of tissue boxes that say "for feelings"
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A+ Monday Roundtable: My Achy Breaky Heart

When did you know it was over?

the team January 8, 2018 34 Comments
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VIDEO! Getting In Bed with Jen Richards: Holiday AMA

Jen! Richards! Is! The! Best!! We talked about everything from HerStory to Keanu Reeves to being trans and home for the holidays to witchcraft and related book recommendations, and it *all* ruled.

Kristin December 21, 2017 3 Comments
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Autostraddle Family Photo Album: Let’s Celebrate the Holigays With Nostalgia!

I wonder what Laneia looked like in her winter coat as a small child, or what pose KaeLyn made in front of the Christmas tree when she was 4, or what wacky gift Riese’s aunt bought her one year. LET’S FIND OUT.

Vanessa December 19, 2017 28 Comments
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