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Annotated: Julia Nunes, “All The Same”

“Hi, I’m Julia Nunes and I’m a recovering people pleaser.”

Stef September 20, 2016 8 Comments
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Things Men Tell You When They Think You’re One of Them

“It was a predatory smile that he flashed at us, the rest of his pack, expecting us to become predators with him and start howling along.”

Mey September 8, 2016 25 Comments
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Poly Pocket: Making Relationships Up As We Go

Welcome to Poly Pocket, a new series showcasing polyamorous and ethically non-monogamous relationships. Here’s how a married kinky butch/femme couple does poly.

Ryan Yates September 8, 2016 54 Comments
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Whose Tattoo is Whose? An Autostraddle Team Mystery

Which Autostraddle staffers have which of these tattoos? Are you familiar enough with their personal brands and/or Instagrams to guess? Or maybe psychic? Let’s find out!

the team September 6, 2016 22 Comments
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Riese Finally Read Harry Potter: The Autostraddle Interview

It was a real treat watching her learn to love the series too, and so when she was all finished, I called her up on the phone and talked to her about her magical journey.

Heather Hogan September 5, 2016 47 Comments
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The Autostraddle Insider: Issue 26, August 2016

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Riese August 31, 2016 54 Comments
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20 Excerpts from Kayla’s Elementary School Journals, 1998-2003

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Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya August 30, 2016 27 Comments
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Interview With My Ex-Girlfriend: MA

“Rather than the ‘Irish goodbye’ where you slip out without telling anyone the ‘lesbian goodbye’ is to have a sort of intense breakup and then continue to sleep in each other’s beds‬.”

Erin August 4, 2016 37 Comments
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The Absolute Worst Thing A Boy Could Ever Be

Grieving a friend lost to suicide in childhood, the effects of harmful compulsory masculinity, and looking around at a life that could just barely have been imagined then.

Mey August 1, 2016 24 Comments
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The Autostraddle Insider: Issue 25, July 2016

“Today in the bisexual celebrities beat, I have fucking died”

Riese July 29, 2016 29 Comments
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The A+ Bee Issue 40: Over the Hive

Get ready for a moon puzzle, coloring page, playlist and SO MUCH MORE.

Chelsey July 20, 2016 7 Comments
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What’s In Your Bag?

Autostraddle staffers opened their bags — you’ll never believe what happened next!

the team July 14, 2016 62 Comments
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The Autostraddle Insider: Issue 24, June 2016

“I hope you gave birth to a swan, invented a new way to eat pineapples, started recycling or used a cucumber as a dildo after your dog ate your dildo. I hope only good things for you.”

The Editors July 4, 2016 41 Comments
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The A+ Bee Issue Thirty-Nine: Bee Cool, Soda Pop

This issue contains a haiku about Sarah, our new Design Director, a word search AND a mystery solvers, and a guest playlist about cats. Get in here!

Chelsey June 29, 2016 5 Comments
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Annotated: Jenny Owen Youngs “Fuck Was I”

“Everyone I had dated or made out with (or even thought about making out with) in the past year thought it was about them. At the time, I was certain they were all wrong — except, you know, one of them.”

Stef June 28, 2016 16 Comments
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Have the Coolest Father’s Day With Our Cool Dads

A vintage Father’s Day celebration, with photos!

the team June 19, 2016 16 Comments
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A+ Inbox LIVE #9: Who’s Cleaning Up That Whipped Cream?

*Available to all A+ members, including Cobalt and Bronze.* On this week’s show, we discuss underwears and the personal evolution thereof, crushing on your bestie roommate, and how you’re feeling about this redesign. Also, hey, what was the Saved By The Bell of your generation?

Laneia June 14, 2016 23 Comments
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The Autostraddle Insider: Issue 23, May 2016, Alex Vega Tribute Edition

Our number one feeling is always Alex Vega.

Riese May 26, 2016 31 Comments
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The A+ Bee Issue Thirty-Eight: Ride Sally Ride

This issue includes an out of this world playlist, a coloring page featuring Sally herself, a constellation by number and so much more!

Chelsey May 24, 2016 9 Comments
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A+ Inbox LIVE! #7: I Didn’t WANT a Vanilla Latte

We discuss what to do with your social media pics that include your exes, what to do when your weird is showing, and how to deal with mansplaining dorks who happened to be married to your BFF, with a guest appearance from a new Staff Writer! Are you not INTRIGUED.

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