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A+ Inbox LIVE! Podcast #15: You’re Already In Pretty Deep

Moving in with your girlfriend after just one year (even when you have an ominous feeling about it maybe), dating someone significantly shorter than you, and the politics behind not commenting on our political posts but definitely commenting on our cookie posts. It’s a podcast!

Laneia November 8, 2016 21 Comments
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Some Answers to Some Things You’ve Been Asking Us #10

Can you help me understand why I identify so strongly with 80s music videos?

The Editors November 4, 2016 33 Comments
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The Autostraddle Insider: Issue 28, October 2016

“I would give anything to see Rachel start a discussion with a writer that begins with ‘Can I be frank'”

Riese November 1, 2016 29 Comments
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Some Recent Priorities

“FRUIT —> bananas, many avocados, etc.”

the team October 25, 2016 49 Comments
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A+ Inbox LIVE! #14: Reverse Ecstasy

A-Camp Wisconsin, firebugs, depression that is rooted to a place, and the correct feelings to have after your partner cheats on you with a dude. It’s A+ Inbox LIVE and it’s ready for you!!

Laneia October 10, 2016 27 Comments
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What’s Our Sign?

We all know that you’ve been wondering what signs all your Autostraddle favorites are. Maybe you want to see how compatible you are with us? Maybe you want to see how compatible we are with each other? Well, here you go!

Mey October 6, 2016 72 Comments
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The Autostraddle Insider: Issue 27, September 2016

“Drink with nerds and feel good about people calling you mom.”

Riese October 1, 2016 34 Comments
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A+ Fireside Chat #1: After AfterEllen and Gay Doritos

This episode of Fireside Chat deals mostly with the demise of AfterEllen, but it also has a segment by Erin that’s guaranteed to make this day worth living. Get in here!

Laneia September 22, 2016 31 Comments
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Annotated: Julia Nunes, “All The Same”

“Hi, I’m Julia Nunes and I’m a recovering people pleaser.”

Stef September 20, 2016 8 Comments
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Things Men Tell You When They Think You’re One of Them

“It was a predatory smile that he flashed at us, the rest of his pack, expecting us to become predators with him and start howling along.”

Mey September 8, 2016 25 Comments
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Poly Pocket: Making Relationships Up As We Go

Welcome to Poly Pocket, a new series showcasing polyamorous and ethically non-monogamous relationships. Here’s how a married kinky butch/femme couple does poly.

Ryan Yates September 8, 2016 54 Comments
AF+

Whose Tattoo is Whose? An Autostraddle Team Mystery

Which Autostraddle staffers have which of these tattoos? Are you familiar enough with their personal brands and/or Instagrams to guess? Or maybe psychic? Let’s find out!

the team September 6, 2016 22 Comments
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Riese Finally Read Harry Potter: The Autostraddle Interview

It was a real treat watching her learn to love the series too, and so when she was all finished, I called her up on the phone and talked to her about her magical journey.

Heather Hogan September 5, 2016 47 Comments
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The Autostraddle Insider: Issue 26, August 2016

“i’m stepping down from autostraddle
bye
you’ll miss calling me out when i give my body to the sea so”

Riese August 31, 2016 54 Comments
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20 Excerpts from Kayla’s Elementary School Journals, 1998-2003

With illustrations!

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya August 30, 2016 27 Comments
AF+

Interview With My Ex-Girlfriend: MA

“Rather than the ‘Irish goodbye’ where you slip out without telling anyone the ‘lesbian goodbye’ is to have a sort of intense breakup and then continue to sleep in each other’s beds‬.”

Erin August 4, 2016 37 Comments
AF+

The Absolute Worst Thing A Boy Could Ever Be

Grieving a friend lost to suicide in childhood, the effects of harmful compulsory masculinity, and looking around at a life that could just barely have been imagined then.

Mey August 1, 2016 24 Comments
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The Autostraddle Insider: Issue 25, July 2016

“Today in the bisexual celebrities beat, I have fucking died”

Riese July 29, 2016 29 Comments
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The A+ Bee Issue 40: Over the Hive

Get ready for a moon puzzle, coloring page, playlist and SO MUCH MORE.

Chelsey July 20, 2016 7 Comments
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What’s In Your Bag?

Autostraddle staffers opened their bags — you’ll never believe what happened next!

the team July 14, 2016 62 Comments
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