I Hate That I Want My Girlfriend To Stop Posting Sexy Pics Of Herself On Social Media
A girlfriend’s sex-positivity is crossing a line — but it’s a line you don’t even want to have. Also, a reader outed a cheater and now it’s just Drama City!
AF+ Crossword Is Having Girl Dinner
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Am I Being Biphobic Or Just Setting Boundaries?
You bonded over a lesbian identity but now she’s exploring bisexuality, and you’re poly and you really don’t want a cis man in the mix. Plus advice for transitioning from LDR to IRL LIVING 2GETHER.
AF+ Crossword Is a Hat Gay
But the kind that appreciates that there are non-hat gays out there.
My Family’s Mad at Me For Refusing To Go on a Homophobic Vacation
Your sister-in-law is being blatantly homophobic — IN JUNE — and your family’s mad that you’re mad about it. Also, we settle a debate for the ages: blinds open or closed for TV time?
AF+ Crossword Is Working Up an Appetite
This puzzle may leave you feeling a bit peckish.
Is It Crazy To Ask My Brother To Change His Daughter’s Name For Me?
Everybody in your family knew you were gonna name your kid after your Mom — but your brother beat you to it. What now? Also, a lesbian cat lover struggles with the possibility of a dog in the home.
AF+ Crossword Wishes Everyone a Happy June
AF+ Crossword also recommends packing lots of sunscreen and staying hydrated.
My Girlfriend Has Been Lying to Me for Months About The Weirdest Thing
You don’t care if she graduated college or not, but either way she’s been lying about it to everyone! Plus advice on dealing with a couple’s fight when they’re also your roommates.
AF+ Crossword Is Gay in the Sheets and Gay in the Streets
And really, what else were you expecting?
My Girlfriend Loves Period Sex and I Hate It
Advice for a person who really wants to get over being grossed out by periods, plus advice about friendship from three different askers.
Days of Organizing, Nights of Bratting: A Femme Queer Spanks, Straps, Gets Toppy and Waxed
A writer reflects on accessing desire in trying times and the romance of collective liberation — playdates that range from toppy to bratty, a bottom with endearing nonverbal cues, a “hole-within-a-hole,” and a Zoom date with their girlfriend daddy.
I’m Scared About My Wife Using Her Ex-Boyfriend as Our Sperm Donor
Sperm is expensive and you don’t know many “good” men — but you do know one…your wife’s ex. Plus advice on discussing money and mis-matched incomes with friends.
AF+ Crossword Is Feeling Thirsty
Solver poll: are crossword puzzles a hobby or a lifestyle?
If I Didn’t Initiate Sex in My Marriage, We’d Never Have Sex — Is This Normal?
Advice for a reader who’s frustrated with initiating sex, plus upper lip hair removal, and tips for sharing an apartment with a partner queerly and successfully.
A Queer Nonbinary Student Leans Into Their “Bi Era” with Kink, Play Parties, Domming, Top4Topping and Pegging
“In the outside world, I dress masc, and skirts feel foreign. But at play parties, I’ve started wearing a tiny top/skirt combo, trusting that for those few hours, my gender will be read as nothing more than “slut.”
Is It Creepy That I’m So Much Older Than My Entire Queer Friend Group?
Advice for a 49-year-old who’s anxious that she may not be wanted in spaces and social circles where most people are younger than her.
AF+ Crossword Has Had It! Officially!
What’s this? A crossword written by TWO people?!
My Friend Keeps Getting Romantically Rejected and I Think I Know Why — How Do I Break It To Her?
How do you talk to a friend about their messy house and personal hygiene? Plus advice for a therapist who is overstepping, soothing oneself during a friend breakup, and tips for gay stuff in Pittsburgh!
AF+ Crossword Is Out of Corny Jokes
No, really, I (the crossword editor) have finally exhausted all the good bad jokes I can find on the internet.