Having Anxiety Dreams? It’s Time To Keep a Dream Journal
This is your sign to start a little gay dream journal. Here are five prompts to get started.
I’m a Cis Butch Woman, and Boy Do I Want Top Surgery!
Can you feel dysphoric about your boobs even if you’re not trans? Also, tips on how to learn to love your body as you come into your queerness.
The Ultimatum: Queer Love’s Bridget Matloff on What the Cameras Didn’t Show You
Bridget Matloff speaks on friendship with Gabby Windey, pressures of reality TV, thoughts on marriage, gender roles, and yes, haircare.
I Feel Like Leaving When My Sexual Partners Require Me To Come
How can you convince your hookups to stop trying to make you have an orgasm? Also, tips on maintaining a writing practice for people with ADHD.
The Lovers Tarot Card IS Gay
Cowboy Clairvoyant redownloaded the apps. Find out how that went and read their advice for readers looking to make major life changes.
Should We Be Paying Our Friends To Babysit?
They’re doing well financially and love your kid — should you still offer money? Also; tips on giving complements to mascs and butches.
I’m 34 and Want Kids. Is It Ethical To Eliminate Older Women From My Dating Pool?
What’s the best way to approach dating when you’re looking to co-parent? And is “looking for younger women” one of those ways?
A Queer Tarot Reading for if You’re Feeling Weird About Summer’s Eventual End
What will the nearing end of summer and the start of fall bring? Cowboy Clairvoyant has some insights.
Must I Invite My Homophobic Stepdad To My Homosexual Wedding?
He was awful when you came out, but now he wants to COME OUT to your wedding. Also; how to friend an ex without sending mixed signals.
The Formerly Poly Fortysomethings Who U-Hauled Into The Best, Wettest Sex Of Their Lives
“I just remember how covered in sawdust we were. And I lost a sock at the bathhouse. It was kind of chaotic.”
I Was Already Afraid of My Inbox. Then a Death Threat Came
The deadline for my compliance with the “blackmail” had already passed. It was supposed to be noon.
Can’t a Lesbian Enjoy a Little Straight Porn Around Here?
Your best friend is shaming you for the kind of porn that gets you off. Also; tips on having more threesomes.
The Married New Englanders Debating an Erotic Tattoo Gun Situation
“We used a lot of different toys in the beginning, and I think that was because I personally had a lot of toys that I wanted to share with you to be like, ‘Is this cool?’
How To Choose Between Two Paths Using the Tarot
We’ve all been faced with the challenge of deciding between two paths. Here’s a practice that can help.
How Do I Talk To My Family About Harry Potter?
How do you talk to your family about JK Rowling’s transphobia? And what to do about your poly kinky friend who seems bored by your monogamous life?
The Slut4Slut Couple F*cking Through a “Wanna Try” List
“I think at the top of the list is rope. But that one’s harder ‘cause you can’t just try it, you need to know what you’re doing.”
AF+ Crossword Is In Vogue
Welcome to the club, kids!
Should I Cut My Maternity Leave Short To Help My Coworkers?
Your wife thinks your maternity leave plan is “crazy.” Also, how to navigate potential imbalances in a slightly open relationship.
The Top-Leaning Switches Who Created a Sexual “Spirit Week” To Try New Kinks
“It’s not a role that comes naturally to me, so there’s a lot of trust and vulnerability built into it, but also I need to really believe it. Right? If you’re going to top me, top me. I don’t wanna have to convince myself.”
On Being a Masc Top From Rural Oklahoma
You’ve fucked every lesbian sorority girl in Oklahoma, someone tells me on an app. Well, I said. Probably not all of them, right?