Can’t a Lesbian Enjoy a Little Straight Porn Around Here?
Your best friend is shaming you for the kind of porn that gets you off. Also; tips on having more threesomes.
The Married New Englanders Debating an Erotic Tattoo Gun Situation
“We used a lot of different toys in the beginning, and I think that was because I personally had a lot of toys that I wanted to share with you to be like, ‘Is this cool?’
How To Choose Between Two Paths Using the Tarot
We’ve all been faced with the challenge of deciding between two paths. Here’s a practice that can help.
How Do I Talk To My Family About Harry Potter?
How do you talk to your family about JK Rowling’s transphobia? And what to do about your poly kinky friend who seems bored by your monogamous life?
The Slut4Slut Couple F*cking Through a “Wanna Try” List
“I think at the top of the list is rope. But that one’s harder ‘cause you can’t just try it, you need to know what you’re doing.”
AF+ Crossword Is In Vogue
Welcome to the club, kids!
Should I Cut My Maternity Leave Short To Help My Coworkers?
Your wife thinks your maternity leave plan is “crazy.” Also, how to navigate potential imbalances in a slightly open relationship.
The Top-Leaning Switches Who Created a Sexual “Spirit Week” To Try New Kinks
“It’s not a role that comes naturally to me, so there’s a lot of trust and vulnerability built into it, but also I need to really believe it. Right? If you’re going to top me, top me. I don’t wanna have to convince myself.”
On Being a Masc Top From Rural Oklahoma
You’ve fucked every lesbian sorority girl in Oklahoma, someone tells me on an app. Well, I said. Probably not all of them, right?
AF+ Crossword Is At the Salon
Always keeping it stylish
My Roommate’s Nudity Habit Is Weirding Me Out
Can you build healthy boundaries without body-shaming an unclothed roommate? Also can you teach a bad kisser to be a good kisser?
Cowboy Clairvoyant: A Queer Tarot Reading for Those Considering Breaking Up
Breaking up is hard to do, yes, but not impossible.
AF+ Crossword Has a Few Tricks Up Its Sleeve
Don’t blink or you might miss it!
Will Everyone Always Seem Second-Best to My Ex?
They checked every box, but now it’s over and nothing else seems to come close. Will it always be this way? Also, we help a reader decide if she should shave her bush just because someone asked her to.
A Breastfeeding Journey Of a Thousand Miles Begins With a Single Baby Step
“I woke up feeling like someone had run me over with a truck and I thought, “I guess this is motherhood.” And probably would’ve died thinking that.”
I Treat My Wife Like a Barbie Doll and She Likes It
Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya and Kristen Arnett discuss the sliding scale of gender expression and how a femme wife is like having an IRL Barbie.
AF+ Crossword’s Got a Real Jam Goin’ Down
And across, too!
I’m Moving In With My Ex-Situationship (Wait, There’s More)
She’s dating your bestie, still flirts with you, and you’re all three moving in together?! Also, a reader wonders if she’s really a lesbian if all of her exes came out as trans men.
To L and Back Podcast: Ultimatum Queer Love Edition, Episodes 208 – 210
We got the ‘To L and Back’ band back together to discuss the messy glory of ‘The Ultimatum: Queer Love’ — the pain, the glory, the tongue kissing in sushi restaurants and why Haley does NOT in fact owe Dayna an apology.
Every Al Pacino Movie Is Gay
The queerness of Pacino’s filmography is a reminder. While the media and your worst uncle claim the newness of queer and trans people, the truth is we have always been here. This cinema belongs to us as much as it does any straight film bro.