I Don’t Want To Get Pregnant but I Keep Dreaming I Am
Plus, dreams about a groundhog riding a bicycle, a house where everything is wrong, and more mystic musings.
The Anti-Uhaul Couple With a 22-Year Age Gap Who Used to F*ck in Cars
Don’t get me wrong — AJ and Natasha would still f*ck in a roomy SUV if absolutely necessary.
Dykes Discuss Apple TV’s ‘The Studio’
Two dykes discuss Apple TV+’s The Studio, their shared love of Seth Rogen, Chase Sui Wonders on Genera+ion, KATHRYN HAHN, and why Apple is anti-cigarette.
HELP! I’m Trapped in a Fartless Relationship!
Nearly two years of cohabitation and you still haven’t farted around each other?! Also, a reader’s gf might be exhibiting (and triggering) some disordered eating habits.
Are You Coming to Our ‘Yellowjackets’ Season Finale Virtual Watch Party Tonight?!
Yellowjackets is best watched in a hive, so won’t you join me?!
Out the Movies: Is Gay Sex a Radical Act?
Bruce LaBruce aims to rewrite a classic Pasolini film, but has queer sex lost its bite in this new context?
Our Birth Story Has Severe Features
Our birth story has everything: preclampsia with severe features, catheters, bloody explosions, ginger ale, nurses from heaven, a birthing ball used as a chair and the eventual debut of a really really cute little baby boy.
Cowboy Clairvoyant: A Queer Dream Interpretation Series
Members can submit dreams and tarot questions to be answered in this new weekly newsletter, COWBOY CLAIRVOYANT! Check out the first three dream interpretations!
My Girlfriend Hates That My Family Is White, But I Can’t Fix That
She roasts your family for being so white, and you’re like… yep we are, that’s true! So now what? Also, let us plan your trip to Italy!
I’m Afraid I Missed the Best Years of My Life
Your twenties weren’t carefree or slutty — are you too old to have fun now? Also, a reader’s unrequited high school crush is making them miserable.
Out the Movies: ‘Castration Movie’ and the Fallacy of Group Shame
That monologue from The White Lotus, a Torrey Peters novella, and Louise Weard’s lo-fi epic reveal who gets to be trans.
My Kink Is Humiliation, But I’m Too Ashamed to Try It
You want to try some consensual disrespect in bed, but then how could you face her the next morning?? Also, a reader is READY for a new hairstyle, so we help!
Dykes Discuss Steven Soderbergh’s ‘Black Bag’
Two dykes discuss Steven Soderbergh’s latest spy romance Black Bag, Cate Blanchett with dark hair, a new crush on Marisa Abela, the politics of spy movies, why Michael Fassbender shouldn’t get cast anymore, and the beauty of a 90 minute thriller.
How Should We Deal with My Fiancé’s Trumpy Dad on Our Wedding Day?
You’ve both got dads, but only want one of them to be involved on your wedding day, but like, without drama. Also, a reader wonders about sharing their erotica too soon.
Out the Movies: ‘Julia’ (1977) Wants Us To Do the Right Thing
A bisexual playwright, Nazi Germany, and two actresses who took a stand.
Letter From the Editors: We Want To Hear From You
Autostraddle is in a unique position to deliver news with a clear point of view and eye toward collective justice and challenging the status quo.
Dykes Discuss ‘The White Lotus’ Season Three
*Parker Posey Southern Accent* Three dykes discuss The White Lotus season three, pitch The White Lotus: Florida, thirst for Walton Goggins, and ask important questions, like: Monkeys…what do they know? Are they scary? Scarier than PANTHERS? How did we end up on panthers? Guess you’ll have to read to find out. Let’s DISCUSS.
Can We Make Sure This New Baby Doesn’t Torpedo Our Friendships?
How can you make sure you don’t under-prioritize your friendships after having a baby? Also, recommendations for wax play!
Newly Sober Girlfriend Is Harshing My Mellow
You’ve compromised for her, but she still judges you for smoking weed. Also, is this out-of-state queer wedding worth the PTO?
My Girlfriend Has Money to Spare, So Can I Ask for a Loan?
She knows you can’t afford the thing you need, but hasn’t even offered to help?! Also, we settle a debate about bookshelves!