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The Autostraddle Insider: Issue 49, September 2018

“also can you truly — in your true heart — think of a better headline than “i put a sheet mask on my cunt””

Riese September 28, 2018 34 Comments
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Into the A+ Advice Box #4: Non-Monogamy, Wanting What You Can’t Have, Yearning to Flee the Suburbs and More

We’re back with more questions than ever! And our team is here to give you advice on things like: sexy underwear for masculine-of-center folks, breaking sexual tension with a friend, how to move on from your one true love, how to get out of a professional rut and more!

the team September 26, 2018 21 Comments
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A+ Roundtable: Forgiven but Not Forgotten

Forgiveness may be an attribute of the strong, but we also have the memory of an elephant.

the team September 24, 2018 21 Comments
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A+ Sex Diary: Not Here for Love, But Let’s Flirt Forever

In this sex diary: Tinder spanking dates, post-breakup anxieties, sex in a tent, and a lot of thoughts on fucking your friends.

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Some Answers to Some Things You’ve Been Asking Us #21

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The Editors September 12, 2018 44 Comments
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A+ Roundtable: The Things We Did for the Money We Needed to Survive

Capitalism! So neat!

the team September 10, 2018 25 Comments
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The Autostraddle Insider: Issue 48, August 2018

“for a second i was like…………….did i break this channel
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A+ Roundtable: If I Could Take It All Back

“I never went into it planning to be a monster, and I think that actually always made it worse.”

the team August 27, 2018 24 Comments
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A+ Sex Diary: FaceTime Fucking and Feeling the Distance

In this queer sex diary: long-distance FaceTime fucking, a dish rack full of sex toys, feeling sad, feeling S.A.D., and feeling goofy and good.

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A+ Roundtable: Vice Squad

“Life is hard enough, let me have this.”

the team August 13, 2018 54 Comments
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A+ Roundtable: Our Tops, Our Bottoms, Our Switches, Ourselves

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Some Answers to Some Things You’ve Been Asking Us #20

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The Editors August 6, 2018 54 Comments
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A+ Roundtable: What’s Your Relationship Kryptonite?

What types of relationship situations or people are you often drawn to even though you know they’re bad for you and will destroy you?

the team August 2, 2018 72 Comments
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Into The A+ Advice Box #3: Summer Hookups, Bisexual Sadness and Gender Feelings

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Riese July 30, 2018 27 Comments
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The Autostraddle Insider: Issue 47, July 2018

“I DON’T KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT BEING INTENSELY EMOTIONAL OR BAD WITH BOUNDARIES SOUNDS FAKE”

Riese July 26, 2018 81 Comments
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For My Own Pleasure: Hiring a Sex Worker as a Queer Woman

“She kisses me. I hold on to her arms lightly, not wanting to hurt her, not wanting to weird her out, make her uncomfortable. She’s here for me: I’d hired her for exactly that, and she agreed to it, and she’s here.”

Creatrix Tiara July 24, 2018 39 Comments
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A+ Monday Roundtable: Dying a Million Lesbian Bed Deaths

Have you ever experienced bed death in your relationship? If you did move past it, how? Has bed death ever signaled the end of a relationship for you? Has a fear of bed death ever made an impact on your relationships? Do you think bed death isn’t a big deal and we should stop talking about it?

the team July 9, 2018 22 Comments
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A+ Sex Diary: Masturbation Challenge Accepted

In this sex diary: a single femme sets herself a masturbation challenge. New sex toys, late-night porn, learning to feel free and more.

Guest June 21, 2018 4 Comments
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The Autostraddle Insider: Issue 46, May / June 2018

“a line of topless queers at the nude beach, but from the back
they’re all different sizes and shapes and abilities and it gives the impression that the entire queer community gets along and loves each other”

Riese June 19, 2018 43 Comments
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