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A+ Roundtable: The Things We Carry

“I bring my favorite pen everywhere so I never have to use any other pen besides this pen.”

Feature for A+ Member 35% Off Sale. Besides that text, also shows a white person with shoulder length brown hair wearing a Bette for president tee and a backwards baseball cap and holding up a drill

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A+ Members Get 35% Off The Autostraddle Store This Pride!

Join A+, get deep discounts.

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AF+ LGBT Pride

Our A+ Pride Pop-Up Discord Server Is Happening Now!!!

Meet your fellow members! Do it!

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Member2Member Advice: Pod Swap

Members, come share your podcast and Youtube recommendations with each other!

This is a collage of the same photo three times. Amanda and Laneia lie down next to each other, with Amanda lifting the camera to take a picture of both of them while Laneia kisses Amanda's head. Amanda is white, has a visible fox tattoo, has dark short hair and is wearing sunglasses. Laneia has blonde short hair, no glasses, and is wearing a dark crocheted top.

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Interview With My Girlfriend: Amanda

“I never really wanted to move in there and be like, “Hey son,” you know? That’s my stepdad voice.”

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Into the A+ Advice Box #61: When Should a Person Cut Off Given Family?

Being in your 30’s with no queer dating experience, packing a carry-on for a long-distance date, dealing with astrology if you don’t believe in it, and more!

12 images of Autostraddle team members are collaged together. Kayla stands in a bathing suit on the beach, Riese poses with Carol and a friend on a hike, Drew eats ice cream sitting at the beach, Nicole climbs over a field of boulders, Ro deals with the wind on a roof, Viv poses by a giant rock Georgia O'Keefe sculpture, Darcy lounges in a pool among trees, Carmen smiles outdoors at a rainbow flag painted intersection, Tracy sits in the Philadelphia magic gardens, Anya poses in front of blooming trees, Abeni lies in a hammock outdoors, and Vanessa poses with Zucchini the dog outdoors by a stream

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The Autostraddle Insider Issue 92: May 2022

“ANYWAY YEAH come get a scorpion!”

This feature image is made up of one image that is flipped and doubled on the other side, creating a mirror effect. The photo is of Analyssa and Courtney at Gay Asstrology. Analyssa is a a young latinx person with shoulder length brown hair, wearing shorts and a navy shirt with a jean jacket around her waist. She is leaning back against a bright and colorful background of rainbow streamers. Courtney is a white woman, and in front with short black hair, wearing all black with red lipstick, and giving double V for Victory signs with her fingers.

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Interview With My Ex: Courtney

“Isn’t it funny how much Facebook used to play a role in flirting?”

Vanessa and PB pose in front of a pool in bathing suits, wearing sunglasses. Vanessa's sunglasses are red and heart-shaped. PB's are clear with greenish lenses. PB is white and has blonde hair that is long on top and under a hat with a swoop of bangs visible and with shaved sides. Vanessa is also white with long brown hair she is wearing up.

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Things I’ve Never Asked My Girlfriend About Wildflowers, Baby Names and Time Travel

“Why do you think it took us so long to get together as girlfriends considering we’ve been friends for almost a decade?”

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AF+ Love + Sex

Intimate Geographies: The Ecstasy of Filth

No one had ever made me feel small before, but Alice was six-two and could lift me like I was a potted plant.

in this collage piece, two fat, Black femmes post behind a foregrond of collaged foliage and in front of a background of shimmering and textured blue colors. The person on the left has her hair in a protective style and is wearing a green top with cut-outs, and posing with her arms above her head. In the background, a femme with long loose hair poses with her hand on her hip, wearing a satiny, black two-piece outfit.

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Editor’s Notes: On the Fat Femme Fashion Series

“It’s no secret that I am a big fan of Dani Janae, so when she came to me with a pitch about a roundtable conversation on fat fashion the answer was of course a large and resounding YES!”

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The Autostraddle Team Maysturbation Survey Results Are In!

Our favorite fantasies, how often we masturbate, unexpected items we do the job with, and more!

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Into the A+ Advice Box #60: SEX

A+ Member sex questions — from spanking to long-term relationship sex — answered!

Heather and Stacy are pictured in photo repeated eight times in a grid pattern. In the photo, Heather, a soft butch white woman wearing black rimmed glasses and a beanie, kisses Stacy, a white woman with light brown hair, on the cheek. They are both smiling and both look happy. You can see string lights glowing behind them..

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Interview With My Wife: Stacy

“Well, we first bonded over Naomily.”

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A+ Roundtable: Sex With an Ex

“I’m sure you’re shocked to hear that it did not work out well for me!”

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Member2Member Advice: GARDENING

Members helping members to grow plants!

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A+ Sex Diary: Crushing and Fantasizing; Sex Becomes About Escape

“I love it, especially when it’s close up…it’s like I can almost taste it.”

A woman leans he head back against a wall, her face furrowed in frustration. On top of the image, text reads: Into the A+ Advice Box

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Into the A+ Advice Box #59: You Love Her But There’s No Passion

What do you do with your facial hair, how do you make friends in your 30’s, where is your motivation these days, how do you cope with your wife breaking things off, with an unhealthy friendship, with changes in your sexuality? The team answers these questions and so many more!