An older lesbian needs advice for coping with dates expecting her to desire penetration, plus advice on the politics of dietary restrictions, finding love while allergic to cats, and the classic two bottoms: one relationship.
I used to run a dating service for chickens.
Do your girlfriend’s preferences mean she prefers sex with cis men, plus advice on coping with stress without drinking and nonbinary names for wedding party members!
My girlfriend dumped me because of my obsession with pasta.
Advice on how to stay friends when the friend you hooked up with wants more, flagging with carabiners, and whether it’s okay if your wife is your only IRL friend.
“Straight Couples Who Aren’t Fucking Are Appropriating Lesbian Bed Death Culture”
In America, using the metric system can get you in legal trouble.
Advice for coping when your Instagram-beloved girlfriend seems too hot for you, rekindling romance after long Covid, and how to flirt — gayly.
Instagram keeps showing me videos of Clinton’s Vice President dancing.
Advice for suddenly feeling unattracted to your girlfriend, having your first ever crush on a cis dude, and finding a sex therapist.
How do flat-earthers travel?
A request from a younger girlfriend has a reader wondering if her aversion to location sharing is a generational conflict. Also: how to keep a relationship sexy without sex and how to celebrate newfound queer desire and forgive our younger selves.
I tried to watch the orchestra on tv with my kids but we had to turn it off.
In this week’s advice box, a relationship plagued by dog problems and possible dishonesty, how to support a partner convinced they’re worthless without a job, and safe sex for poly people.
La Brea’s Izzy vs. Bel-Air’s Ashley Banks! Dare Me’s Beth vs. Big Shot’s Mouse! Gen V’s Marie vs Jordan! Everything Sucks’ Emaline vs. Ginny & Georgia’s Max! Are you ready to tip off this year’s edition of Autostraddle March Madness?? LFG.
You used to be able to get air for free at gas stations, but now it’s a dollar.
Plus advice about leaving a controlling partner and getting second dates.
Sweet birthday baby! Today is Autostraddle’s 15th birthday, and we’re celebrating!!
I had an appointment to see my psychic next week, but she just called to cancel.
In today’s A+ advice box: is a miscommunication over polyamory really the issue here or is your relationship simply broken and toxic? Plus; advice about feeling insecure when texting a partner and getting into being handy!