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The Autostraddle Insider: Issue 63, November 2019

“Lol yes just got off work and ready for dyke shit”

Riese November 30, 2019 6 Comments
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34 Excerpts from KaeLyn’s Quarter Life Crisis Livejournal, 2005-2007

“Sometimes I just want to light an entire pack of cigarettes, put them in my mouth and run around naked.”

KaeLyn November 27, 2019 12 Comments
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AF+ Meet-Ups / Events The L Word: Generation Q

A+ Members! We Have Tickets for the “To L and Back” event just for you!

On December 4th, “To L and Back” is doing a live recording in Los Angeles with the cast of “The L Word: Generation Q” and we’d love to see you there!

Sarah November 22, 2019 18 Comments
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The Autostraddle Insider: Issue 62, October 2019

“Queer culture is being stressed about the Supreme Court AND being stressed about your ex texting you to see how you’re feeling about the Supreme Court.”

Riese October 31, 2019 20 Comments
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The Autostraddle Insider: Issue 61, September 2019

“hey i’m adding the search terms to the newsletter and just curious, what is “gazelle style sex”??????”

The Editors September 30, 2019 59 Comments
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Into the A+ Advice Box #9: Supporting Your Local Bisexual, Getting Your Girlfriend to Talk to You, and More!

First of all: Clean your sex toys! Also: homophobia at your day job, supporting your friend when they leave an abusive relationship, and how to start dating when… you’ve absolutely never dated before.

the team September 24, 2019 5 Comments
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Some Answers to Some Things You’ve Been Asking Us #26

The one with the Anne of Green Gables fanfic in it.

The Editors August 30, 2019 26 Comments
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The Autostraddle Insider: Issue 60, August 2019

“to be extremely fair i’d let bette porter run me over with a honda”

The Editors August 27, 2019 38 Comments
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The Autostraddle Insider: Issue 59, July 2019

“megan rapinoe’s leather shorts and a tux jacket ONLY look is exactly what a 7 year old might negotiate to be able to wear to a fancy thing, and i love it.”

Riese July 31, 2019 54 Comments
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Into the A+ Advice Box #8: Coming Out to Your Kid, Casual Hookups Galore, and So Much More!

This Month: Proper protocol for casual sex with strangers, combating internalized fatphobia, lots of trans feelings, and how to apologize when its 100% your fault. Plus, what to do when it’s time to divorce him and come out already!

the team July 25, 2019 34 Comments
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Some Answers to Some Things You’ve Been Asking Us #25

Can we please get a “sustainability dyke” pin? I would love that so much.

The Editors July 2, 2019 48 Comments
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The Autostraddle Insider: Issue 58, June 2019

“Where do we stand on my confetti canon? Should I bring it to camp?”

Riese June 30, 2019 20 Comments
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NSFW PHOTOESSAY: CRUEL TO BE KIND

These photos investigate the connection between pleasure and pain, and how kink can blur the line between where the body ends and the brain begins.

Candy Feit June 19, 2019 12 Comments
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Monday Roundtable: Sex in the Great Outdoors

Having sex outside of buildings! Have you ever? We sure have!

the team June 17, 2019 17 Comments
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The Autostraddle Insider: Issue 57, May 2019

“can we call lesbian visibility day lesbian brigadoon”

Riese May 27, 2019 34 Comments
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Into the A+ Advice Box #7: Gender Neutral Parent Names, So Many Questions about Crushes, and More!

Highlights include: going down while wearing a nose ring, surviving the United States as a queer immigrant, living on the same college campus as your ex, and also how to perfectly time your break up. That’s just the beginning!

the team May 2, 2019 23 Comments
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The Autostraddle Insider: Issue 56, April 2019

“SHIT WAS GAY HEATHER
SHIT HAS BEEN GAY”

Riese April 30, 2019 38 Comments
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The Autostraddle Insider: Issue 55, March 2019

“i do love that you are holding barefoot wine in that nervous breakdown picture”

Riese March 31, 2019 18 Comments
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Some Answers to Some Things You’ve Been Asking Us #24

“It’s adorable that you thought this book with this premise might have anyone who *isn’t* a lesbian in it!”

The Editors March 30, 2019 38 Comments
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10 Queers on How the F*ck We Deal With Our Exes

“I want to treat everyone who has ever mattered to me with respect, and with a baseline kindness. I know not all my exes feel I’ve done that, but I have always tried.”

the team March 21, 2019 15 Comments
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