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The Autostraddle Insider: Issue 51, November 2018

“we’re naked the whole time but somehow it is not hot and more sad than anything else”

Riese November 29, 2018 37 Comments
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A+ Sex Diary: Fucking an Ex and Feeling Myself

Welcome to A+ Sex Diaries, an A+ feature in which we publish seven days in our sex lives. This week: a mid-twenties femme juggling multiple long-distance relationships hooks up with her ex.

Guest November 20, 2018 6 Comments
AF+

A+ Members: Jumpstart Holiday Shopping With 20% Off Autostraddle Merch

We’ve got huge markdowns all over the Autostraddle store right now and if you’re an A+ member, you are REALLY in luck because you’re getting yet another markdown that’ll last all week!

Riese November 14, 2018 9 Comments
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Some Answers to Some Things You’ve Been Asking Us #22

“All horror is queer culture, as is Halloween as you correctly stated, and the 1970s in general, AND all final girls are queer culture in a very specific way that can only be discussed when you’re extremely high during a full moon.”

The Editors November 13, 2018 39 Comments
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The Autostraddle Insider: Issue 50, October 2018

“always happy for the opportunity to turn our community’s collective missteps into content”

Riese October 31, 2018 26 Comments
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A+ Sex Diary: Tender Pervert

In this sex diary: sleepy sexting, long-distance travel, midnight fisting, lots of messes and more.

Guest October 18, 2018 8 Comments
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A+ Mini-Roundtable: Oh, This Old Thing? It Used to Belong to My Ex

Finders keepers…

the team October 8, 2018 34 Comments
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The Autostraddle Insider: Issue 49, September 2018

“also can you truly — in your true heart — think of a better headline than “i put a sheet mask on my cunt””

Riese September 28, 2018 34 Comments
AF+

Into the A+ Advice Box #4: Non-Monogamy, Wanting What You Can’t Have, Yearning to Flee the Suburbs and More

We’re back with more questions than ever! And our team is here to give you advice on things like: sexy underwear for masculine-of-center folks, breaking sexual tension with a friend, how to move on from your one true love, how to get out of a professional rut and more!

the team September 26, 2018 21 Comments
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AF+ Issues

A+ Roundtable: Forgiven but Not Forgotten

Forgiveness may be an attribute of the strong, but we also have the memory of an elephant.

the team September 24, 2018 21 Comments
AF+ Community

THIS WEEKEND ONLY: All A+ Members Get 10% Off In The Autostraddle Store!

Yes it’s true! Happy shopping!

Sarah September 21, 2018 6 Comments
AF+

A+ Sex Diary: Not Here for Love, But Let’s Flirt Forever

In this sex diary: Tinder spanking dates, post-breakup anxieties, sex in a tent, and a lot of thoughts on fucking your friends.

Guest September 13, 2018 12 Comments
AF+

Some Answers to Some Things You’ve Been Asking Us #21

How do you make a gif? I need a gif of Shane saying “where do you LIVE Mark??” Do you know the scene Im talking about?

The Editors September 12, 2018 44 Comments
AF+ Issues

A+ Roundtable: The Things We Did for the Money We Needed to Survive

Capitalism! So neat!

the team September 10, 2018 25 Comments
AF+

The Autostraddle Insider: Issue 48, August 2018

“for a second i was like…………….did i break this channel
with my confession”

Riese August 31, 2018 27 Comments
AF+ Issues

A+ Roundtable: If I Could Take It All Back

“I never went into it planning to be a monster, and I think that actually always made it worse.”

the team August 27, 2018 24 Comments
AF+ Sex

A+ Sex Diary: FaceTime Fucking and Feeling the Distance

In this queer sex diary: long-distance FaceTime fucking, a dish rack full of sex toys, feeling sad, feeling S.A.D., and feeling goofy and good.

Guest August 15, 2018 5 Comments
AF+ Issues

A+ Roundtable: Vice Squad

“Life is hard enough, let me have this.”

the team August 13, 2018 54 Comments
AF+

A+ Roundtable: Our Tops, Our Bottoms, Our Switches, Ourselves

*Law and Order sound* these are our stories — Autostraddle staffers share how they personally identify (or don’t!) and why.

the team August 7, 2018 20 Comments
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Some Answers to Some Things You’ve Been Asking Us #20

“Sally? Sally, are you here? Are you selling those shirts?”

The Editors August 6, 2018 54 Comments
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