Please Stop Telling My Older Girlfriend Not to Date Me
How to cope when social commentary has your older girlfriend wondering if she’s a pervert for dating you. Plus, what if your brother’s line in the sand is not yours?
I Tried To Watch Every Lesbian Movie Ever
By the time I’d been out for two years, I’d seen more movies about cis lesbians than any of the cis lesbians I was meeting.
Our Best Memories With Our Worst Exes
Even bad relationships contain good memories.
How To Welcome Joy When It Feels Impossible
Cowboy Clairvoyant answers your questions for the tarot and provides a ritual for joy.
AF+ Crossword Is So Back
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She Won’t Date Me Because I Cheated on Someone Years Ago — Ok Miss Perfect!
She dumped you after finding out you cheated on a past girlfriend! Also, how can you interact with straight women without seeming like a man-hating lesbian?
I Regret To Inform You That Our Baby Will Be Throwing Up On Your Shirt
At first you don’t really know which of the baby’s behaviors are going to be a Thing and which are just the music playing in the lobby before you sit down for the show. But it seems like most people’s babies have a Thing.
Black Moon Lilith 101: The Astrology That Defines Your Queer Villain Era
Learn all about Black Moon Lilith, the part of your birth chart that chooses freedom over conformity.
The Married LA Parents Who Are Getting Off Up to 7 Times
These two started out as strictly hooking up for the sex, and now they’re finishing each other’s sentences. This is how they f*ck.
What Does It Mean To Dream About Alien Abduction?
I’d like to start off by saying that I’m certain I dreamt of my ex at least once before I ever met or knew of them.
Capitalism Is a B*tch, but I Can’t Help My Friends Anymore
Should you keep recommending your friends for jobs, when they keep dropping the ball? Also, we help a reader whose younger friend isn’t taking their dating advice.
Out the Movies: Times I’ve Been Wrong
I’ve been publishing my thoughts on film and television since 2018 and it’s inevitable my perspectives have shifted.
A Lifetime of Needles
I got my first trans surgery a couple months ago, and I went into FFS with as much curiosity about the experience as I had excitement for the results.
WHY Do I Keep Dreaming of My Ex Who I No Longer Speak To?
Cowboy Clairvoyant quit their federal job (in real life! not a dream!) and now they’re here to tell you what it means to dream about a no-contact ex, defeating a villain, and a tower. Plus, the tarot provides some guidance for love.
Literally Dreaming About Sex With My Ex
The sex you’re having now is fine, but the sex with her was incredible (unfortunately). Also we help a reader whose girlfriend won’t stop singing show tunes!
Step Into The Parlour, a Queer Shared Diary
The Parlour is a new weekly newsletter and column for paid members that invites you into a space for unfiltered, of-the-moment queer slice-of-life writing. Think of it like a diary passed between your favorite queer writers!
I Don’t Want To Get Pregnant but I Keep Dreaming I Am
Plus, dreams about a groundhog riding a bicycle, a house where everything is wrong, and more mystic musings.
The Anti-Uhaul Couple With a 22-Year Age Gap Who Used to F*ck in Cars
Don’t get me wrong — AJ and Natasha would still f*ck in a roomy SUV if absolutely necessary.
Dykes Discuss Apple TV’s ‘The Studio’
Two dykes discuss Apple TV+’s The Studio, their shared love of Seth Rogen, Chase Sui Wonders on Genera+ion, KATHRYN HAHN, and why Apple is anti-cigarette.
HELP! I’m Trapped in a Fartless Relationship!
Nearly two years of cohabitation and you still haven’t farted around each other?! Also, a reader’s gf might be exhibiting (and triggering) some disordered eating habits.