I Suddenly Hate Aging and It Makes Me Feel Like a Bad Lesbian
I don’t know when I became a vain person, but I swear I used to be better. Becoming a competitive athlete in my thirties has not helped.
The Monogamous Newlyweds in Jersey City Who Might Be Open to a Threesome
Marin and Leigh are in their early thirties, don’t really wear heels (but could probably make it work), and still really love sex in a car!
AF+ Crossword Is Craving Pizza Rolls For Some Reason
And also trying to enroll in French classes…?
Is There a Chill Way To Tell Your Girlfriend They Smell Bad?
This is a touchy subject! What should you say? When should you say it? Also, how to deal with body dysmorphia on video calls.
Why Do I Define Transness By Rejection?
My trans story is no longer one of romantic rejection and yet these films are still where I project connection.
Dykes Discuss ‘The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives’
Two lesbian “scholars” of reality television weigh in on season two of The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives. Who’s the best villain? Who seems GAY? Let’s discuss.
Queer Tarot Reading: What Summer Has in Store for Your Love Life
Plus, ever dream about cults? It might mean it’s time for you to break free of social conformity and embrace difference.
AF+ Crossword Gets Snarky
Fastest solver gets a prize!
Hold Up, Can My Friend Date My Ex?
She broke your heart and now she’s dating your friend and everyone says it’s 100% legal, like what the fuck. Also, we help a reader gently set some misophonia boundaries with a loud eater!
Working Girls: Luxury Escort Charlie Levine on the Rise of Women Clients In Sex Work
“Women are so socialized — successfully or not — to be objects of desire, not subjects of desire, on a sexual marketplace.”
The Mid-30s Divorcées Who Once Built a Sex Throne
From the friend zone to the throne room, a tale as old as time.
What Do Dreams About Snake Bites Mean?
Plus, dreams about owls, exes (always), and some words of wisdom for your week.
AF+ Crossword Has Joined a Fantasy League
Mostly because a “snake draft” sounded kind of hot.
Please Stop Telling My Older Girlfriend Not to Date Me
How to cope when social commentary has your older girlfriend wondering if she’s a pervert for dating you. Plus, what if your brother’s line in the sand is not yours?
I Tried To Watch Every Lesbian Movie Ever
By the time I’d been out for two years, I’d seen more movies about cis lesbians than any of the cis lesbians I was meeting.
Our Best Memories With Our Worst Exes
Even bad relationships contain good memories.
How To Welcome Joy When It Feels Impossible
Cowboy Clairvoyant answers your questions for the tarot and provides a ritual for joy.
AF+ Crossword Is So Back
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She Won’t Date Me Because I Cheated on Someone Years Ago — Ok Miss Perfect!
She dumped you after finding out you cheated on a past girlfriend! Also, how can you interact with straight women without seeming like a man-hating lesbian?
I Regret To Inform You That Our Baby Will Be Throwing Up On Your Shirt
At first you don’t really know which of the baby’s behaviors are going to be a Thing and which are just the music playing in the lobby before you sit down for the show. But it seems like most people’s babies have a Thing.