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Interview With My Ex-Girlfriend: Brittny

“I think it’s a pretty good reason to break up with somebody. Moving and getting knocked up.”

Chelsey July 9, 2015 45 Comments
AF+ Lesbian Weddings

Love & Canada: The Waiting Is The Hardest Part

“When I woke up Saturday I was going to get a lot of stuff done and I was just pretty focused on that and by mid Sunday afternoon I had cried for about 12 of my weekend waking hours.”

Ryan Yates July 8, 2015 118 Comments
AF+

Attention A+ Members: We’ve Got A Form and a Survey For You

If you never got your A+ sticker or t-shirt, we’d like to fix that this week! Also, we’ve got an A+ member survey we’d love for you to fill out to help us make A+ EVEN MORE AWESOME.

the team July 3, 2015 26 Comments
AF+

Interview With My Ex-Girlfriend: Pate

“I mean you can’t just have a keychain that says ‘stud muffin’ and not admit that you have a girlfriend.”

Dannielle July 2, 2015 11 Comments
AF+

The A+ Bee Issue 22: The QTPOC Speakeasy Takeover

Get your Drakecast, some serious love-filled Missed Connections and a good dose of Speakeasy live in this edition of the A+ Bee. Also, we threw in the Christina Aguilera’s Dirty video just for funs.

gabby July 1, 2015 11 Comments
AF+ Lesbian Weddings

Love & Canada: My Lesbian Immigration Marriage Feelings, Part 1

The thing about my future immigration marriage is that it’s an immigration marriage but not an IMMIGRATION marriage. I still don’t want to know what save the dates are though.

Ryan Yates July 1, 2015 61 Comments
AF+

A+ Podcast Episode Four: The Baby Queer Years

Our baby queer years were a confusing yet special time in our lives with lots of mishaps talking to girls in bars, exploring the lesbian internet, coming out to friends and navigating our first loves. Get in here and listen to the latest A+ Podcast!

the team June 25, 2015 12 Comments
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Autostraddle Insider: Issue Twelve, June 2015

“Like did women get yeast infections and UTIs on the Oregon trail and if so wtf did they do about it.”

Riese June 23, 2015 101 Comments
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Out of the Ashes: Rebuilding a Relationship With My Dad

“If you’d told 17-year-old-me that in 2015, I’d be standing in Target, picking out a Father’s Day card or crying while dancing with my Dad at my wedding, I would’ve laughed in your face.”

Mari Brighe June 21, 2015 27 Comments
AF+

A+ Bee Special Edition: A Swarm of A-Camp Bees

Missing camp? Missed camp? This issue is for you!

Chelsey June 10, 2015 27 Comments
AF+

30 Excerpts From Heather’s Diary, 2010-2012

She’s like, “What do you want from a partner in bed that you’ve never had before?” And I’m like, “Reading a book while she’s reading a book and nobody’s talking.”

Heather Hogan June 4, 2015 31 Comments
AF+

The A+ Bee Issue 21: Bee Sheets To The Wind

This issue includes Laura and Luna gracing us with their ethereal presences, Dear Sour with tips on the best meal to eat on a full moon, the Pretty Little Liars caught in quite a scrape, and the Twin City straddlers hanging out and being adorable (per usual).

Chelsey May 27, 2015 20 Comments
AF+

The Autostraddle Insider: Issue Eleven, May 2015

Sneak peaks for days, Brittani’s special workout recommendation, Stef’s pursuit of ERW, Rachel’s trip to Madison, early requests for AS 1.0 and so many more things you care deeply and passionately about!

Riese May 22, 2015 33 Comments
AF+

The A+ Bee Issue Twenty: Going Platinum

This issue has a picture of Stef’s cat eating lasagna, the triumphant return of Laura and Luna, the Cincy straddlers being adorable, and so much more! Grab some tea and get in here!

Chelsey May 13, 2015 38 Comments
AF+

23 Excerpts from Rachel’s Diary, 2013-2015

“i cried for an hour and then had three glasses of wine and yelled at the contestants on Chopped”

Rachel May 7, 2015 17 Comments
AF+

A Million Red Flags: My Polyamory Failure

What happens when first love and first heartbreak features a cast of three.

Stef May 4, 2015 51 Comments
AF+

13 Excerpts From Stef’s Super Secret 8th Grade Diary

“Life sucks.. I don’t know what to talk about. This journal is the absolute truth, and I have nothing to say. Sure, all the big stuff happened. I own a cigarette lighter, cut a class, drank a beer, wore blue lipstick, etc.”

Stef April 30, 2015 40 Comments
AF+

The A+ Bee Issue Nineteen: I Feel You In My Heart and I Don’t Even Know You

This issue includes an epic long-spanning interview with Heather’s disinterested cat Quasar, a crossword puzzle that doubles as an eye test, and a Thelma and Louise playlist for riding in cars with girls.

Chelsey April 29, 2015 20 Comments
AF+

Say My Name, Mey’s My Name

The journey to finding and deciding on my real name, Melinda Valdivia Rude, took about four years.

Mey April 27, 2015 51 Comments
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The Autostraddle Insider: Issue Ten, April 2015

“Ugh I’m gonna run through the six with my woes and it’s gonna be so good for instagram.”

the team April 22, 2015 77 Comments
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