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The eight couples featured in this round of voting, all kissing: Miranda and Che, And Just Like That; Jackie and Leslie, Hightown; Candace and Lilly, Astrid & Lilly Save the World; April and Sterling, Teenage Bounty Hunters; Quinn and Isabela, Harlem; Fabiola and Eve, Never Have I Ever; Jamie and Dani, The Haunting of Bly Manor; Sabi and Olympia, Sort Of
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Instead of opening up these First Four match-ups to the whole wide web, as we usually do, we’re going to start here… with the members who power this community year-round.

Natalie March 8, 2023 11 Comments
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Are You Pumped? Our 14th Birthday A+ Ask-Us-Anything IS NOW

Our fingers are ready! (To answer your questions!)

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A+ Crossword Is Going Back to Windows 95

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A+ Roundtable: The Team Secretly Told Each Other Which 3 Characters Describe Them

“Christina is, energetically, equal parts over-the-top gay man and elder straight woman.”

the team March 3, 2023 48 Comments
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The Autostraddle Insider Issue 101: February 2023

Can we open it with “The Paris Review can blow us” and then just like…not explain?

The Editors February 28, 2023 27 Comments
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Behind the Scenes: The Autostraddle Black Elders Interview Project

“You and I are family.”

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A+ Crossword Is Faking It Until She Makes It

What type of music is scary for birthday balloons?

brooke February 25, 2023 9 Comments
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Some Answers to Some Things You’ve Been Asking Us #46

I don’t know who needs to hear this today, but I dreamed that the New York Times put a paper grocery bag of 9 kittens on every doorstep to promote subscriptions.

The Editors February 24, 2023 23 Comments
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A+ Roundtable: The Weirdest Songs We’ve Fucked To

The vibes are So Off.

the team February 22, 2023 32 Comments
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A+ Crossword Is a Varsity Player

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the team February 17, 2023 14 Comments
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Interview With My Fiancé: Kristen

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Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya February 14, 2023 35 Comments
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A+ Crossword Is in Your Top 8

How do you make holy water?

Rachel February 11, 2023 19 Comments
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Interview With My Girlfriend: Gretchen

We had a kickball game and I said, “if we win, we can talk about what this is. And if we lose, then we continue hooking up and we don’t have to talk about it.”

Riese February 8, 2023 38 Comments
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A+ Crossword Has a Layover in Chicago

I recently went to the “World’s Tiniest Wind Turbine” exhibit.

Rachel February 4, 2023 16 Comments
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Into the A+ Advice Box #77: Should You Co-Parent With Your Queer Friends?

Plus self-harm scars and dating, crushing hard on your married coworker, learning to celebrate yourself and more!

the team February 3, 2023 32 Comments
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The Autostraddle Insider Issue 100: January 2023

“what if autostraddle just became a mariah carey fansite”

The Editors January 31, 2023 43 Comments
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A+ Crossword Has Some Explaining to Do

Head’s up! There’s a hell of an editor’s note in here, so gird those loins.

brooke January 28, 2023 26 Comments
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