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The Comment Awards Are Asking: Are You The One?

“I went out last night with another Rachel…it wasn’t super awkward until she told me her ex’s name is Rachel.”

Darcy September 13, 2019 7 Comments
Community

Insta Crush: Jamie Thrower, the Fat Femme Behind Studio XIII Photography, Creates Visual Love Letters to Our Community

“I believe that stepping in front of a camera is one of the most vulnerable things you can do, and so I want everyone who allows me the honor of photographing them to feel celebrated and seen and loved.”

Vanessa September 10, 2019 1 Comment
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OneTable and A-Camp Team Up to Create a Meaningful Shabbat Experience for Queer Jewish Adults

If you want to build community with Jewish queers by hosting a regular Shabbat dinner practice, OneTable is a non-profit organization that can help you achieve your dreams!

Vanessa September 10, 2019 1 Comment
Straddleverse

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: A Virtual Grease Bats Book Party and Community Love Fest

A book party, you ask? For whom? For what? For Archie, I exclaim back! For our own Archie Bongiovanni, and for this here comic we have on Autostraddle dot com called Grease Bats!

A.E. Osworth September 6, 2019 81 Comments
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Know Love Is Not A Lie

“Does this mean Stef is now eligible to be featured on No Filter?”

Darcy September 6, 2019 23 Comments
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How REI Prepared Us for the Zombie Apocalypse and Built Community in the Woods at A-Camp

“I was so excited to see REI was a sponsor for A-Camp, as it confirmed for me they put their money where their mouth is, doing actual work to support and include communities we don’t often see represented in the outdoor space.”

Vanessa September 5, 2019 6 Comments
Straddleverse

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: Let’s Get Messy

Maybe messy is a naturally queer state of being. Or maybe I’m gross. Either way, come hang with me!

KaeLyn August 30, 2019 55 Comments
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Having Drama! In! Spaaaaaace!

“I can’t get wifi in my backyard, but they have it on the SPACE STATION?”

Darcy August 30, 2019 11 Comments
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PHOTOESSAY: Women Run the Show at Yola Día 2019

“So many women were able to see their music icons in a lineup where they weren’t the minority. That just doesn’t happen at large scale mainstream festivals.”

Reneice Charles August 29, 2019 7 Comments
Culture

Insta Crush: Gender Reveal Podcast Centers Nonbinary and Trans Voices, Is Living the Queer Dream

“I believe that creating affirming and diverse trans community is literally life-saving work, and I want everyone to stay alive and maybe even flourish.”

Vanessa August 27, 2019 5 Comments
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Straddleverse

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: Let’s Talk About The Pros of Queer Cons

Let’s talk about queering up conventions through cosplay, art, and more!

Valerie Anne August 23, 2019 38 Comments
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Running For Mayor Of Los Angeles

“Leia…I am your mommi.”

Darcy August 23, 2019 36 Comments
Straddleverse

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: Let’s Talk About Sleep, Because It Can Be Really Hard!

I have an embarrassing confession: every time I’m single I have insomnia.

Drew Burnett Gregory August 16, 2019 83 Comments
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Having a Hot Girl Summer

Real talk, I’ve gotten a boyfriend and two girlfriends just by saying, “do you wanna make out?”

Darcy August 16, 2019 30 Comments
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Insta Crush: WMN Zine Wants To Hear From Rural Dykes ASAP!

The theme for the first issue is Seasons of a Dyke. Deadline to submit is Thursday, 8/15. See what it’s all about!

Vanessa August 13, 2019 3 Comments
Straddleverse

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: What’s The Best Advice You’ve Ever Received?

One piece of good advice can change the world. Chin up, loves.

Reneice Charles August 9, 2019 56 Comments
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Eating Juicy Peaches

*THIS* is how you party in Mykonos.

Darcy August 9, 2019 27 Comments
Community

An Autostraddle and A-Camp Apology and Action Plan

Autostraddle’s editors are eager to continue to learn from our mistakes and keep striving to make Autostraddle a space where everyone under the LGBTQIA+ umbrella feels seen, heard, represented, and safe.

The Editors August 5, 2019 149 Comments
Straddleverse

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: Tell Me Your Travel Horror Stories

I know there are some of you out there who have been dumped on vacation and, like, you don’t have to talk about it, but also I do have questions.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya August 2, 2019 67 Comments
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Posting The Very Best Thirst Traps, TYVM

“I posted that photo just to be included in No Filter.”

Darcy August 2, 2019 22 Comments
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