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a black and white photo of Barbara Johnson, a Black woman and elder, is the center focal point of this collage. Beautiful collaged items including newsprint, colors, squiggles, and lines surround her. She's wearing a sweatshirt that says Brooklyn on the front.
Community LGBT History

“I Don’t Want To Be Forgotten”

“So I just accepted the fact that I truly was gay. I had to be gay. That was my acceptance of myself. I made an announcement in my own head that I was a gay woman.”

Sa'iyda Shabazz February 27, 2023 8 Comments
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Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Back on the Apps

“Can someone make an app for that, please? We can call it SPIT!”

Darcy February 24, 2023 5 Comments
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Community Health

Practical Magic: COVID Is Here to Stay — So What Does It Mean to Keep Each Other Safe?

We can be more thoughtful about how we interact with others during these enduringly uncertain times.

himani February 23, 2023 76 Comments
The flag of Trinidad and Tobago waving in the wind.
Culture

My Queer Return to Trinbagonian Carnival

Queerness exists in a paradoxical space in Carnival culture — ever-present but still hidden.

Amy Li Baksh February 20, 2023 11 Comments
a black and white photo of Malcolm Reid, a smiling Black gay man and elder, is the center focal point of this collage. Beautiful collaged items including newsprint, colors, squiggles, and lines surround Malcolm.
Community

“I Needed To Create Something To Save Myself… That’s What I’ve Done”

“Ain’t nobody trying to slow down! Life is fun. Keep doing it.”

shea wesley martin February 20, 2023 25 Comments
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Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Love You, And You, And You, Forever!

“Does this mean I’m fulfilling a lifelong dream in which not only am I NOT a danger with a bow and arrow, but actively skilled?”

Darcy February 17, 2023 7 Comments
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Culture

What Embracing My Soft Life Era Really Means

Living a soft life doesn’t mean I’ll live one free from strife or pain, rather I’m living a life that invites those emotions in.

Brittany J. February 15, 2023 4 Comments
a black and white image of DonnaSue, a Black butch elder, is at the center of this collage. the artist has layered newsprint, paper, and lines over the photo to create a gorgeous playful picture of DonnaSue
Community LGBT History

“Mother Has Lived, What Can I Say?”

DonnaSue Johnson describes herself as a “big, black, beautiful, Bohemian, bougie, Buddhist butch.”

danijanae February 13, 2023 15 Comments
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Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Writing Fanfiction About Dana Scully

“Can’t wait for the Daddy quiz and to see what all the pairings become!!!”

Darcy February 10, 2023 2 Comments
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Now A+ Members Can Take shea’s “Writing Yourself Home” Workshop at Your Own Pace

Writing Yourself Home is a special generative workshop for writers of all ages that honors the complexities of what constitutes “home.”

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February 10, 2023 5 Comments
a black and white photo of Donald Bell, an older Black man with a beard and a large smile. Behind Don is a gorgeous collage filled with yellows, blacks, blues, and reds.
Community

“And I Said to God, Isn’t Being Black Enough? Do I Have To Be Gay Too?”

“The truth of our history is that gay, lesbian, and gender-expansive people were normal and recognized in the Black community.”

shea wesley martin February 6, 2023 20 Comments
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Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Both Fascinating and Slightly Unhinged

“So proud that my wife Natasha Lyonne is fathering children with Drew Barrymore, who has been an agent of queer chaos since she turned Darlene Connor gay in Poison Ivy.”

Darcy February 3, 2023 7 Comments
a black and white photo of Ray Gibson, a Black trans man and elder, is the center focal point of this collage. Beautiful collaged items including newsprint, colors, squiggles, and lines surround Ray.
Community

“I Didn’t Know Trans Men Existed Until I Saw Chaz Bono on Dancing With the Stars”

This year, the Autostraddle team decided to focus our Black History Month coverage on the Black elders who are still here and still doing the work. We welcome our readers to celebrate these members of the Black LGBTQ+ community with us.

Sa'iyda Shabazz February 1, 2023 60 Comments
This image features a giant 3D tongue art installation that used to hang at Carol's Speakeasy. The lips are red and shiny, the teeth are large and white, and the tongue is pink and sticking out of the mouth. Five queer volunteers at the archive pose around the tongue, smiling and laughing with this piece of queer history.
Community Culture

Queer Archivists and Library Workers on Archival Materials That Meant a Lot to Them

“We’ve always struggled but we’ve also always had culture and community, I think that those just mean a lot to me, also that we’ve always been funny.”

Lindsay Eanet January 31, 2023 4 Comments
a white hand holds a button that reads "It's A Great Day To Be Gay," and we can tell they're in the archives, with many books and bookshelves behind them
Community Culture

Learning From Queer Libraries and Archives in a Time of Erasure

As legislatures and hate groups seek to censor and erase queer and trans lives and experiences, these spaces, be they physical or digital, housed in universities or grassroots-led, are perhaps more important than ever.

Lindsay Eanet January 31, 2023 10 Comments
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Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Splitting Wood With a Sword Like A Lesbian Avenger

“Cannot believe the M3gan sequel is not called Meg4n!”

Darcy January 27, 2023 3 Comments
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Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Buzzing With Antici-p-p-pation

“I’m shipping you and Tasha!”

Darcy January 20, 2023 11 Comments
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Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are a Nonbinary Bonbon

“Mrs. Peacock with the tuxedo jacket in the bedroom is how i die.”

Darcy January 13, 2023 5 Comments
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Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Leaving Space for the Great Unknown

“Finley may only have 11 numbers in her phone, but one of them is Rebecca!”

Darcy January 6, 2023 3 Comments
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Straddleverse

Autostraddle Editors Select Their Favorite 2022 Posts — That They Had Nothing to Do With

Telling our stories, on our terms, requires so much love. And we are so honored to do it. We hope to make you proud.

Carmen Phillips and The Editors
December 30, 2022 4 Comments
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