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a black and white photo of Malcolm Reid, a smiling Black gay man and elder, is the center focal point of this collage. Beautiful collaged items including newsprint, colors, squiggles, and lines surround Malcolm.
Community

“I Needed To Create Something To Save Myself… That’s What I’ve Done”

“Ain’t nobody trying to slow down! Life is fun. Keep doing it.”

shea wesley martin February 20, 2023 25 Comments
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Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Love You, And You, And You, Forever!

“Does this mean I’m fulfilling a lifelong dream in which not only am I NOT a danger with a bow and arrow, but actively skilled?”

Darcy February 17, 2023 7 Comments
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Culture

What Embracing My Soft Life Era Really Means

Living a soft life doesn’t mean I’ll live one free from strife or pain, rather I’m living a life that invites those emotions in.

Brittany J. February 15, 2023 4 Comments
a black and white image of DonnaSue, a Black butch elder, is at the center of this collage. the artist has layered newsprint, paper, and lines over the photo to create a gorgeous playful picture of DonnaSue
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“Mother Has Lived, What Can I Say?”

DonnaSue Johnson describes herself as a “big, black, beautiful, Bohemian, bougie, Buddhist butch.”

danijanae February 13, 2023 15 Comments
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Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Writing Fanfiction About Dana Scully

“Can’t wait for the Daddy quiz and to see what all the pairings become!!!”

Darcy February 10, 2023 2 Comments
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Writing Yourself Home is a special generative workshop for writers of all ages that honors the complexities of what constitutes “home.”

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February 10, 2023 5 Comments
a black and white photo of Donald Bell, an older Black man with a beard and a large smile. Behind Don is a gorgeous collage filled with yellows, blacks, blues, and reds.
Community

“And I Said to God, Isn’t Being Black Enough? Do I Have To Be Gay Too?”

“The truth of our history is that gay, lesbian, and gender-expansive people were normal and recognized in the Black community.”

shea wesley martin February 6, 2023 20 Comments
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Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Both Fascinating and Slightly Unhinged

“So proud that my wife Natasha Lyonne is fathering children with Drew Barrymore, who has been an agent of queer chaos since she turned Darlene Connor gay in Poison Ivy.”

Darcy February 3, 2023 7 Comments
a black and white photo of Ray Gibson, a Black trans man and elder, is the center focal point of this collage. Beautiful collaged items including newsprint, colors, squiggles, and lines surround Ray.
Community

“I Didn’t Know Trans Men Existed Until I Saw Chaz Bono on Dancing With the Stars”

This year, the Autostraddle team decided to focus our Black History Month coverage on the Black elders who are still here and still doing the work. We welcome our readers to celebrate these members of the Black LGBTQ+ community with us.

Sa'iyda Shabazz February 1, 2023 60 Comments
This image features a giant 3D tongue art installation that used to hang at Carol's Speakeasy. The lips are red and shiny, the teeth are large and white, and the tongue is pink and sticking out of the mouth. Five queer volunteers at the archive pose around the tongue, smiling and laughing with this piece of queer history.
Community Culture

Queer Archivists and Library Workers on Archival Materials That Meant a Lot to Them

“We’ve always struggled but we’ve also always had culture and community, I think that those just mean a lot to me, also that we’ve always been funny.”

Lindsay Eanet January 31, 2023 4 Comments
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Community Culture

Learning From Queer Libraries and Archives in a Time of Erasure

As legislatures and hate groups seek to censor and erase queer and trans lives and experiences, these spaces, be they physical or digital, housed in universities or grassroots-led, are perhaps more important than ever.

Lindsay Eanet January 31, 2023 10 Comments
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Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Splitting Wood With a Sword Like A Lesbian Avenger

“Cannot believe the M3gan sequel is not called Meg4n!”

Darcy January 27, 2023 3 Comments
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Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Buzzing With Antici-p-p-pation

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Darcy January 20, 2023 11 Comments
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Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are a Nonbinary Bonbon

“Mrs. Peacock with the tuxedo jacket in the bedroom is how i die.”

Darcy January 13, 2023 5 Comments
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Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Leaving Space for the Great Unknown

“Finley may only have 11 numbers in her phone, but one of them is Rebecca!”

Darcy January 6, 2023 3 Comments
A collage of Autostraddle images from 2022: a young Black trans kid with make up, a surreal piece of art from Diner Week, Syd's Broken Hearts Club album cover, and an image of Brittney Griner smiling.
Straddleverse

Autostraddle Editors Select Their Favorite 2022 Posts — That They Had Nothing to Do With

Telling our stories, on our terms, requires so much love. And we are so honored to do it. We hope to make you proud.

Carmen Phillips and The Editors
December 30, 2022 4 Comments
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Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Eating Cheese and Contemplating Existence

“Not my gay ass thinking that by caroling I thought you meant… watching Carol?”

Darcy December 30, 2022 1 Comment
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Community Holigays

What Brought You Joy This Year?

This is a New Year’s Eve Roundtable and Open Thread Situation!

the team December 30, 2022 9 Comments
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Culture

During Times Like This, We All Need Somewhere Good

As Twitter crumbles, I hope we all end up somewhere where we feel affirmed and joyful.

shea wesley martin December 30, 2022 1 Comment
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Autostraddle’s Most Popular Stories of 2022

From Generation Q to football gays, Stardew Valley to The Golden Girls, these were our most read posts of 2022.

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