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Straddleverse

Who Else Is Going To Publish a History of Lesbian Cheerleaders?

At a small, indie operation like Autostraddle, I can say that the more funds we raise, the less we have to remain hyper-vigilant about our own survival, the more we can concentrate on the core of our work, the sooner I can get these projects out into the world, the more I can do the kind of erotic-academic work I love to do.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya March 22, 2023 12 Comments
Four photos of comedians with a brick wall in the background.
Culture

Four Femmes on the Celebrations and Expectations of Being A Trans Woman In Comedy

“Once I hit 37, I officially stopped giving a fuck about what anyone thought — outliving your life expectancy makes it real easy to not care.”

Rowan Zeoli March 21, 2023 4 Comments
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Straddleverse

Together, How Far Can We Go?

You all have never, ever raised money for Autostraddle this quickly.

Nico March 21, 2023 12 Comments
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Last Chance to Sign Up for In-Person Meetups: Chicago, Columbus, Orlando and Pittsburgh!

Mark your calendars and get ready to meet fellow members in your city!

Nico March 20, 2023 4 Comments
the brown and white comment dog, peering over their laptop with the words "hey did you see that comment?" the background is light blue, and there are a variety of hand-drawn pets, coins, and dollars in honor of this week's fundraiser.
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Riding the Lesbian Party Bus

“I still wear my actual red Straddle This boxers!!”

Darcy March 17, 2023 27 Comments
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Straddleverse

The Little Things Matter

It’s complicated (or at least, it’s by design) that underneath structures of capitalism, queer independent media is never intended to survive.

Carmen Phillips March 17, 2023 13 Comments
a collage of the various fundraiser perks items along with cartoony illustrations of various autostraddle pets
Straddleverse

Save an Indie Queer Media Site, Get Cool Perks for Hot Gays

I don’t know sounds like a deal to me!

Nico March 16, 2023 24 Comments
against a background of MS paint style autostraddle animals including Carol and an open laptop with a cat lying on it is a bunch of cartoon money. In a rainbow gradient, the words The Autostraddle Fundraiser 2023 are set large and centered
Straddleverse

We Need You To Buy Us Some Time Before Time Runs Out

If we don’t get the money we need, we’ll be gone before Pride.

Nico March 15, 2023 117 Comments
a chaotic image with an ms paint style cat and two dogs on it - including carol. the cat is heather's cat dobby. there is a rainbow bar chart, illustrations of money, and several other mathematical looking charts.
Straddleverse

Yes, Fundraising Is Part of Our Business Model: Here’s Why

Here are updates to our current financial situation. Still, the essentials of everything we’ve been saying for years are true. Fundraising is a part of our business model!

Nico March 15, 2023 72 Comments
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Meet-Ups / Events

TWO Yellowjackets Watch Alongs for A+ Members!

Join us for a rewatch this Thursday March 16th and a Premiere Watch-Along Friday March 24th!

Nico March 14, 2023 11 Comments
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Culture

Four Comedians On How Their Transness Has Informed and Influenced Their Careers

“I would much rather be funny than inspirational”

Rowan Zeoli March 14, 2023 9 Comments
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Meet-Ups / Events

A+ Book Club for Finding the Fool: A Tarot Journey to Radical Transformation

With author and Autostraddle writer, Meg Jones Wall!

Nico March 12, 2023 10 Comments
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Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Bubbly Inside and Out

“‘Raw-dogging some pre-pickles in a Sodastream’ made me spit take my very boring Diet Coke.”

Darcy March 10, 2023 4 Comments
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Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are All Lit Up Inside

“I came for the lights and left wanting to know more about your Disney villain mom!”

Darcy March 3, 2023 6 Comments
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Culture

Moon Lesbian Flag, Explained

There is a Pride flag called the Moon Lesbian Flag, meant as a contrast to the Sun Lesbian Flag, which is different entirely from the standard Lesbian Pride Flag. Let’s investigayte.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya March 3, 2023 43 Comments
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Meet-Ups / Events

Get Pumped: Our 14th Birthday A+ Ask-Us-Anything is on March 7th!

An annual, chaotic tradition.

Nico March 2, 2023 3 Comments
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Community LGBT History

“I Don’t Want To Be Forgotten”

“So I just accepted the fact that I truly was gay. I had to be gay. That was my acceptance of myself. I made an announcement in my own head that I was a gay woman.”

Sa'iyda Shabazz February 27, 2023 8 Comments
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Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Back on the Apps

“Can someone make an app for that, please? We can call it SPIT!”

Darcy February 24, 2023 5 Comments
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Community Health

Practical Magic: COVID Is Here to Stay — So What Does It Mean to Keep Each Other Safe?

We can be more thoughtful about how we interact with others during these enduringly uncertain times.

himani February 23, 2023 76 Comments
The flag of Trinidad and Tobago waving in the wind.
Culture

My Queer Return to Trinbagonian Carnival

Queerness exists in a paradoxical space in Carnival culture — ever-present but still hidden.

Amy Li Baksh February 20, 2023 11 Comments
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