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Is it Gay?

Shows tend to debut with gay men who clearly identify as such and do incredibly slow burns for the self-discovery or reveal of gay women.

Riese March 27, 2023 25 Comments
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Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Definitely Not Cannibals

“Loved this and love being part of the cool club of Black queers obsessed with sad white man music!”

Darcy March 24, 2023 3 Comments
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TONIGHT! Watch the Yellowjackets Premiere With Us

Stingers up!

Nico March 24, 2023 2 Comments
Kristen Arnett, a white butch human with long straight brown hair and glasses is drawn in an MS paint style in three separate images. In the farmost left one, they are wearing a blue button up and gazing thoughtfully off to the left. In the center one, she is wearing a tank, some necklaces and rings and looking awesome. All the way to the right, he is sticking their tongue out all the way revealing a tongue ring while wearing a Jaws tee shirt. illustrations of money rain down in the background
Straddleverse

Queerness Is Messy, I Am Messy and That’s a Very Good Thing

It would have been impossible for me to write the novels and stories that I’ve created without the help of Autostraddle.

Kristen Arnett March 23, 2023 18 Comments
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Straddleverse

Who Else Is Going To Publish a History of Lesbian Cheerleaders?

At a small, indie operation like Autostraddle, I can say that the more funds we raise, the less we have to remain hyper-vigilant about our own survival, the more we can concentrate on the core of our work, the sooner I can get these projects out into the world, the more I can do the kind of erotic-academic work I love to do.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya March 22, 2023 12 Comments
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Four Femmes on the Celebrations and Expectations of Being A Trans Woman In Comedy

“Once I hit 37, I officially stopped giving a fuck about what anyone thought — outliving your life expectancy makes it real easy to not care.”

Rowan Zeoli March 21, 2023 4 Comments
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Straddleverse

Together, How Far Can We Go?

You all have never, ever raised money for Autostraddle this quickly.

Nico March 21, 2023 12 Comments
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Last Chance to Sign Up for In-Person Meetups: Chicago, Columbus, Orlando and Pittsburgh!

Mark your calendars and get ready to meet fellow members in your city!

Nico March 20, 2023 4 Comments
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Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Riding the Lesbian Party Bus

“I still wear my actual red Straddle This boxers!!”

Darcy March 17, 2023 27 Comments
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Straddleverse

The Little Things Matter

It’s complicated (or at least, it’s by design) that underneath structures of capitalism, queer independent media is never intended to survive.

Carmen Phillips March 17, 2023 13 Comments
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Save an Indie Queer Media Site, Get Cool Perks for Hot Gays

I don’t know sounds like a deal to me!

Nico March 16, 2023 24 Comments
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Straddleverse

We Need You To Buy Us Some Time Before Time Runs Out

If we don’t get the money we need, we’ll be gone before Pride.

Nico March 15, 2023 117 Comments
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Straddleverse

Yes, Fundraising Is Part of Our Business Model: Here’s Why

Here are updates to our current financial situation. Still, the essentials of everything we’ve been saying for years are true. Fundraising is a part of our business model!

Nico March 15, 2023 72 Comments
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Meet-Ups / Events

TWO Yellowjackets Watch Alongs for A+ Members!

Join us for a rewatch this Thursday March 16th and a Premiere Watch-Along Friday March 24th!

Nico March 14, 2023 11 Comments
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Culture

Four Comedians On How Their Transness Has Informed and Influenced Their Careers

“I would much rather be funny than inspirational”

Rowan Zeoli March 14, 2023 9 Comments
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Meet-Ups / Events

A+ Book Club for Finding the Fool: A Tarot Journey to Radical Transformation

With author and Autostraddle writer, Meg Jones Wall!

Nico March 12, 2023 10 Comments
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Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Bubbly Inside and Out

“‘Raw-dogging some pre-pickles in a Sodastream’ made me spit take my very boring Diet Coke.”

Darcy March 10, 2023 4 Comments
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Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are All Lit Up Inside

“I came for the lights and left wanting to know more about your Disney villain mom!”

Darcy March 3, 2023 6 Comments
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Culture

Moon Lesbian Flag, Explained

There is a Pride flag called the Moon Lesbian Flag, meant as a contrast to the Sun Lesbian Flag, which is different entirely from the standard Lesbian Pride Flag. Let’s investigayte.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya March 3, 2023 43 Comments
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Meet-Ups / Events

Get Pumped: Our 14th Birthday A+ Ask-Us-Anything is on March 7th!

An annual, chaotic tradition.

Nico March 2, 2023 3 Comments
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