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Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Foraging for Mushrooms

“Don’t talk to me or my 23,000 sexes until you’ve had a nice long think about cisnormativity.”

Darcy November 11, 2022 6 Comments
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Straddleverse

I am a Sucker for Romantic Comedies

“The dapper Black girl that danced and sang about the future had led me to a new corner of the universe and I was smitten.”

shea wesley martin November 11, 2022 5 Comments
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Straddleverse

Writing for Autostraddle Helped Me Find the Words for My Real Coming Out

“To come into myself, to really integrate my queerness as an essential part of myself, I needed to start telling the stories I had been holding in for so long.”

himani November 10, 2022 8 Comments
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Straddleverse

It Was Like Living on the Moon

“It was like needing food, and eating a pile of smooth, round stones instead. It was almost a life.”

Darcy November 9, 2022 14 Comments
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Straddleverse

Ten Things I’ve Learned In My Four Years at Autostraddle

“I would rather the limitations be financial than be limits on my work, my voice, my personhood.”

Drew Burnett Gregory November 8, 2022 14 Comments
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Straddleverse

I Focused My Time on Proving Her Wrong

“I remember telling my girlfriend at the time, ‘I’m going to write for them some day,’ to which she replied, ‘You can try but it’s pretty competitive. I don’t think you’ll ever be good enough to write for them.'”

Em Win November 7, 2022 7 Comments
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Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Puzzling It Out

“My first attempt was actually cara-bi-ners, before I realized the dashes were there for a reason!”

Darcy November 4, 2022 5 Comments
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Straddleverse

Do You Love Queer Books?

I want fewer queer books slipping through the cracks.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya November 4, 2022 35 Comments
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Right The Heck Now: You, Us, the A+ Pop-Up Discord?

Join us! Plus there’s a hang with the senior team on Friday!

Nico November 3, 2022 2 Comments
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Should We Have an A+ Meetup in Providence, RI Next Week? Discuss!

On Monday???

Nico November 2, 2022 30 Comments
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Straddleverse

WHAT In the Queer Media Happened You All!?!??

No, this is UNHEARD OF.

Nico November 2, 2022 28 Comments
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Halloween Straddleverse

Fright Dyke Has a Message for the Final Gays

Are the lights on?

Fright Dyke October 31, 2022 4 Comments
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Straddleverse

This Is a Highly Serious Post

Who wouldn’t love to see the AS senior staff sit in a bathtub of cold legumes, just for the sheer hell of it?

Sally October 30, 2022 6 Comments
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Meet-Ups / Events

Next Weekend: You, Us, the A+ Pop-Up Discord?

And a hang with the senior team on Friday!

Nico October 29, 2022 3 Comments
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Straddleverse

Your Comments Showed Me I Wasn’t Alone

“Sharing my stories with that audience never felt right — I always felt like I was explaining, never that I was just telling my truth.”

Sa'iyda Shabazz October 29, 2022 3 Comments
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Straddleverse

How To Blow Up Your Life

I thought that by 35, I’d be married. I thought by 35, I’d have kids. I thought I’d be straight.

Carmen Phillips October 28, 2022 18 Comments
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Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Releasing the Bees

“How is Bud Lite like having sex in a canoe?”

Darcy October 28, 2022 8 Comments
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Straddleverse

STILL HERE AND QUEER AFTER ALL THESE YEARS — Queer Media Needs Your Help!

“This is the most urgent I have ever felt”

Nico October 27, 2022 29 Comments
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Culture

Today I Wondered Why AFAB Was Trending on Twitter

Did I figure it out?

Nico October 27, 2022
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A+ Read a Fucking Book Club Q&A with Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya

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Nico October 25, 2022 6 Comments
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