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Call for Submissions: The Outsiders Issue

Our spring issue wants you to get outside and find the rest of us, or yourself, or the history of a people, or something else we’ve never seen! Deadline for submissions is midnight April 26th.

Riese April 11, 2019 40 Comments
Straddleverse

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: Happy National Poetry Month, Let’s Share Our Favorite Poems!

“That’s how I participate in other people’s work. I carry it. The most important poems for us are the ones we carry.” – Ocean Vuong

A. Tony Jerome April 5, 2019 90 Comments
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards are Carolstraddling Into the Sunset

“Don’t c@ me.”

Darcy April 5, 2019 31 Comments
Community

Trans Day of Visibility: An Autostraddle Community Photo Gallery

Almost 100 amazing humans sent pictures for our #TransDayOfVisibility Community Gallery! Get in here and celebrate our lives!

Ari March 31, 2019 31 Comments
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Relishing the ’90s

If you wanna be my lover…

Darcy March 29, 2019 8 Comments
Straddleverse

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: Riding the Gender Roller Coaster

How did you realize and/or develop your relationship to your gender identity or gender presentation, if at all?

Archie March 29, 2019 73 Comments
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Smooching Stephanie Beatriz on Primetime

There are no accidents.

Darcy March 22, 2019 30 Comments
Straddleverse

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: What’s Your Attachment Style, Cutie Patootie?

Do you know about attachment styles? I previously did not. Is it like an astrology thing? Or a Myers-Briggs thing? Or an enneagram thing? No, it’s not. Also, yes, kind of. Come find out or just hang with me!

KaeLyn March 22, 2019 79 Comments
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Full Of Love

“I found Autostraddle while googling ‘how do you know if you should leave your girlfriend?’ And reader, I did leave her. And then I went to an Autostraddle meet-up and met the lady knight of my wildest dreams.”

Darcy March 15, 2019 20 Comments
Straddleverse

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: I Need Help, Tell Me All About Your Skin Care Routine!

I have to be very honest with you – I am not a Skin Care Gay…yet!

Vanessa March 15, 2019 102 Comments
Community

Be Part of Autostraddle’s Trans Day of Visibility Gallery!

Get your pictures to me by March 28!

Ari March 15, 2019 4 Comments
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The Autostraddle Yearbook: A Decade Of Gay Work

And so we talked all night about the rest of our lives…

the team March 11, 2019 86 Comments
Community

Are You 10 Years Ago

“everywhere i went i was protected. i was never in the dark. i was alone but i was never really alone because autostraddle was there.”

Emily March 8, 2019 18 Comments
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Making Bisque and Bingeing Derry Girls

“Thank you for blessing us with the phrase ‘kitchen top,’ because I think that’s my actual alignment.”

Darcy March 8, 2019 13 Comments
Straddleverse

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: When Did You Find Autostraddle And What Happened Next?

We’ve been here for 10 years! When did you join the party?

Vanessa March 8, 2019 101 Comments
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Bringing This Meeting of the Baby-Sitters Club to Order

“Hello, Baby-Sitters Club.”

Darcy March 1, 2019 15 Comments
Straddleverse Television

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: How Do You Feel About Literally All The Reboots On TV Right Now?

Let’s talk about reboots, remakes, and re-imaginings! And speculate wildly about the new L Word!

Valerie Anne March 1, 2019 66 Comments
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Do Not Want a Sex Button

“I love that someone actually answered that they’re a ‘soup chef’.”

Darcy February 22, 2019 26 Comments
Straddleverse

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: On Cats And Sunsets

One of my cats died suddenly two weeks ago, but I still have two perfect cats and get to experience the sunset every night, so everything is different, but I’m okay.

Ari February 22, 2019 48 Comments
Culture

Straight People Watch: Winter 2019

“Something I’m curious about is if straight coupling has always stood on a foundation of contempt. “

Erin February 21, 2019 77 Comments
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