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The Comment Awards Need a Poster of Megan Rapinoe

“If Katie McGrath could spend her one precious month of Supergirl hiatus to go on the other side of the globe, where every spider is a killer, to kiss women on screen again, I can face another day of my gay life.”

Darcy May 10, 2019 24 Comments
Straddleverse

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: Which Gay Superpowers Do You Want?

Let’s talk about big gay superpowers we’d want like being invisible to straight people or growing out undercuts in an instant.

Valerie Anne May 3, 2019 87 Comments
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Celebrating Carol Haird

“Please would you like to bang? I think you’re glorious.”

Darcy May 3, 2019 22 Comments
Straddleverse

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: What’s Your Karaoke Song?

Does anyone want to do some backup vocals for me on “Since U Been Gone”?

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya April 26, 2019 64 Comments
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Dating Their Doppelgängers

“Call me by my/your name.”

Darcy April 26, 2019 12 Comments
Culture

Lesbian Visibility Day 2019 Roundtable: Celebrating Our History and Our Future

“Society does not respect women, but that’s the whole thing about lesbianism. Women are literally the whole thing. Women are my foundation”

the team April 26, 2019 39 Comments
Straddleverse

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: Happy Almost 4/20, What’s Your Favorite Vice?

BLAZE ITTTTT!!! Happy Friday let’s talk about our vices!

Ari April 19, 2019 69 Comments
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Celebrating You, and Also These Butches

“Relationship Milestone: Buying a two-pack of coconut oil to make vegan gingerbread for her, then never hanging out again.”

Darcy April 19, 2019 19 Comments
Culture

Queer Women Truly Are More Likely to Be Tree-Hugging Hippies

“Although not all of us are saving our shower water to nourish the eggplants growing next to our chicken coop, our study and several others show that we are indeed more environmentally aware than our heterosexual counterparts.”

Riese April 18, 2019 7 Comments
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards are Scissoring in a Hammock in the Woods

“I didn’t know that all I wanted was a movie where lesbian Kate Winslet travels back in time for dinosaur adventures until I was misled by this graphic.”

Darcy April 12, 2019 10 Comments
Straddleverse

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: What’s the Most Incredible Thing You’ve Ever Eaten?

Let’s make this the most delicious Friday Open Thread this site has ever seen!

Reneice Charles April 12, 2019 37 Comments
Straddleverse

Call for Submissions: The Outsiders Issue

Our spring issue wants you to get outside and find the rest of us, or yourself, or the history of a people, or something else we’ve never seen! Deadline for submissions is midnight April 26th.

Riese April 11, 2019 40 Comments
Straddleverse

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: Happy National Poetry Month, Let’s Share Our Favorite Poems!

“That’s how I participate in other people’s work. I carry it. The most important poems for us are the ones we carry.” – Ocean Vuong

A. Tony Jerome April 5, 2019 90 Comments
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards are Carolstraddling Into the Sunset

“Don’t c@ me.”

Darcy April 5, 2019 31 Comments
Community

Trans Day of Visibility: An Autostraddle Community Photo Gallery

Almost 100 amazing humans sent pictures for our #TransDayOfVisibility Community Gallery! Get in here and celebrate our lives!

Ari March 31, 2019 31 Comments
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Relishing the ’90s

If you wanna be my lover…

Darcy March 29, 2019 8 Comments
Straddleverse

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: Riding the Gender Roller Coaster

How did you realize and/or develop your relationship to your gender identity or gender presentation, if at all?

Archie March 29, 2019 73 Comments
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Smooching Stephanie Beatriz on Primetime

There are no accidents.

Darcy March 22, 2019 30 Comments
Straddleverse

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: What’s Your Attachment Style, Cutie Patootie?

Do you know about attachment styles? I previously did not. Is it like an astrology thing? Or a Myers-Briggs thing? Or an enneagram thing? No, it’s not. Also, yes, kind of. Come find out or just hang with me!

KaeLyn March 22, 2019 79 Comments
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Full Of Love

“I found Autostraddle while googling ‘how do you know if you should leave your girlfriend?’ And reader, I did leave her. And then I went to an Autostraddle meet-up and met the lady knight of my wildest dreams.”

Darcy March 15, 2019 20 Comments
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