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Kamala, Carmen, Riese and Nicole are all on a video chat together, smiling. The photo is unstaged, a little grainy, a screen cap from the live event!
Straddleverse

Gay Agenda Recap and Transcript: Autostraddle’s Leaders Talk About the Vision!

We’re very serious gay professionals.

Nico August 28, 2020 5 Comments
A small, brown and white dog peeking over their laptop screen, with a caption that says "Hey did you see that comment?!"
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Kissing In Candlelight (Sadly, With No Dinosaurs)

“The world needs an all-queer band of string players called Homosexually Charged Violins now more than ever.”

Darcy August 28, 2020 9 Comments
the senior team freak out together about everything! from left to right, Heather, Sarah, Rachel, Carmen, Kamala, Nicole, Laneia and Riese express extreme elation
Straddleverse

You DID IT! See Our Slack Office Freak Out When We Met Our Fundraising Goal, and More!

You, our community, raised $118,000 for Autostraddle, for independent queer media, for our vision and goals for the future. And we want to celebrate YOU!

Nico August 24, 2020 22 Comments
A photo of Meg Elison holding up her book, the cover of the book is not clear to read but it has an aqua blue cover.
Culture

Chatting With Meg Elison About Investigating Rural Poverty in “Find Layla”

Elison’s latest novel, Find Layla, looks at the realities of poverty and neglect for teens in the age of social media.

Lauren Parker August 22, 2020 2 Comments
A small, brown and white dog peeking over their laptop screen, with a caption that says "Hey did you see that comment?!"
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are 69% Secure

“Oh, and the sex, obviously.”

Darcy August 21, 2020 18 Comments
A pinwheel collage with "It's Great to be Gay Day" written in multicolored letters against a black background in the middle. In the pinwheel are various lesbian, bisexual, and queer writers from Autostraddle. Each of their photos has been colorized to reflect a different color of a neon rainbow.
Community

Happy 2nd Annual “It’s Great to Be Gay” Day — We Sure Do Love Being Gay, And We Also Love You!

 Welcome to the second annual IT’S GREAT TO BE GAY DAY, an international holiday we invented… well, because we can. And also because EVERY SINGLE EFFING DAY!! is A GREAT DAY TO BE GAY! Here’s 20+ lesbian, bisexual, queer, trans, and non-binary humans telling you why the heck we love being exactly who we are.

the team August 20, 2020 27 Comments
A collage of the Autostraddle senior staff members in black&white cut outs against a neon, multi-colored stripped background. From left to right Riese, Nicole, Heather, Kamala, Carmen, Sarah, Rachel and Laneia look hopeful, excited, a little silly, a little elated.
Straddleverse

#1 Best Community Of All Time Raises $100k+ For Queer Media In Two Weeks

Y’all aren’t f*cking around — we’re almost to our goal! Also, you wrote some VERY cute tweets that we would like to review with the whole group.

Nico August 18, 2020 4 Comments
A small, brown and white dog peeking over their laptop screen, with a caption that says "Hey did you see that comment?!"
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Engaged to That Wife Who Loves Projects

“Marry me so we can live in a tiny house!”

Darcy August 14, 2020 9 Comments
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Straddleverse

Get These Limited Edition Fundraiser Perks While You Can!

Look at all the cool things you could buy during our last fundraiser of 2020! Get your holigay shopping done early! Tell a friend!

Laneia August 12, 2020 4 Comments
There are 8 squares, each featuring a senior team member jumping, looking earnest and silly. From left to right top, Sarah and then Riese both jump getting some serious air, Carmen stands delicately, Kamala jumps with her tongue sticking out. From left to right on the bottom, Rachel stands still, not jumping eyes closed and smiling, Nicole jumps but not as high as Sarah and Riese, Heather sits in a chair looking at the viewer and finally Laneia smiles with adoration and clutches her heart.
Straddleverse

You Got Us 45% of the Way There in 6 Days, Will You Get Us to 50% Today?

Hi hello fellow gays and queers, lesbians and bisexuals; it is Monday and look where we are! $53,713 of the way to our goal. That’s 45% in six days, people.

Nico August 11, 2020 10 Comments
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Culture

Future Present: Talking with Johanna Hedva About the Luxury of Our Needs

Why do we talk about care as a scarcity model? How do you live with ~the void~? How do we adjust to changing language for identity and in movements? Is America going to end in 2024? All this and more!

Rachel August 10, 2020 15 Comments
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Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Loyal and True

“James is a great man who let Bette Porter yell at him all the time and never complained. He was Bette’s most loyal bottom.”

Darcy August 7, 2020 3 Comments
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Culture

Culture Of Resistance: Tending The Garden, Ending Grind Culture

People who are overworked, under resourced and overwhelmed do not question, do not push back, do not revolt. How do we dismantle grind culture and cultivate a new culture of rest to collectively sustain our focus on the future?

LaLa Drew August 6, 2020 13 Comments
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Meet-Ups / Events Straddleverse

What’s On Our Gay Agenda? Ask Questions, Get Answers at Our Live Town Hall

Autostraddle leadership will your questions live (virtually) with our voices and faces! Ask about the vision, the fundraiser, what we’re planning, our favorite cookies — we want to hear from you and then talk to you through a screen!

Nico August 5, 2020 23 Comments
Straddleverse

New Vision for Us, New Perks for You: Autostraddle’s August 2020 Fundraiser is Here

If you’re asking “why fundraise now?” the answer is twofold.

Nico August 4, 2020 7 Comments
new editor-in-chief, kamala puligandla, sits her her hand on her knee, head resting on her fist and looks out into the distance. a graphic of yellow starburst pops behind her against a soft, mint green background
Straddleverse

Letter From the Editor: Fresh Vision for Autostraddle

The heart of my new vision for Autostraddle is pretty simple: make more space for lesbians and queer people — especially people of color — to be our entire selves and to be known for the multi-dimensional ways we move in the world. We are the ultimate authority on our culture, who we are and how we live. This is a home for us.

Kamala Puligandla August 4, 2020 5 Comments
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Studying Folklore

“There’s no way a straight person could yearn like Taylor Swift does.”

Darcy July 31, 2020 9 Comments
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Sobbing Over Gay Cartoons

“I too am in ‘active negotiations’ to include LGBT content in my holidays – by setting up an OkCupid profile.”

Darcy July 24, 2020 7 Comments
Community

Europe’s CuTie.BIPoC Festival Is a Life Raft in the Sea of Whiteness

CuTie.BIPoC Fest gives me hope that it’s possible for spaces to exist that don’t sit under a roof of white supremacy, patriarchy or capitalism.

Bailey July 20, 2020 4 Comments
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Nipple Confident

“I wish I were a Magnificent Melissa, but if we’re being honest, I’m at BEST a Smiling Rob.”

Darcy July 17, 2020 14 Comments
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