Sharing Is Caring: 10 Sex Toys Perfect for Couples This Valentine’s Day

This post is sponsored by Eve’s Toys.

Sex toys are a standby for solo sex for many of us, but they’re also a very cute couples look. Although you can have fun getting busy with a partner with any kind of toy you’re into, these toys designed specifically with couples in mind can leave you and your cutie feeling more satisfied than a Domino’s heart-shaped pizza this Valentine’s Day.

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Long-Distance Toys

WeVibe Rave (5% discount) and WeVibe Ditto (50% discount)

It’s hard not to be able to physically touch your sweetie when your relationship is long-distance, whether it’s indefinitely because you live far apart, for the length of a business trip, or because one of you is on a Costco trip that’s running very long. The Rave’s unique asymmetrical shape means it can stimulate a range of different erogenous zones or be used on the G-spot, and the Ditto is a beloved go-to vibrating anal toy; both can be controlled from a distance with the WeConnect app, allowing one partner to control the vibrations for another; our reviewer liked how the app’s built-in video and chat feature means “you can video or text chat with each other while fiddling with the settings without having to switch back and forth between apps.”

Short-Distance Toys

Club Vibe (20% discount) and Vibrating Panty (20% discount)

It can be super fun to spice up everyday couples activities, like going to the co-op for more oat milk or both avoiding reading your book club book, with a sexy secret like these vibrating panty options. The classic vibrating panty features an insertable, textured vibrator inside a g-string style panty, while the Club Vibe offers an external clit vibrator. Both have a remote control for you or a partner to control the discreet vibrator while you’re at the club, or while Karen explains her dietary restrictions to the server at lunch again.


Evoke Strapless (50% discount) and Strap U (50% discount)

There are as many ways to enjoy lesbian sex with a strap-on as there are ways to check your girlfriend’s ex’s instagram even though she has you blocked! That is to say, definitely a few. If you’re into strap-on sex where you can both enjoy penetration, there’s no cuter couples look than the Evoke strapless or the Strap U, with their carefully designed G-spot stimulating internal bulb, textured pad against your clit and removable bullet vibe.


Shi Shi Union (50% discount) and Embrace Body Wand (50% discount)

What’s a more time-honored lesbian couples activity than scissoring? Calling a pet psychic to find out why your cats don’t get along now that you’ve moved in together, but scissoring is a more fun activity for Valentine’s Day. The Shi Shi Union is specifically designed for scissoring, making it a unique option for lesbian couples; our reviewer wrote that if you’re “a fan of and expert at classic scissoring, then the [Shi Shi Union] might really rock your socks off.” Mixing up your scissoring experience by holding a rumbly wand massager between your bodies is a classic move, and the Embrace is a great choice; the second vibrating motor in the handle of the wand means you have a few different options for what fits between you and your partner best.

Satisfyer Toys

Satisfyer Multi-Funn (10% discount) and Satisfyer Couples (50% discount)

Satisfyer’s range of toys has something for everyone, even you and your girlfriend who cannot agree on where to order delivery from even after three years living in the same apartment. The flexible Multi Funn offers all kinds of stimulation for all kinds of bodies; the separate motors and controls mean there are a ton of options for you and a partner — up to 100 combinations! The Satisfyer Couples has the beloved air pressure wave suction sensation of the Satisfyer Pro along with an internal vibrating arm — designed to leave room for a partner to penetrate too. Both have more options for combinations of sensation than you’ll know what to do with, and you’re guaranteed to find something that works for both of you.

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